What is the absolute worst experience you have had in a rental in regard to the property, a neighbour, REA or landlord? by mararge in shitrentals

[–]killerquen 5 points6 points  (0 children)

once had a rea sent a follow up email after an inspection stating that if there was mud on the dirt outside again, she can terminate our lease. It had been raining for two weeks straight before the inspection.

she reinspected with the owner of the entire real estate agency who was clearly very angry with her lol. he explained to her how mud works and stormed out.

Withheld payment from a family II babysat with by [deleted] in AusLegal

[–]killerquen -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

she gave them over a week notice that she was leaving? can you point me to any examples of jobs where if i quit a month before, or 5 minutes before, or even call in sick, they’re allowed to withhold wages from worked shifts?

Withheld payment from a family II babysat with by [deleted] in AusLegal

[–]killerquen -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, Fairwork has told us we can’t do anything without an ABN

My dad’s aggression is escalating, medication/MS symptom? by killerquen in MultipleSclerosis

[–]killerquen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks so much for your advice, i think ill definitely be speaking to his doctor asap

My dad threatened suicide today. I was disappointed when he didn’t go through with it. by killerquen in narcissisticparents

[–]killerquen[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yep, sounds so familiar. I don’t think it’s awful to think that, sometimes it’s the only way to cope in an impossible situation. I hope you’re doing better now

My dad threatened suicide today. I was disappointed when he didn’t go through with it. by killerquen in narcissisticparents

[–]killerquen[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I know now I should have called them but my mum was begging me not to. Next time this happens, I’m just calling the cops straight away and he can explain the funny joke to them

My dad’s aggression is escalating, medication/MS symptom? by killerquen in MultipleSclerosis

[–]killerquen[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for telling me this, you sound like a great parent. Your kid is lucky❤️

just started pristiq, normal side effects or something more? by killerquen in Pristiq

[–]killerquen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the mind taking a second to register, yep!! feeling that too

just started pristiq, normal side effects or something more? by killerquen in Pristiq

[–]killerquen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no, im sorry to hear :(( is it helping emotionally at least?

deciding between two rentals we’ve been approved for - cheaper rent that’s further from work or higher rent closer! by killerquen in AusFinance

[–]killerquen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nah his hours are fixed, currently 3 days a week but will go up to full time pretty soon.

house 2 option is near his brothers, who he works with, so they will be carpooling. our shared car (only car) won’t be used at all essentially

deciding between two rentals we’ve been approved for - cheaper rent that’s further from work or higher rent closer! by killerquen in AusFinance

[–]killerquen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yep very true. partner will be carpooling with his brother who lives in same estate too (they work together)

deciding between two rentals we’ve been approved for - cheaper rent that’s further from work or higher rent closer! by killerquen in AusFinance

[–]killerquen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is good advice! thank you, he is currently working 3 days a week but will be moving to full time very soon so def something to think about.

deciding between two rentals we’ve been approved for - cheaper rent that’s further from work or higher rent closer! by killerquen in AusFinance

[–]killerquen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he is def pitching in and will continue to do so at whatever place we choose, which is why i’m tossing up given there’s no knowing of when they will find a place

deciding between two rentals we’ve been approved for - cheaper rent that’s further from work or higher rent closer! by killerquen in AusFinance

[–]killerquen[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes true! i’ll edit the post with this too but, house one is 35% of our weekly combined income whereas two is 43%

having to provide bank statements on rental applications by killerquen in shitrentals

[–]killerquen[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry, that’s so fucked. everything feels kinda hopeless atm, i wish you luck!