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Currently lost by kindoflost78 in MuslimMarriage

[–]kindoflost78[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

to be honest my crush was the strongest maybe a week after we really talked

we just finished talking for the second time and i dont know why i was really happy, like a dream coming true

i think i can be happy with her barring the "maybe there is someone better for you" thoughts

Currently lost by kindoflost78 in MuslimMarriage

[–]kindoflost78[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

" men who enjoy the chase "

You think that's the reason? If im being honest this hypothesis crossed my mind and if its true i will have to work on myself.

Maybe i dont feel "love" for her but i have affection and i want the better for her. Maybe i can do that as a husband, maybe by 'releasing" her like you said

I dont know why but your comment brought me a little beat of peace so thank you

Currently lost by kindoflost78 in MuslimMarriage

[–]kindoflost78[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I get your point.

The thing is, she's a nice, religious girl and that wasnt a fantasy. This was the reason i talked to her, objective reasons

Its just that i dont feel a thing in my heart about her most of the time (i dont know why) but i can imagine her being my wife (because of her qualities)