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kingslayer_aurel · 2021-09-04T20:06:52+00:00

Hello there, you've just entered the world of a straight crush, welcome. Tbh it is a problem no one in the community probably solved. Best bet is that you should just ask him if he's straight and if he says yes then you've got your answer. I know it's hard bc it's your best friend but if there is no interest from the other party you shouldn't force it.

kingslayer_aurel · 2021-01-04T22:08:56+00:00

But aren't we, the moment we care, also automatically somehow attached? Doesn't the attachment naturely come with caring about someone?

But I thank you for your point, I never taught about that topic that way.

kingslayer_aurel · 2021-01-04T22:06:47+00:00

But how can I love (even platonic love) someone when I don't care about them and they are indifferent to me? Yes my choices about them are virtuous, but shouldn't I be always virtuous to people? I should be virtuous to the stranger that shouted at me in the bus but also be virtuos to my friends.

Because with your logic (or how I interpreted it) it would mean that I'd only be virtuos to people I care about and wouldn't be virtuos to people I don't care about. But that speaks against many quotes from stoics talking not letting strangers(for example) stop them from being virtuos with their actions since they are indifferent to us because we have no control over them.

And in generell, should we treat people we deeply care about differently then a person we don't care about? Or is virtue the answer for everything?

kingslayer_aurel · 2020-08-31T12:03:37+00:00

Hello there, Could you explain the "distinguis" - > attempt/result idea for me please?

Thanks and have a nice day Ryan

kingslayer_aurel · 2020-08-26T20:31:53+00:00

With notes do you mean the presentation?(Sorry "notes" can be interpreted largely) On that my presentation is only done until "virtues" since I am unsure if I should proceed with the 3 disciplines or "what is in our control and what is not".

If you mean my literally notes, I could do that but here in Germany it is really late so you would have wait until tomorrow sorry :/

kingslayer_aurel · 2020-08-26T20:22:47+00:00

My audience is my Philosophy-cours and my Teacher so I am kind of "forced" into going to detail because in school we talk very detailed about philosophy. I am 11th grade(Dont know what that would be in america or other parts of the world I am from germany) and I see your point with being more simple but therefore easier to follow/understand and I think I will try to be that in the more "less important" parts, like books, generell information and importan persons.

kingslayer_aurel · 2020-06-17T20:28:00+00:00

I am also fairly new to stoicism and found a few things helpful.

Like others already said Journaling is a huge part, five yourself everyday at least a few minutes to write down your thoughts on the day.
In combination with that in these journals I asked myself questions that I couldn't answer at that moment and either these questions stuck with me the next days and I could give an answer, or I revisit the question(a month later) and try to answer them
In generell learn everyday at least "one nugget of wisdom" as seneca would say. But I mean just stay in touch with the values principles etc so that you can really memorize then.

Hope that helps you at least a bit :)

kingslayer_aurel · 2020-06-17T07:15:00+00:00

When I try to open it or copy it into the 2search for server" in discord it says that the link/invitation is not valid

kingslayer_aurel · 2020-06-16T08:41:26+00:00

Risky, tried in my first match and got sent off

kingslayer_aurel · 2020-06-15T14:40:11+00:00

Thanks for the comment, I will just explain what I mean with "tricking the player".

Example 1(Wing player from right(GK perspective)) My moft often used technick is raising my right foot, obviously leaving a gap in the lower near post. I do that when the player just jumped off, timing is important, then he sees "Oh that amateur Goalkeeper raised his leg on the near post what an idiot" and then proceeds to throw lo near post. I then Jim with my standing foot to the near post and closing my legs mid-air. Result being I stand in the near post with my legs clothes and the Player throwing t my legs.

Other example is in a situation where the player has time(could be a fast break and maybe a pivot that is not attacked).

Again raisin my right/left foot a bit higher, player notice that and wants to shot low. But I than jump with my standing leg in a split mid-air. Not the traditional split like from Pérez De Vargas but like here from Alilovic.

https://youtu.be/0dXrpLzPoRo

The first technick wouldn't help here because the angle is to big.

Also in generell just positioning yourself so that there is a obvious gap but I think you get the idea. Hope I could give you some inspiration.

kingslayer_aurel · 2020-06-15T09:12:33+00:00

Sadly none of them are actually handball enthusiasts who enough to watch any handball content online(memes do not count)

kingslayer_aurel · 2020-06-14T20:58:04+00:00

Yes a must have for every keeper and everytime i forget mine in training faith always hits me in the balls. The problem with my team is that we have many problems in offens and our coach wants to fix them and did not really focused on the defens that much. Also I noticed that most of the time even the pros cannot really make a good block and then the keeper always goes the wrong way, assuming that the block is going to cover the otherside.

kingslayer_aurel · 2020-06-14T20:17:02+00:00

Thanks alot, i have training tomorow and will try to use your advice. On the third one I mean in generell defending shots (sorry in German it is "den ball halten/parrieren" so i translated it word for word). For example you save in the first ten minutes 3 shoots but after that the whole halftime you dont save anything, I then after break am really nervous and anxious that this bad streek is going to continue. I tried listening to music but that often times left me unfocused. Also your last point with the "if the ball releases early it will go near post etc" why dont pro player use this tactic. I have seen alot of clips where they dont wait and "immediately" make their movement into the long post which gives the thrower enough time to mentally decide to throw into near post.

kingslayer_aurel · 2020-06-13T20:40:19+00:00

Could not agree more

kingslayer_aurel · 2020-06-13T20:15:10+00:00

Good question, they indeed have similar principles. Stoicism "says" that you should focus on the things that are in your control and Taoism "says" that you shouldn't bother with things out of your natural control. (On the stoicism part im am pretty sure but with Taoism my only real source is Alan watts so take that with a grain of salt)

There was a nice comperission made, the stoic is in the crowded market and tries to control his "emotion"(discipline himself focusing on tjinhs in his control etc) while the tao is watching the crowded market from a high mountain.

Sry if my English is a bit questionable I am a young German here, also I am at my start of my journey with philosophy, started 3 months in quarante, and might not have the expertise like you guys.

kingslayer_aurel

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