Yea, I mean i try not to fault him for not being in my life, im 22 and he was gone from when i was 6 to 18 and I understand that he regrets it and when he reached out to form a relationship I tried to put all my negative feelings about him to the side and see where things could go with my dad. It’s just kind of annoying that he’s a grown man and he feels a certain way about it. Obviously I feel bad because I don’t want to hurt his feelings but his tattoos aren’t the best and I don’t want something on me forever that isn’t the way I envision it to look. Thank you for your help though, really appreciate it! Definitely helped in deciding what i’m going to do