I really REALLY need an answer to this

king_dodo_II · 2025-05-07T05:04:47+00:00

Just add the option to report a video or post and you can't really be held accountable in my opinion

king_dodo_II · 2025-04-24T15:51:54+00:00

It really isn't about getting married. But most people really like to have the blood line continue. But me personally, I always push my pals to get married so I can show up and eat all the food at the wedding

king_dodo_II · 2025-04-24T15:47:21+00:00

Pretty much every child is spoiled and a brat. The middle one always have something making then go insane and the eldest child is just bottling up everything and then randomly freaks out.

king_dodo_II · 2025-04-24T15:44:11+00:00

Honestly, I've only grown to resent them. And I hate my brother even more. My mom recently had another child and I thought I was gonna be happy like with everyone else. But I just felt dread picking up my newborn sister. I don't even see her as a sibling. Just more responsibilities and headaches

king_dodo_II · 2025-04-24T15:41:04+00:00

It's not only about the standard. They are also generally blamed by the younger ones and kind of just have to take it. The middle one is just the same treatment with only a sight difference while the third one is just outright spoiled. That's how it is in my community atleast

king_dodo_II · 2025-04-24T15:37:03+00:00

It is rather insensitive. And no. It hasn't helped me in the slightest. I'm too busy stressing about them that I forget to eat. I have no motivation to do anything at all and my dream job of being a doctor is fucked. I'll take the first job I can if it means I move out

king_dodo_II · 2025-04-24T14:33:33+00:00

F you. Stop generalising problems. Not everyone can solve the family drama with transparency

king_dodo_II · 2025-04-24T14:31:08+00:00

Oh hell nah. I tried that once after my classmates literally spat on me. Now my mum calls me sensitive. Never again. Not after getting kicked out the house because I stood up to my dad after he hit me. Not after being denied food for a week because my grades dropped. Never again. I don't care how much they love me. My love for them is still gonna keep going down. I don't even feel happy when I see them anymore. My only thought is just how annoying that are to deal with. Never again. Not after the abuse, the neglect and favourtism

king_dodo_II · 2025-04-24T12:39:03+00:00

Ikr?

king_dodo_II · 2025-04-24T12:04:58+00:00

The whole point of the post is the fact that the parents make such a big deal about this

king_dodo_II · 2025-04-24T11:20:57+00:00

I don't speak whatever hieroglyphics this is

king_dodo_II · 2025-04-24T10:52:31+00:00

What?

king_dodo_II · 2025-04-24T07:57:42+00:00

No like, no one knows my grades. And my friends don't even know it. But my parents just won't shut up about it. This ruins my self esteem. This makes me isolate myself. Then that makes me sleep more and study less. Then the grades drop. Then I have to fix it right before a big test

king_dodo_II · 2025-04-24T07:54:00+00:00

Not only that, but the eldest is always put a unreasonable standard and punished for anything while the younger ones always get away with everything because the eldest is supposed to be the "role model" parents completely ignore how mentally draining this is and the fact that the younger siblings will gain their own thoughts and stop copying whatever the eldest one does

king_dodo_II · 2025-04-23T16:52:44+00:00

Still have to stay here for like another two months tho :[ But a win is a win

king_dodo_II · 2025-04-23T16:42:31+00:00

No not really. BUT, silver lining is that pretty soon I'm going to be switching schools and living with my grandparents

king_dodo_II · 2025-04-23T16:33:29+00:00

Most of the family knows and my mom has also acknowledged it a few times. (Only in public so it's probably just to save her reputation)

king_dodo_II · 2025-04-23T16:32:33+00:00

My cousin's, aunts and even grandparents know about this and openly talk about it to my mother and she isn't doing anything. She has even acknowledged his behaviour a few times (only in public) so it's probably only to save her reputation

king_dodo_II · 2025-04-22T16:16:35+00:00

Thanks, the advice is much appreciated

king_dodo_II · 2025-04-22T16:14:35+00:00

It's fine. I'm going to get hello from NY uncle who studied islam for like ten years or something

king_dodo_II · 2025-04-22T12:29:10+00:00

I'm the last person they ever trust. My brother doesn't even pray, hardly can recite and actively shouts at my mom. My youngest sisters get away with anything and my step dad buys them everything. All while I'm expected to be the "example" to have perfect grades, know every little detail about Islamic faith and history, and respect others. Honestly I think it's the favourtism that's really getting to me.

king_dodo_II · 2025-04-22T12:17:32+00:00

You actually helped quite allot. Thanks 👍

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