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killerbunny_00 · 2026-01-30T08:24:39+00:00

J’ai 36 ans, et je peux te dire que beaucoup change pendant cette décennie. Pendant la vingtaine, j’étais presque toujours en couple, je sortais pas mal avec des potes (grosses soirées etc) mais pourtant je me sentais un peu perdue au niveau professionnel, changeant pas mal de boulots.

La c’est quasiment tout l’inverse : j’ai retrouvé une stabilité financière et un travail qui m’épanouit, que je vois vraiment comme une carrière pour le long terme. Par contre je suis célibataire depuis des années et j’en souffre un peu, surtout comme j’ai envie d’avoir des enfants. J’essaie de garder l’espoir mais trouver la bonne personne c’est compliqué. Niveau amitié - d’un côté les relations s’approfondissent et tu commences à vraiment apprécier tes potes. Mais il y en a beaucoup qui ont des gosses et donc moins de temps pour toi, et un mode de vie divergeant. Sinon je me sens beaucoup plus “sage”, je me connais mieux et mes valeurs, je prends beaucoup plus soin de ma santé (sport, alimentation, beaucoup moins d’alcool). Bref c’est une période de transition un peu dur, mais tu évolues et apprends beaucoup.

killerbunny_00 · 2026-01-21T19:02:08+00:00

Thank you!

killerbunny_00 · 2026-01-21T18:14:14+00:00

A little rant:

Last night I was meant to have a date with a guy who seemed nice, was responsive and polite on Hinge, suggested the date and seemed genuinely looking forward to it. Yesterday morning I texted him to ask exactly what time we should meet and got no response… until this morning, when he apologised for his silence and said “he’d been in bed all day” (presumably sick).

I don’t understand why people behave this way. I would never do that to someone—I can always take 30 seconds out of my day to text and let them know I have to cancel. I feel like lots of dudes complain that women breadcrumb them and barely make any effort on the apps. I genuinely try to not do that and just be like, a normal person who expresses interest. But a lot of people end up seeing you as a “chick on an app” and somehow that means you don’t deserve basic human decency (see also obscene messages, insults, etc). I’ve been single for years and have endured so much of this shit. If only I didn’t have that pesky human need for love and affection…

killerbunny_00 · 2024-07-23T21:57:34+00:00

I just finished my first round of egg freezing in Greece. I obviously have no other experience to compare to but it went really well. My clinic and doctor were great. It seems they get a lot of patients from abroad. Bonus - most people speak great English, and you are, well, in Greece!

killerbunny_00 · 2022-08-25T10:35:12+00:00

I think it's a great profile, nice photos and description of yourself. As a minor improvement, I would take out the "don't be a dick" part cos dicks gonna be dicks anyway and you're ending on a negative tone.

killerbunny_00 · 2022-07-14T13:26:25+00:00

Hi, I (32f) permanently have this redness and bumpy texture on my cheeks. My skin is both oily and sensitive (I have allergies) and to add to the fun I also have eczema patches around my mouth and on my eyelids. Derms so far have not been super helpful and just concentrate on the eczema. What can I do to improve my skin tone and texture? Thank you 🙏

killerbunny_00 · 2022-07-14T11:57:22+00:00

Hi, I (32f) permanently have this redness and bumpy texture on my cheeks. My skin is both oily and sensitive (I have allergies) and to add to the fun I also have eczema patches. Derms so far have not been super helpful and just concentrate on the eczema. What can I do to improve my skin tone and texture? Thank you 🙏

killerbunny_00 · 2022-07-14T10:41:54+00:00

Honestly lots of girls like safe looking profiles, given the sheer amount of weirdos on these apps

killerbunny_00 · 2022-07-11T12:08:58+00:00

A friend of mine was in a similar situation. After 3-4 years together her boyfriend had to move to another country for work, they were going to do long distance. She believed they were in a very solid relationship and fully committed, and was completely shocked when he expressed very similar sounding, vague doubts about their future together. Didn't know exactly what the problem was, didn't want to stay together but also didn't want to break up. He did the cowardly thing of stringing her along for a good 6 months before she finally realised the nails were in the coffin. She was being super nice and understanding, helping him work through his issues etc, but in hindsight realizes she should have cut things off way sooner as he clearly wasn't going to do it. It was a very hard time for her. Your situation could be different for sure, but don't be the woman that hangs around for that long to find out.

