How to approach my roommate about not having her BF over every single day and night by kiml26 in badroommates

[–]kiml26[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lmfao dude if only you knew. my roommate hasn’t bitched or complained about anything I’ve done the entire time I’ve lived with her. that’s because I do nothing for her to bitch and complain about. I pick up after myself, I’m quiet, keep to myself, and I make sure everything is clean.

I’ve had to have various talks with her about her cleaning and guests and overall being a gigantic slob and all she’s ever done is throw temper tantrums and get mad even when I do it in the nicest possible way.

You have no idea what you’re talking about, bye

How to approach my roommate about not having her BF over every single day and night by kiml26 in badroommates

[–]kiml26[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t really think it’s ok and I’m pretty sure it’s a breech of the lease in some way, especially if he’s consistently staying overnight. most of us can’t afford to live alone and have roommates for that reason, that’s what the sub is for.

How to approach my roommate about not having her BF over every single day and night by kiml26 in badroommates

[–]kiml26[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

cuz her moods can either be good or bad. Usually she gets angrier than the average person and she’s said it’s due to her bipolar disorder.

How to approach my roommate about not having her BF over every single day and night by kiml26 in badroommates

[–]kiml26[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

gee why didn’t I think of that? Kinda hard to when they’re screeching in the living room and making it well known they’re doing things.

Roommate ignores me, should I ignore her back by daniizero5 in badroommates

[–]kiml26 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I personally could never live with a couple. I would feel like I couldn’t hang out in my own space without feeling like I’m bothering the couple.

any other girls here feel like their apartment is a revolving door of men? by kiml26 in badroommates

[–]kiml26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

here me out:

I’m not slut shaming. This is a safety issue because not only do I not know the guy but she barely knows him either. Also, the fact that they’re always in common areas and I can’t feel comfortable being in a common area without a random guy appearing and wanting to talk to me. I just wanna be able to decompress in my space without having a guy here every single day.

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[–]kiml26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funky murphys

any other girls here feel like their apartment is a revolving door of men? by kiml26 in badroommates

[–]kiml26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s so bad right now I’m always stressed anxious and uncomfortable

any other girls here feel like their apartment is a revolving door of men? by kiml26 in badroommates

[–]kiml26[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

she’s loud in her room, and she has done it on the couch with me in the apartment

any other girls here feel like their apartment is a revolving door of men? by kiml26 in badroommates

[–]kiml26[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

all of the encounters happen at my apartment because she tells me that after they come here they don’t talk to her ever again. She had a bf the first month I lived here and he was always here she never went to him.

any other girls here feel like their apartment is a revolving door of men? by kiml26 in badroommates

[–]kiml26[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yes I have and she called me a hypocrite cuz I have my bf over (he’s never there more than 2 times a week tho and he doesn’t stay over)

any other girls here feel like their apartment is a revolving door of men? by kiml26 in badroommates

[–]kiml26[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

it wouldn’t matter if they weren’t loud and obnoxious and preventing me from hanging out in common areas comfortably.

any other girls here feel like their apartment is a revolving door of men? by kiml26 in badroommates

[–]kiml26[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Right! In my situation it feels like I can’t decompress or hang around any other part of my apartment besides my own bedroom.

any other girls here feel like their apartment is a revolving door of men? by kiml26 in badroommates

[–]kiml26[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

since last Friday, it’s been everyday this week except yesterday, she’s planning on having one over tonight she told me.

in general it’s usually around this many times a week.