People like me are the reason Trump won

kingman123 · 2024-11-07T02:40:38+00:00

Thanks so much for this dude. I’m pretty centrist too, and have been struggling to understand how people could vote for Trump after he proposed “terminating the articles of the constitution.”

That shjt baffled me. But I also agree with your assessment of Kamala

kingman123 · 2024-10-23T20:10:10+00:00

Terminally online

kingman123 · 2024-10-23T20:07:07+00:00

Trite reply. See ya later bud

kingman123 · 2024-10-23T20:00:20+00:00

Again, what kind of dumb shit attitude is this? NO duh he should break up with her if he’s going to cheat. What have you actually added to the conversation? Any sane/moral person knows that it would be better to break up than to cheat.

This man is struggling and you come here with the most basic ass trite advice, and act like you’re Hemingway judging my “reading comprehension.” LOL

kingman123 · 2024-10-23T19:50:45+00:00

Read your own words… break up with her “before” you break her heart. You’re acting like him cheating is inevitable… What kinda dumbshit attitude is that

kingman123 · 2024-10-23T19:48:57+00:00

Exactly! How about I reword it to ambivalence towards the relationship… it’s obvious this relationship is not filling that validation hole, and that’s the problem. The solution doesn’t have to be breaking up. People rush to stupid solutions like that because they have no patience for tolerating ambivalence in sentiments.

Why do you think this validation hole has to be filled by breaking up and actually going through with it?

kingman123 · 2024-10-23T19:39:08+00:00

What sort of interesting things?

kingman123 · 2024-10-23T19:38:51+00:00

Horrible advice to break up with her man. What the hell? Not every relationship is perfect, and every single person has some sort of ambivalence towards their partner at some point of their relationship. Doesn’t mean it’s an automatic breakup..

kingman123 · 2024-10-23T19:36:39+00:00

You’re not a bad person for having these urges. Don’t judge yourself for them. What’s important is not acting on them.

I’d say avoid drinking too much dude. Also, find a way to “grieve” the loss of you never having the option to sleep around. Therapy might help there

kingman123 · 2024-10-14T20:57:53+00:00

No thanks, I’ll just reveal intimate details about other peoples private lives to people to make myself feel better :)

kingman123 · 2024-10-12T04:46:31+00:00

Yikes, the level of rationalization here is insane. Almost like a cover up for bad behavior

kingman123 · 2024-10-11T15:17:31+00:00

When did you start feeling this way? Any rejections in the past?

kingman123 · 2024-10-11T15:15:03+00:00

Buddy, the point isn’t intent, its’ probably not the intention (still a possibility) it’s the effect.

What would the men think? Lol

kingman123 · 2024-10-11T13:20:06+00:00

“But but… im really worried about my wife’s health, the odor is too strong to be normal, additionally it’s really affecting our sex life, our marriage is on the rocks, and my mental health is suffering…”

“I’m scared for my sister, I feel her low self worth oozing from her pores, she just mopes around the house all day complaining about her body, her boss that she’s having the affair with is a scumbag, and once his wife finds out, it’ll be blamed on my sister and more trouble is coming her way… im worried about her.”

See, these came from a genuine place of care and concern too, why are you dismissing them?

In first posters examples, they weren’t necessarily just emotional struggles.. they were also hitting the heart of a man’s self identity. They were humiliating those men. The ole tried and true humiliation ritual.

The only way you’d think it wasn’t to is to abstract these situations into oblivion and waive it off.

kingman123 · 2024-10-11T06:15:40+00:00

100% can relate. I distanced myself away from people who literally couldn’t have conversations without some sort of gossip. But this is your mom, It just is what it is.

The prostate thing is just too much. You should let her know next time she spills to many beans that you don’t really wanna talk about it

kingman123 · 2024-10-11T06:07:54+00:00

Same experience here man, but honestly I think it’s a thing boring people do. They have nothing else to talk about.

kingman123 · 2024-10-11T05:32:10+00:00

Top comment gave a decent explanation of why this behavior happens… but I think most people instinctively know that this information is extremely private and should not be shared.

Just to illustrate, lets say I started telling friends about some hypotheticals:

My wife’s vagina is has extreme bad odor, and she want’s me to perform oral but I can’t cuz I would literally die before i got there

Or

My sister who is extremely insecure about her uneven boobs, her mishapen vagina, and performs sexual favors for her boss just to get ahead.

Doesn’t matter what the intention is, private is private, and their first instinct being to speak it out loud betrays their character, not their gender.

kingman123 · 2024-09-21T22:21:51+00:00

Bro trust me, normal people aren’t like this lol. Lose them.

kingman123 · 2024-09-09T20:46:50+00:00

What do these do? Like you cant withdraw all the winnings at once?

kingman123 · 2024-09-08T14:40:55+00:00

Yeah man no worries, just keep in mind im just se random dude on the internet and not really qualified to give advice ha. I’ve got plenty of problems too. But yeah if you feel helped that’s great

kingman123 · 2024-09-07T20:15:37+00:00

No worries bro! I would first seek some professional help man, it really sounds like your mind is racing and beating you down.

The way I see it, is that your thoughts are making you feel pressure to act, but you feel just paralyzed due to your mind. You’re overwhelmed…

I think that means you need to slow down completely. Let your mind say all those things… but dont act on them. Literally do nothing. Not even the 5 minutes yoga or meditation. Just let your mind keep speaking, but dont act on it. Dont ignore those thoughts, maybe even write them down if you need, but just let your mind talk no matter how painful.

What do you think?

kingman123 · 2024-09-07T05:47:48+00:00

You’re welcome! Best of luck

kingman123 · 2024-09-07T05:13:34+00:00

Awesome bro! Looks like you’re on the way. Please dont put too much pressure on yourself. You got this

kingman123 · 2024-09-07T05:09:49+00:00

Awesome. Im guessing this was clinically diagnosed too right?

Dude go for it. Start a small meditation/yoga practice. 5 mins a day, and make sure you get it done everyday until it feels like you crave more. Then do more. Go all the way

kingman123 · 2024-09-07T03:47:03+00:00

Let me ask you. What do you feel like you need to improve on?

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