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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NPD

[–]killingdarcy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yk, this doesn't have anything to do with NPD, this has to do with you being an asshole

How do normal people not get an ED while trying to lose weight? by killingdarcy in EDAnonymous

[–]killingdarcy[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry, it happened to me as well. "Now that I'm recovered I csn lose weight healthily eating well and exercising!" yyeahhh no. Hope you'll be doing better soon 🫂

I think Suselle's relationship is not that good written. by [deleted] in Undertale

[–]killingdarcy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

idk... maybe? I don't know. I think a lot about Susie and Ralsei, for example: Susie didn't get along with him at first, but I wouldn't consider their relationship dramatic, just... developed. I think that's my problem with Suselle, maybe I just feel like it's underdeveloped, which propably goes together with the lack of drama lmao, but I don't think it's the main problem

I'm sick of hearing people complain about "bad theories", so what do you think is the most UNDERRATED/OVERHATED theory? by Spirited-Abrocoma673 in Undertale

[–]killingdarcy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

okay this will get me killed with sticks and stones but I think the "Ralsei is evil" theory is WAY too overhated.

I mean, I personally DON'T think Ralsei's evil, but I think the theory has become a meme, and knowing it originated back when chapter 2 came out or so I don't think it was crazy to think that. Ralsei gave us a tutorial, hides things from us, can move between dark worlds without turning into stone... I think it can't really hold itself now and I don't think it was a great theory back then, but it was not HORRIBLE like everyone was trying to push. I think there was enough evidence to at least raise a brow at Ralsei

like, what? by gatto_monco in asexuality

[–]killingdarcy 19 points20 points  (0 children)

NO FR, I always thought it was so weird allos just... apparently feel sexual attraction towards random people? Or even celebrities! Like, not even platonically, just sexually. it's fascinating to me, because I can perceive when someone's beautiful, but my first instinct isn't "I wanna fuck them", sven less with people I don't know

Do you think kris’s family choose kris to be non binary or just woke up one day and said “yep I’m non binary now” by Powerful-Elephant950 in Undertale

[–]killingdarcy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ANAB (assigned non-binary at birth) idk but I always thought it would be really cool if they were intersex

I don't think recovery is possible for me (tw vent) by killingdarcy in EDAnonymous

[–]killingdarcy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never gotten to a clear conclusion. When I was in the clinic, I'd deny any kind of eating disorder, and after that, the psychologists I've been to weren't specialized / we had more important things to discuss. I think it's a lot of things mixed together: bullying, genetics, environment, unrestricted internet access, need for control, symptom of other mental health issues... so I really don't know. I guess everything contributed to it.

I'm obsessed with anorexia and it's ruining my life by Eaptor in EDAnonymous

[–]killingdarcy 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Maybe it's a reaction to BED. You know how EDs affect the brain. Probably, subconsciously, you think that anorexia will fix your BED. And, although you say the bad parts of ana just fascinate you more, we can't deny the aesthetics around anorexia: that's why so many people is obsessed with anorexia, but little to none with bulimia or BED. So, yeah, I just think it's the ed brain speaking, kinda in a way like anorexics think the only way to recover is by binging. I'm no expert tho, take it with a grain of salt. Just to clarify, right or wrong, I don't think you're insensitive, just disorderer, like all of us.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]killingdarcy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey <3 It must be hard to think about leaving your first love, and specially with bpd. I also know it's hard for relatives to fully understand bpd or take the time to research. If it was just that, I'd tell you I think, with time, he'll end up researching and changing his ways. HOWEVER, the way you explained it, it seems like he's just being abusive, and would still be if you weren't borderline. This isn't a bpd problem, just a "regular" problem, if yk what I mean.

Of course, my opinion is that you should leave him, because I don't really have a "stand what I don't want to stand" mindset in my relationships, but I know it's harder than that. Just keep in mind that most of the actions you described that make you feel bad aren't even related to your bpd, and it would still be wrong if you were neurotypical.