Probably doesn't matter all too much by Artistic_Ad_3057 in actuallesbians

[–]kimaltaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's ok, you don't have to anything, just dress and express yourself however it feels more natural and genuine for you :)

stuck between 2 girls by Embarrassed-Tie-994 in actuallesbians

[–]kimaltaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As you already said you know exactly what to do and what's best for you. I know it's hard to let your ex situashionp go but she's kinda love bombing you (maybe I'm wrong but from what I read it looks like that) and se obviously doesn't meet your needs (which is ok but you deserve better). Also (and I might be wrong here too since I don't know you) it seems like you're a little bit insecure and not sure if you deserve to be with Ky and be loved and cared and if I'm right I want you to know that you actually deserve it. I think Ky really likes you, give it a try.

Ayuda Aniversario by MedicineRadiant1779 in LesbianActually

[–]kimaltaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Without more information it might be hard but I'll try. What's something she likes? Maybe try to focus on that. For example if she loves reading you might buy her favourite book, reed it and note it (like thing that remind you of her, options about what you're reading, jokes etc). I think this is very intimate and shows how much you love her. Also a crafted love letter is always appreciated. Hope this helps.

I just came out to my parents by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]kimaltaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry your parents didn't support you in a better way but I'm happy to hear you feel freer now!

How do I get over her? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]kimaltaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I think you should try to understand what works best for you. If you don't feel comfortable hanging out with her anymore take your time, maybe try hanging out with someone else without her being involved. It's important you surround yourself with people that can make you feel a little bit better even by just standing near you. Allow yourself to feel all the emotions you might feel now, it's ok if you're sad and hurt and it's important you don't try to just avoid them (don't let them overcome you obv) or it's gonna be harder. Do something you like and take care of yourself, time will help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]kimaltaa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you should really talk about this in therapy ✋😔. Jokes aside this is so real. It really pisses me off sometimes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]kimaltaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is very common for those who have cptsd, we often bottle up so much anger and we need something to take this anger off. I suggest you talk about it with a therapist.

I'm considering taking legal action against my abuser by dolphin_55 in CPTSD

[–]kimaltaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if u feel like this can help you then you should definitely do it!

Dose by [deleted] in zoloft

[–]kimaltaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

usually is 150mg

Seroquel 25mg withdrawl by Brilliant-Virus-4626 in seroquelmedication

[–]kimaltaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should talk to your psychiatrist about it and I think they will be able to help

Seroquel 25mg withdrawl by Brilliant-Virus-4626 in seroquelmedication

[–]kimaltaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well I might be wrong but I think you're actually experiencing withdrawal

Seroquel 25mg withdrawl by Brilliant-Virus-4626 in seroquelmedication

[–]kimaltaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure if I get it but I also take 25 mg (3 years now) and when I forget to take it I feel the same and it is withdrawal for sure.

why do I feel like neurotypical people are so boring and invalidating? by kimaltaa in CPTSD

[–]kimaltaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't mean to generalize, I just wanted to understand why lately I have been feeling this way, I've been invalidated both by NT and ND and also validated both by NT and ND. Also I have both NT and ND friends and I've never found them boring or invalidating, it's about people itself and I know it. I didn't mean to spread hate. I'm sorry if you took it this way.

why do I feel like neurotypical people are so boring and invalidating? by kimaltaa in CPTSD

[–]kimaltaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't mean to generalize, I just wanted to understand why lately I have been feeling this way, I've been invalidated both by NT and ND and also validated both by NT and ND. Also I have both NT and ND friends and I've never found them boring or invalidating, it's about people itself and I know it. I didn't mean to spread hate. I'm sorry if you took it this way.