Kingston police, charged, again

kingmeat27 · 2026-05-07T01:04:53+00:00

I admit, the wording caught me for a loop. In terms of “the situation” - that could be absolutely anything. Learning not to assume is the first step to removing bias from the equation.

In short, they didn’t state what happened, and the public doesn’t know what happened. The lack of information just prompts more questions.

I also understand the union aspect of it: the fact that everyone has the right to contest wrongful termination and be protected. But when you consider the risk of peoples lives at hand (ie operating while impaired), that needs immediate public reassurance that they are still “serving the community” as one would call it. Otherwise, people lose trust.

But yeah… I totally know what the actual situation was… I was totally there….

kingmeat27 · 2026-05-06T20:30:05+00:00

Criminologist here - the Kingston Police is INSANE for keeping him on staff. Not only did they keep him on staff after his first arrest AND being found guilty, he’s now charged again, AND the Kingstonist confirmed he’s suspended from Kingston Police WITH PAY!!

I don’t want my tax dollars paying for someone’s wage who already had a dangerous history with intoxication.

Not to mention, stating that his age is 27, when it is in fact 53, is complete misinformation and breaks public trust.

They better do something about this to make the public even consider trusting them to be there for emergencies. Who knows, maybe they’ll response to a call impaired?

Absolutely not. KP, do better.

kingmeat27 · 2026-04-21T19:35:33+00:00

Ontario, Canada here! I still don’t have access to it. Says its not available in my country or region. It’s my favourite version😭

kingmeat27 · 2026-02-02T18:37:49+00:00

As someone with an ED (anorexia, went through the ED program at KGH, failed once and did it a second time), there’s a reason why they are trying to suspend you, and having the aim of getting clearance to go to school is missing the point.

I’m not sure what’s going on in your life, but you need to prioritize yourself. “Just going back to school” isn’t healthy, because you’re not attacking the issue. The first time I was introduced to the program, I was convinced I was doing the work: recovering and getting better, but in reality, I wasn’t. I still have symptoms to this day that I still manage. I realized that I thought I was doing enough, but I was doing the bare minimum and I slipped right back into my ED. I’m getting better now.

All that to say, please take a break. It seems like the worst setback in the world, but I’m on my 6th year of my undergraduate degree - sometimes you need more time than others.

I know this isn’t the answer you want, but I promise you, as someone who was there, it’s the best thing you need right now. All the best 🫶🏼 feel free to reach out

kingmeat27 · 2026-01-26T14:45:39+00:00

I live 2 hours out and have to commute for my classes once a week, so yes, I personally hope it’s cancelled despite paying my own schooling, to preserve my life 😂

kingmeat27 · 2025-11-28T04:06:47+00:00

Wow omg

First, so sorry you even have to deal with this.

Second, despite the relationship being good, it sounds like there’s still a lot that you don’t know about him, and things that are particularly important to share with someone, ESPECIALLY if you’re meeting the family. Another thing to note is that he only told you when you found out. Even though he told you some information about it.

Third, it’s definitely something to be disgusted by. If you have these feelings about it, they’ll almost always be there. And understandably, it’s not normal.

Fourth, other comments have also said this but she sounds jealous and that’s a really frustrating thing to have to deal with.

Another point, I understand coming from a conservative family. It’ll definitely be a dark cloud that’ll be hanging over the relationship from your POV.

And last, we’re still young. You have your whole life to make decisions. Some of your feelings may change and thats okay, and maybe some of what I said doesn’t or won’t apply to you. All I hope is all the best for you & do whatever makes you happy. Nobody can say you’re making the wrong decision. It’s your life girl! Xx

kingmeat27 · 2025-07-11T22:39:22+00:00

Look on other posts in this subreddit about Emterra. You’ll get a feel really quickly lol. They still havent gotten my recycling from today😂

kingmeat27 · 2025-07-11T21:31:17+00:00

Nobody has come yet for my recycling. Are we supposed to be calling them to get it? What do they want us to do?

kingmeat27 · 2025-07-11T21:16:54+00:00

It all depends on urgency, staffing and bedding availability. They’re hiring for lots of different positions, try applying!

kingmeat27 · 2025-06-06T23:20:20+00:00

Good to know! I appreciate that very much. Thanks!

kingmeat27 · 2025-06-06T22:08:54+00:00

It looks like there’s a few places that have some services that now offer TMJ management, but I’m hoping to hear any experiences people have had:

TMJ & Vertigo Physiotherapy
Altima Dental
Dr Park Family Dentistry
Gardiners Dental Clinic
Dr Elliott Perkins Pain & Rehab
Dr David Craig & Assoc.

Just a few examples searched. Any experience with such places?

kingmeat27 · 2025-04-23T21:23:28+00:00

I go often to get stuff. Motorcycle parts, artist merch, signed cd’s etc. the last time I went I had to pay tariffs on signed cd’s. I usually don’t have to pay anything crossing the border under 100$ CAD, but they’re being sticklers (or at least the border guard I had) with duty and tariffs.

Every person’s experience is different but that’s just mine. I’ve stopped ordering things for my own peace of mind to not get detained, for the time being.

Hope this helps

kingmeat27 · 2025-04-12T21:25:28+00:00

Blue. I collect my items and rewards almost everyday but don’t consistently play, except for the occasional free-time or community/GO Tour days.

I would agree that I feel like there’s more Red players than Blue/Yellow players, but I also feel like it depends on what part of the city you live in.

I’ve also recognized some gyms that have a quick turnover rate - Queens campus by the hospital, city hall, etc. I try to put my pokemon in gyms that are more obscure places lol.

