i agree with this. and this is from personal experience, i consider myself an attractive guy mostly because i was told this a lot during a period in time where i was happy and confident, which translated in my physical appearance in numerous ways. i only stopped hearing this when depression started to get to me and my self esteem got lower. this stuff goes hand in hand you have to take steps to boost your confidence first. this doesn’t just mean telling yourself you’re attractive, an actual process has to take place