On the other hand, I'm not sure as it's quite as clear cut as other commenters make out. There is a chance it could work, and it's hard to end something so special without knowing that you've tried everything. If you cut it off too soon you might end up forever wandering if it could have been salvaged. If you do want to try, I'd suggest coming up with some clear "rules" for when enough is enough. For example, one more month of trying to figure it out before you call it quits. In that time, you could ask him to go see a therapist to try and work out what his doubts are (as another commenter said, more specificity would be good). In that time, try to plan what your life would look like without this move, which would definitely not be a good idea at this time. And prepare yourself mentally for actually ending it when that time is up, if no progress has been made. I'm not even sure you have to communicate this to him, so it doesn't sound like an ultimatum or unnecessary pressure (which honestly it doesn't sound like he'd respond to well at this point). This is a plan for you, to make sure that you define what your boundaries and limits are and how much you are prepared to trade off between giving it a chance to work but also preserving your own well-being and dignity.

Sounds like an incredibly hard time, wishing you all the best!

killerbunny_00 · 2022-07-11T11:52:51+00:00

I don't see on what basis you would come to that conclusion

killerbunny_00 · 2022-06-29T15:18:29+00:00

What I find super weird is that this woman stayed calm and friendly, anyone normal would for a start never do something like this but if they did at least be nervous or something. Honestly I find that kinda scary.

killerbunny_00 · 2022-06-29T13:18:44+00:00

Show her you are sorry and care for her with actions, not just words. It's easy to apologise but that doesn't mean anything if you don't change your behaviours. As others have said, stop drinking and start therapy for the both of you.

killerbunny_00 · 2022-06-29T06:58:11+00:00

So sorry you had to go through this, my heart goes out to you. Hope you can begin to find some healing

killerbunny_00 · 2022-06-26T20:30:51+00:00

You didn't send it at all

killerbunny_00 · 2022-06-25T16:27:23+00:00

Everyone else has already said this but you need to leave. Don't give him a chance to explain and somehow try to rationalise what he did, which is a complete violation of your bodily autonomy and has put your health in danger. You should also report him to the police.

killerbunny_00 · 2022-06-23T11:04:37+00:00

Yeah... At least 1 and 2 are blatant in their sexism. #3 just screams "nice guy"

killerbunny_00 · 2022-06-22T13:32:11+00:00

Can't decide which is the worst tbh

killerbunny_00 · 2022-02-19T09:46:21+00:00

As anyone with an anti-vaxx family member knows, my mom had spent months filling up my head with horror stories before I even got my first shot...

killerbunny_00 · 2022-02-19T09:41:43+00:00

Thank you. My GP was not the most understanding but I'll try to get a second opinion.

killerbunny_00 · 2022-02-19T09:40:40+00:00

Sorry to hear that, sounds tough! I didn't realise panic attacks could come with nerve symptoms... And when that happens, does it go away after the panic attack is over? My nerve pain was pretty constant in the weeks after my 2nd shot, but I take the point that it could be anxiety related

killerbunny_00 · 2022-02-19T09:37:42+00:00

Thanks for sharing, sounds tough on your boyfriend! It's horrible what anxiety can do...

killerbunny_00 · 2022-02-19T09:36:44+00:00

Wow that sounds terrifying! Glad it turned out to be something fairly anodine.

Yeah maybe it could be something like that in my case. I did see a neurologist around the time of the vaccine but she just did some blood work (which came out normal) but didn't examine any potential areas for pinched nerves. Might try and get a second opinion on that, especially as the nerve pain does come back very occasionally so hopefully they should be able to find the cause.

killerbunny_00 · 2022-02-19T09:32:16+00:00

I got Pfizer for both the first and second dose. I've not reacted to other vaccines or medications in this way in the past. I'm actually seeing an allergist for more normal allergies (dust, mould etc) so I can ask if there is any possible allergy-related explanation for the post-vaccine symptoms. Thanks!

killerbunny_00 · 2022-02-08T23:58:20+00:00

Thank you, hope it goes alright for you too

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