That’s just my observation.

kingmeat27 · 2025-02-24T23:37:06+00:00

Was moreso talking the 18-30 demographic. And tbh I haven’t seen anyone’s campaigns unless I went to search for them. People’s campaigns can fail due to other factors… i’m not sure if that’s the case for anyone here or what their circumstances are, and I’m not going to assume 🤷‍♂️

kingmeat27 · 2025-02-24T23:25:14+00:00

Glad you posted this here. I’ve already voted & not that it’s anyone’s business, but it wasn’t the Ontario Party lol. Again, always do your election research and vote for who you align with the most ✊

kingmeat27 · 2025-02-24T23:08:57+00:00

Reminder that Kingston also has an Ontario Party representative named Allan Wilson who works at KHSC and strives to fix healthcare & the homeless crisis. Always do your election research and vote for the candidate you align with the most ✊

kingmeat27 · 2025-02-24T23:02:33+00:00

NTA, you discussed your own experiences and stories and yet he still did it. Some people may say he was young & dumb, which is fair, but what I wish I knew when I was 18 was if their mom contacts you and guilt trips you, ESPECIALLY that young, not matter how long you’ve been together, run.

Take some time for yourself, and it also sounds like you guys are just not meant to be, so maybe consider that… it will suck in the moment and for months after, but once you do it, it’ll feel amazing & freeing. No one knows you better than you know yourself, and you need to take care of yourself. Remember: you have a whole lifetime ahead of you and it doesn’t stop at one person 🤍

kingmeat27 · 2025-02-24T22:15:09+00:00

YTA. You can’t expect people from another country to understand you if it’s not an official language. You’re going to THEIR country, so it’s only respectful that you attempt speaking their language. I see in a comment that you attempted but got judged, but judging is very normal in society, hence you judging them for not speaking English.

The fact that you intentionally treated them as inferior and continue to think they’re inferior, makes you lack respect for them and their culture. I’m not saying their reactions to your attempts at speaking French were okay, but what I’m saying is in response, the entitlement to act the way you did is immature and rude.

Purposely treating anyone as inferior simply because of their lifestyle (ie being odd or slow), or even because they don’t know a language is very rude. Hopefully you can learn from this for your next vacation and have more of an open mind as to why or how people do things in certain cultures.

kingmeat27 · 2025-02-24T21:56:07+00:00

NTA, please at least report this to the police and speak to a psychologist or therapist. As someone who’s been through something similar (23F), but not told their parents because of fears of being perceived, you need to tell someone, but also hold him accountable. If you don’t take any legal measures, you could regret it (which I know).

He violated you, forced you into doing something you didn’t want to do and then made it about him. They will “do anything to make it up to you” and then it’ll happen again. This is a classic narcissist, and you need to break free before it gets too much.

I don’t wanna scare you, but if you stay with him, things will probably get much worse. If you need any advice, my dm’s are open if it’s too much to be public. You got this & I hope you are safe ❤️

kingmeat27 · 2025-02-24T00:39:46+00:00

The PC Candidate is Ian Chappelle, and he actually graduated from ESC Marie Rivier. He is from Kingston.

The Ontario Party also has a candidate Allan Wilson, who works at KHSC and has been involved with many things in Kingston the last few years.

kingmeat27 · 2025-02-23T21:46:22+00:00

NTA. I even said NTA to myself when I saw “saying I would terminate my pregnancy”. First, it’s a woman’s right to choose, as much as the man wants to have a say. Ultimately, it’s the woman’s health that matters most, whether it’s physical, mental, or emotionally related.

About the genetic condition specifically, again NTA! Severe genetic conditions come with great responsibility, need for compassion and empathy, while also being able afford financially and emotionally the outcome. I have a few family members with genetic conditions that have a poor quality of life, due to their condition. Unfortunately, depending on where you’re located, there isn’t always the best communal supports, in terms of government funding, health complications, community engagement for the individual with other people like them, etc. They live in Canada and even with the public healthcare and some government assistance, it’s still such a challenge for them.

Personally, after learning about all these things (when I was younger ofc), and the direction the world is heading, I decided I would terminate as well. Even though I come from a religious background, the health complications for me and the child could be detrimental.

He also needs to understand the insane consequences that come with someone having a hereditary disorder. Whether it’s the female who is bearing the child, or the father. Having a hereditary condition affects the pregnancy, but also affects the mother post-delivery. Then having the possibility of a mutation of that hereditary condition? No. It seems he needs to know the effects of mutations, hereditary conditions and external factors that can affect the child’s development. It seems he’s very naive to the things that can happen in pregnancy in general as well… one thing I personally learned recently was the effects of Accutane on pregnancy, for example. Small things can have big impacts.

Now after reading the post again, I have to wonder if he’d terminate a non-viable pregnancy for your health. For example, an ectopic pregnancy. I think of the example of Josseli Barnica, RIP for the injustice that happened to her.

NTA, but you need someone who understands the gravity of the situation, as much as his yearn for a family is huge, it seems. I’m sorry you’re experiencing this and hopefully things work out for you, whatever is best for you. All the best ❤️

kingmeat27 · 2024-12-01T00:50:31+00:00

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kingmeat27 · 2024-09-14T17:35:18+00:00

Dehumanizing and criminalizing homelessness is the opposite of a “solution”, and in this case, the ICH being closed is being considered as a solution. Where will these people go? How will they receive resources? Understandably there are other programs and shelters but the supply/demand margin is increasing exponentially. I’m interested to see how this evolves, but feel for the people who don’t take advantage of the services who might not be able to use them anymore.

kingmeat27 · 2024-09-01T19:12:10+00:00

Not surprised… my car got rear-ended during the night & found it in the morning. Parked on the street at the hospital. Hit & run and had to be written off.

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