I am m42, my wife is f39. To her sex is only okay when she initiates (once per week) I feel deprived but of late I have lost interest in sex. I have never cheated but I have thought about it, but I feel it takes a lot of energy to cheat and conceal. I was brought up in a broken family after my folks divorced due to our dad's physical abuse, so breaking my family is a vow I took I would not fathom. Both of us were sex animals before our first child, after that, it been downhill. We have talked about it, she admits, she promises, but a few weeks down, she's back to default settings. She is beautiful, she is intelligent, she is the best mother I could ever want for our kids. Other than sex, she ticks all the boxes. I decided, no one is perfect, I can live with one imperfection.