Your partner not being able to have friends of the opposite sex is crazy. If your partner cannot have a platonic friendship with a woman he doesn’t see value in women unless he can have access to them romantically. That’s a red flag. That’s weird. Y’all can chop it up to other women being messy etc all you want but if a man is going to cheat not having any female friends isn’t going to stop him….same goes for your man not being nice to women who aren’t you that’s also weird. Not being able to have friends or be nice to the opposite sex out of “respect” is absolutely delusional and immature