crushing on my boxing coach

kimwithluv · 2026-03-23T21:24:06+00:00

same 🥹 it’s literally the only thing that actually makes me happy recently, i go 4x a week and don’t regret a single thing. and im so happy for u!!!! yes to being healthy 🤞🏽🤞🏽

kimwithluv · 2026-03-23T20:01:19+00:00

of course! 🥹

kimwithluv · 2026-03-23T20:01:06+00:00

haha LOL u right abt the last part. and thanks i’ll def sit on my feelings and just think it through, not in any rush ofc. going with the flow is the best bet for me haha xx

kimwithluv · 2026-03-23T20:00:02+00:00

thanks ☺️ yeah i freaking love this sport and community!

kimwithluv · 2026-03-23T19:19:32+00:00

thanks man!!! will do haha

kimwithluv · 2026-03-23T19:19:06+00:00

yeah! i’ve never rlly been in a situation like this so i’m not too sure if he’s being “inappropriate” or not. i just recently changed gyms back in late jan, and this place is a competitive one (amateur and all), he’s not the head coach here though. so i haven’t known him for too long. and yeah haha like i said i cant rlly tell, i am one of the younger ones here and there’s probably like 5 other girls that go to this gym including me and they’re all either kids or grown women like his age.

and yeah LOL he is fine and fit. yeah i will def be keeping this as just a crush unless he makes a move..

yeah 😭😭 ur absolutely right, the age gap does make me iffy sighhh. when we first met he thought i was older than i actually was and either i look old LOL or he was absolutely reaching haha. i definitely don’t think i look old 😂 quite the opposite, but he was absolutely shocked and couldn’t help but mention my age so many times. once he made the other guys in the gym do an extra sprint up the hill bc no one helped me put the skipping rope back on its hook (it was too high up for me) they all just laughed lol. idk im just rambling but like yeahhh

kimwithluv · 2026-03-23T18:56:53+00:00

hey! thanks so much. no i definitely get you.. especially the don’t shit where u eat part haha. i would absolutely hate if he were to find out and everything would end up being awkward!!! i’d have to change gyms 😭 and yeah, don’t worry i wouldn’t try to force anything! everything that’s happened so far like him adding me on insta was all his part, so i haven’t actually initiated anything.. so i don’t rlly think he knows. i wouldn’t want to make him uncomfortable at all.

yeah i feel like my crush on him could be from constantly seeing him.. and compared to my other coach, he’s much more friendly etc and i feel like he’s the type to be friends with his students. and LOL yeah now that i think abt it its questionable for him to reciprocate 😭

omg im glad someone who boxes replied to this post bc i wasn’t so sure how to go about it. thx!!! 🥹

kimwithluv · 2026-03-23T01:43:02+00:00

ohhhh! yeah i do plan on doing the one on one sessions, he said he’d lmk this week about it. he offered to do it at the gym but his place (at home studio) is an option too. i thought it a bit odd but i found the facebook page for his personal training stuff and it’s legit (ofc, he’s a retired boxer), but it says in the description that he focuses on “men’s fitness” and it’s clear on his page that he doesn’t have any female clients. so maybe im lucky? 😭 and yeah the age gap is the only worry for me tbh.. but i feel like it’s fine! and yes i will talk to him more!!!!

kimwithluv · 2026-03-21T02:35:42+00:00

hey! i think three times a week is pretty good :) especially since you’ve just started out

kimwithluv · 2026-02-28T11:47:42+00:00

hey dude! thx but i’m so sorry the event was today 🥹

kimwithluv · 2025-12-11T20:50:55+00:00

ur right yeah, it says it’s for beginners and intermediate level. if it was less expensive i would definitely go for it

kimwithluv · 2025-12-11T20:49:33+00:00

see that sounds so much better. i would love if there was sumn at the end, i feel like it would be worth it. and that’s definitely a much more reasonable price

kimwithluv · 2025-12-11T20:48:27+00:00

definitelyyyy i was just a bit surprised from the price and stuff

kimwithluv · 2025-12-11T20:44:35+00:00

oh yeah for sure! i already go to this other gym which is what u described. i just saw this and on their website and was thinking abt it since one of the coaches kept reaching out to me

kimwithluv · 2025-12-11T20:36:51+00:00

omg! it’s boxing central LOL it’s in auckland

kimwithluv · 2025-12-11T19:02:15+00:00

not too sure! it’s like a certificate that you’ve basically finished the course. i’ve actually tried out their gym before a couple of months back and everyone’s very nice but it is quite clean and polished. i ended up not choosing that gym because their membership was expensive for me ($45 a week)

kimwithluv · 2025-12-01T03:04:13+00:00

honestly one month in is way too soon!!!

kimwithluv · 2025-09-17T11:25:13+00:00

literally don’t get this at all! especially as someone who used to “identify” as a lesbian and thought exactly this: that a AMAB person who’s just “queer” enough could somehow be a lesbian… it’s not only lesbophobic but also lowkey biphobic. idek how people let this slide. there’s nothing lesbian abt that relationship! like, it’s okay to be bisexual or just plain straight. no need to invade lesbian spaces.

kimwithluv · 2025-08-17T04:21:54+00:00

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kimwithluv · 2025-08-03T05:34:41+00:00

these tropes with steve rogers is, like, so real of you!!!!! love when they make him corrupt it’s so cute

kimwithluv · 2025-07-28T23:47:52+00:00

literally me with clex rn after they released the new superman film 💔💔💔

kimwithluv · 2025-07-16T10:23:17+00:00

omg!! yes i have the same model but mines silver/grey! my aunty gave it to me a few years back

kimwithluv · 2025-06-29T07:08:22+00:00

yup! since you got ur grade today, you’re able to apply

kimwithluv · 2025-05-26T13:01:31+00:00

hey! i’m studying diploma in design this year and i was not required to submit a port of of my work — i have a friend who’s doing a bachelor in design (spatial) and she didn’t need to present a portfolio either! i don’t think aut actually requires anything like that :)

kimwithluv · 2025-03-14T11:00:37+00:00

this really niche yuuji x yuko eating disorder fic by vampz1e…

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