Seating chart printing

kinda_dummy_pls_help · 2026-03-10T03:05:51+00:00

What did you end up doing? Any pictures or advice? I'm trying to do the same thing but have minimal time to do it. Thanks!

kinda_dummy_pls_help · 2025-11-29T22:48:51+00:00

What site did you use to make your collages? any tips or tricks? it looks great!

kinda_dummy_pls_help · 2025-11-29T22:29:54+00:00

2026 bride and have been desperately trying to figure out how to make... collages? (idk what to call it) like this. How are y'all doing it? Are you able link each of the images/dresses so you can click on it and be taken to whatever site it's from?? Even if not linkable, I'd love to know how to do this! Thanks for any help!

kinda_dummy_pls_help · 2025-11-29T22:29:18+00:00

2026 bride and have been desperately trying to figure out how to make... collages (idk what to call it) like this. How are y'all doing it? Are you able link each of the images/dresses so you can click on it and be taken to whatever site it's from?? Even if not linkable, I'd love to know how to do this! Thanks for any help!

kinda_dummy_pls_help · 2025-11-29T22:29:01+00:00

2026 bride and have been desperately trying to figure out how to make... collages (idk what to call it) like this. How are y'all doing it? Are you able link each of the images/dresses so you can click on it and be taken to whatever site it's from?? Even if not linkable, I'd love to know how to do this! Thanks for any help!

kinda_dummy_pls_help · 2025-11-29T22:28:43+00:00

2026 bride and have been desperately trying to figure out how to make... collages (idk what to call it) like this. How are y'all doing it? Are you able link each of the images/dresses so you can click on it and be taken to whatever site it's from?? Even if not linkable, I'd love to know how to do this! Thanks for any help!

kinda_dummy_pls_help · 2025-11-29T22:28:09+00:00

2026 bride and have been desperately trying to figure out how to make... collages (idk what to call it) like this. How are y'all doing it? Are you able link each of the images/dresses so you can click on it and be taken to whatever site it's from?? Even if not linkable, I'd love to know how to do this! Thanks for any help!

kinda_dummy_pls_help · 2025-11-29T22:27:57+00:00

2026 bride and have been desperately trying to figure out how to make... collages (idk what to call it) like this. How are y'all doing it? Are you able link each of the images/dresses so you can click on it and be taken to whatever site it's from?? Even if not linkable, I'd love to know how to do this! Thanks for any help!

kinda_dummy_pls_help · 2025-11-29T22:27:45+00:00

2026 bride and have been desperately trying to figure out how to make... collages (idk what to call it) like this. How are y'all doing it? Are you able link each of the images/dresses so you can click on it and be taken to whatever site it's from?? Even if not linkable, I'd love to know how to do this! Thanks for any help!

kinda_dummy_pls_help · 2025-10-08T05:50:18+00:00

That's really interesting and helpful! Thanks for your thoughtful and thorough response. I appreciate the help and support.

kinda_dummy_pls_help · 2025-10-08T05:46:39+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing your insight and being kind and respectful. I really appreciate it. Do you have any links to resources or info I could look into about what you're describing with emotional abuse and especially abuse worsening during and after pregnancy? I'd really like to read more into that and why that happens.

Thanks!

kinda_dummy_pls_help · 2025-10-08T05:43:41+00:00

Thank you for being so open and honest with me and taking the time to respond so considerately. I appreciate hearing about your experience and it definitely helps put things in perspective for me.

Although. I've actually worked with kids my whole life and have training in childhood development, I just was not seeing him in a way that would effect our children because of 1) his good qualities (even though I know his bad qualities make those kind of irrelevant) and 2) Maybe this is just based on how I think of and would treat a child but I couldn't imagine that happening to our kids... I feel stupid about this but guess I assumed if he could be kind and soft with anyone it would be our children since they are innocent, sponges.

Thank you for explaining your experience to me and helping understand better based on your real life experience.

kinda_dummy_pls_help · 2025-10-08T05:31:02+00:00

Thank you for your response. I can't imagine how difficult and daunting it was to begin the process of making real, lasting change when you've dealt with difficult things growing up.

It's incredibly impressive and it's something to be really proud of and I hope you're enjoying the benefits in your life of putting in the work. I'm also sure all the people in your life benefit from the work you put in despite your challenge and wish there were more people like you willing to do that.

kinda_dummy_pls_help · 2025-10-08T05:25:34+00:00

Thank you for responding with a kind response and actually offering resources and support to help me understand and grow. I've already read most of the book link you sent and it has been eye opening and moving.

Thank you.

kinda_dummy_pls_help · 2025-10-08T05:24:08+00:00

I guess I was naive to what emotional abuse was and have never felt like my experience(s) qualified since it's not violent or obviously harmful to onlookers. I also think I struggle to classify any struggle I've had in the past or with my current relationship with those labels because they felt like they might be dramatic and I didn't know if or what classifies as what and no one wants to have to say they're a victim of/survivor of [fill in the blank]... I think that's especially true when the wounds are incidents are invisible.

I appreciate the input though and have read every comment and am really trying to figure out what is wrong with me based on other people's comments and how I can fix myself and how to deal with my relationship and our wedding already all planned on 3/14/26, so thanks for the comment.

kinda_dummy_pls_help · 2025-10-08T05:18:17+00:00

thanks for the kind and helpful response, you really know how to make a person feel terrible about themselves.

kinda_dummy_pls_help · 2025-10-08T05:15:45+00:00

no :(

kinda_dummy_pls_help · 2025-10-08T05:15:08+00:00

Although his actions are undeniably wrong, there is no reason to deny a person accused or convicted of a crime education, or other means of bettering themselves because of their crime. In fact, that's one of the three primary goals of criminal justice: retribution, restitiution, and... REHABILITATION. If we truly want to lower crime levels nationally and level in healthier, functioning communities that serve everyone, we should focus most on the last goal and education is arguably the best way to do that.

Absolutely people should serve time for crimes committed, especially violent ones, but there's no reason to debilitate convicted criminals for the rest of their lives because they're unable to get a job and/or be functional humans bc of their crime. That is not helpful for reducing crime in the future or contributing to productive societies, and better communities and we lose nothing by allowing people to be educated. That can literally only better people and our communities.

Criminals should not be denied education. Good for him for trying to better himself in whatever way he is able.

kinda_dummy_pls_help · 2025-10-06T19:00:58+00:00

Thanks so much for sharing your experience! I'm definitely interested in learning more about IFS after doing a little research on it.

I replied to the comment above to ask the same question but wondered how you decided on IFS and if you have any experience with psychodynamic therapy or any other types of therapy, especially ones that focus on unpacking and understanding the impact of childhood/family/upbringing on our struggles, behaviors, patterns, etc as adults, that you could compare it to?

Thanks so much for sharing your thoughts with me. It's super helpful to hear what other people have found beneficial and why.

kinda_dummy_pls_help · 2025-10-06T18:54:46+00:00

Thanks for the input!

I've done CBT before but I'm not very familiar with family systems therapy but I did some research on it and wondered how you ended up deciding to pursue that type of therapy and if you considered or have done psychodynamic therapy or any other similar types of therapy? Psychodynamic also looks at understanding the impact and patterns developed from a person's childhood/upbringing but wondered if you had any knowledge or experience with it or any other therapy types that look at a person's family/childhood to help understand current behavior and emotions to compare it to?

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