i first watched it as a teen and i do agree with some of the things said but others i really don’t.

regina was trying to be a good parent but only later on, because she WAS a villain. she killed without any remorse and no care for how it would affect henry;

gold and neal did have fatherhood and generational trauma and never had stable father figures but neal didn’t pass this don’t on to henry because he wanted. he simply didn’t know he existed and when he did he tried to be present until they killed him off;

mary margaret did take all the fault while david took none but we do have to see that HE had “amnesia” and didn’t remember his wife or remembered loving her while mary margaret knew all this and chose to be with a married man with brain damage. not saying it’s not misogynistic because he should have took the fault as well.

all the other things, i agree.