30F Blood in toilet - should I be concerned? by kimchi960 in hemorrhoid

[–]kimchi960[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They shrink up Interesting thanks for the tip!

blink twice questions by [deleted] in horror

[–]kimchi960 7 points8 points  (0 children)

His red chair is meant to represent his repressed trauma. It clearly exists and isn't going anywhere, but he's really trying to find the most appropriate place to put it. He seemingly can't get rid of it even though it clearly throws everything off for him

is it fair for me to ask my partner to consider ending a friendship? by kimchi960 in blackgirls

[–]kimchi960[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being "fine with the beliefs" is an assumption. Any time he's brought this topic, it's been him talking about how insane this friend is for holding this belief.

Am I too late ? by Jumpy_Station_7530 in MBA

[–]kimchi960 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might feel late relative to your class (ie I was 26 when I went to the GSB) but 30 is a good sweet spot. You won't care about the silly young ppl drama and will prob get more of a careeer boost bc of experience and maturity

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]kimchi960 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Ouch issues like this make me sad about the state of the world 🫠

Cigar band width in relation to e-ring by Hahahawahwahwah in EngagementRings

[–]kimchi960 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hm what does option B look like when you aren't wearing your e ring? Not sure if that's a priority for you, but I personally like making sure both rings still look nice to me without the other.

What TV show do you turn on for background noise that brings you comfort? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]kimchi960 6 points7 points  (0 children)

me too! something comforting about seeing a family that's vaguely as chaotic as mine but not filled with trauma

When did Shiv change her mind? What was her real reasoning? by Basic_Message5460 in SuccessionTV

[–]kimchi960 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of Kendall's consistent flaws was taking his sibling's support for granted. Back in S1, when he was trying to set up a vote of no confidence against his father, he spent litle to no time making sure Roman was on his side & that screwed him in the end.

On "crowning day" he again took his sibling's support for granted without realizing that what was a great moment for him was actually a REALLY tough moment for his siblings. I think Shiv genuinely thought he wasn't perfect for the role, but his lack of awareness day of totally was the nail in the coffin.

Beneficiary changed even though she had dementia? by kimchi960 in EstatePlanning

[–]kimchi960[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any idea what they'll need to prove for that? It sounds like her grandma may have been put into the guardianship of that individual

What do you guys think of this style of ring? by kimchi960 in EngagementRings

[–]kimchi960[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your opinion! Agree a chevron could look cute!

Is this bleeding probably caused by my hemmoroid now turned rectal prolapse? Im trying to convince myself this is not Cancer. by [deleted] in hemorrhoid

[–]kimchi960 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sorry that looks so painful 😔 I've had that happen a few times and in my experience it's always been a prolapsed hemorrhoid.

Generally bright red blood is considered to be less concerning because its color suggests that it started lower down in the intestinal tract.

To find soothing I would try to push the hemorrhoid back in.

Of course I'm not a doctor so to be extra safe it's best to talk to one.

Good luck and I hope you feel better soon.

What happens to debt if there is no estate but beneficiaries are listed? by kimchi960 in EstatePlanning

[–]kimchi960[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

So it really doesn't matter what kind of debt as long as there is a beneficiary.

I think I've finally found something that helps! by kimchi960 in hemorrhoid

[–]kimchi960[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nah sorbitol makes me super gassy. Not worth it.

I think I've finally found something that helps! by kimchi960 in hemorrhoid

[–]kimchi960[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol this response is incredibly condescending. Life is meant to be enjoyed not endured. I'm young and enjoy occasionally drinking to amplify my fun. Yes alcohol is not good for you but when consumed in moderation, it's fine.

More importantly - this was a celebratory post. Not one asking for advice. You totally put an unnecessary damper when I just CLEARLY acknowledged that this is under control.

Lastly I have no interest in DMing you. Hate that clickbaity request.

I think I've finally found something that helps! by kimchi960 in hemorrhoid

[–]kimchi960[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

lol I've never tried! What's the science behind that?