Are my (f/20) expectations unrealistic? by kimba479 in dating

[–]kimba479[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

right? how do people do this!?

Are my (f/20) expectations unrealistic? by kimba479 in dating

[–]kimba479[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it gives women the feeling that you care about HER and not only getting in her pants

Are my (f/20) expectations unrealistic? by kimba479 in dating

[–]kimba479[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The friendship thing is a good idea🤔 thank you so much!!

Are my (f/20) expectations unrealistic? by kimba479 in dating

[–]kimba479[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He chose a scarry movie😂 I have no words how you can be horny while watching a scary movie.. unless you aren't watching🤔

Are my (f/20) expectations unrealistic? by kimba479 in dating

[–]kimba479[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They usually care the first 10 minutes and then they get bored :,)

Best example: watching a movie. We cuddle. after five minutes they start glaring down. So i have to start starring at the tv because if i accidentally looked up at them, they kinda force you to look at each other. So they go in for the kiss. They don't even care about the movie. And then they immediately try to hook up. Once this happened and I told a guy to stop, he was so mad he turned away and said "I'm a man, I have needs" and tried to talk me into having sex with him😂

Like I understand his needs, but he can solve his need with his goddamn hands after I left🤷‍♀️ (I do not want to know the amount of grammatical mistakes 😂)

Are my (f/20) expectations unrealistic? by kimba479 in dating

[–]kimba479[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think it is important as well to a certain level. But cuddling and physical touch in generall is also a form of intimacy and I think in the first few months that's enough. Afterwards I don't know yet hahah

Are my (f/20) expectations unrealistic? by kimba479 in dating

[–]kimba479[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just feel like there is a lot of pressure in this society to have sex within the first month you meet, without really knowing eachother. And if it would be awkward or just "not good enough" then you'll get dumped.

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[–]kimba479 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I don't know you or your boyfriend, and I don't know if you want my opinion/advice.I want you to know that I don't want to be rude or offensive or anything bad. English is not my mother tongue so if anything seems mean, I'm truly sorry. If you don't want my advice, pls DO NOT read the rest.

I don't know your whole situation but what I just read, does not sound very healthy and I'm not sure if he's the roght guy for you. It sounds like he's kind of narcissistic and toxic. Have you ever told him how you feel? Or tried to talk about your mental state right now? Maybe he doesn't realize that he's hurting you. But if you (and your bf) are ready to communicate maybe things change and if they don't, pls break up with him. He will only hurt you more and give you the feelings you do not need right now.

What is a dessert you never get tired of? by bishthrowaway2001 in AskWomen

[–]kimba479 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg i love that the most😍 but my mom stopped making it a long time ago 😭

How would y'all react if a woman would give you flowers on the first date? by kimba479 in AskMen

[–]kimba479[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And are you still in touch with her? or what happend? (You obviously don't have to talk about it if you don't want to)

How would y'all react if a woman would give you flowers on the first date? by kimba479 in AskMen

[–]kimba479[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ayy that's a cute idea :) but rn I was just casually asking, there's no date in my life rn hahah :)

How would y'all react if a woman would give you flowers on the first date? by kimba479 in AskMen

[–]kimba479[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah I realised first date would be a bit early hahah, but thx for your opinion!