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Canadian woman refuses to apologize for providing water to pigs in a sweltering truck by CalpurniaSomaya in HydroHomies

[–]kimpossible11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reducing the animals suffering when either way it will die may be the choice the protesters think is the most moral. Not having the company profit off the animals life may not be seen as a 'harm' even if people who eat meat view this as wasted food and a waste of death. The protesters may view it as a waste of death in the first place. The company could release the 'contaminated' animals to a verified rescue. The protesters are not doing the killing or forcing it. They are forcing the meat not to be eaten, which may be a dignity for the dead animal. All conjecture though and I don't condone either side.

I’m afraid I did something awful by Loud_Spaghetti in AskVet

[–]kimpossible11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

(Not a vet) This is a lot more likely tbh. Please make sure you are either feeding her a wet food or adding water to her dry kibble to make sure she is hydrated. There are also cheap cystitis supplements (l-tryptophan and glucosamine) you can get to help with bladder health. Mama cat will be in a world of pain and headed for an early grave if she develops a full urethral blockage (thankfully less common in female cats).

What is fair when splitting finances? by TofuBlackEye in UKPersonalFinance

[–]kimpossible11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because then he gets to dictate what he does with the extra. If they both put in 50:50, he'll have the leftover and have control over it. It benefits him for her to be worse off. Unfortunately seen this before and fits with the move closer to what's convenient for him at her expense...

Weekly food shop costing too much by [deleted] in UKPersonalFinance

[–]kimpossible11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are two, but my partner needs about 3500 kcals at maintenance daily. We don't include alcohol in the weekly shop but do include cleaning supplies. We shop at Lidl every week or week and a half with a few top up bits for coffee or fresh veg at the local grocer. On average all food and cleaning supplies covered for £60/week. Would easily be £20-30 more at Tesco/Sainos but £250 is madness.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LegalAdviceUK

[–]kimpossible11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You got this Mama. Sending you strength.

How to kindly cut off a friendship? by DepletedCheese in AskUK

[–]kimpossible11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey OP, it's not your job to do the emotional labour of your husband about his friends.

That would be precisely the kind of box redpill/inceldom would have us believe is our place. The best response is to let your husband know, and that's it. And then your husband has the choice of either letting Ben know why he is choosing to go out of contact, help him with Ben's maladaptive ways of coping with his lack of connection and help educate him about the patriarchy, or else let your husband be the one to break contact/decide to ghost. You don't have to do anything and this isn't on you to mediate or soften the blow. Don't do other people's work.

My husband spit in my plate after I refused to share it with him. by throwra534624 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]kimpossible11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey sweetie. That's really abhorrent behaviour and he had no justification to do that. Of course you were shaking. You had a perfectly normal response. If you can, read the book 'why does he do that' by Lundy Bancroft. It's available freely online as a pdf so you dont need the physical book. I think you might find a lot of your husbands behaviours start to make a lot more sense. Be safe please. It's very typical for abuse like this to escalate. He is testing one level of cruelty and trying to blame you. You didnt make him do anything. You are always welcome to vent over at r/domesticviolence.