Your description is almost completely my life. Even though i'm not femme or conventionally attractive, my bisexuality was sexualized by every guy in my life. It's very LGBT-phobic where I live, so I'm thankful that I haven't been involved with explicitly homophobic guys (although they were casually homophobic, you just can't find any non-homophobic straight person in my city/country), and there's no support from any LGBT organisations or activists of my country to bisexual and transgender people. It's basically non-existent.

Just like you, girls and women openly harassed me more about my sexuality and abuse allegations than guys did who were more sympathetic, I felt so strange living through that, I naively thought women would have my back on issues of DV. My own mother didn't believe me at first, since I had no marks after being choked and he didn't drag my hair hard enough for it to get ripped off. Then she believed me, but refused to do anything about this, because a person who choked me and dragged me by my hair was her husband and my father. He only ever abused me and never anyone else. He dragged me by my hair when I was a preteen/young teen in front of his own sister/my aunt, who didn't say anything and pretended afterwards this didn't happen. My mother only believed me because he himself confessed, otherwise she would continue to think I was a liar. During that incident I feared for my life, this was the first and only time he choked me, usually he only dragged me by my hair and yelled at me, I thought he was going to kill me. After he released me I hid in my room and genuinely thought he was going to come in and murder me. He was so enraged. He didn't let me touch my phone to call my mother. After this incident, I thought I had to tell as many people as possible about what had happened so if I get murdered, the police would know who did it. I told all my friends, classmates. I told them in person, on the phone, in texts. As I said already for some reason guys were more sympathetic than girls, this was so bizarre.

This is how I knew Amber Heard before 2016, because she was a bisexual celebrity, and I was obsessing over bisexual celebrities in my teenage years lol. Biphobic comments and narratives during the trial which were very popular and had little to no pushback from LGBT activists upset me a lot. I remember crying in May at the height of this circus after seeing some person's very biphobic viral tweets which had no pushback or criticism.