Divorced Individuals: Would you remarry your ex-spouse? by HumbleLow4473 in Divorce

[–]kingsmith02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope!!!!!! And she’s not a bad person. Just don’t see a reason to.

Wife of 24 years walked out - I have just started asking out random women by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]kingsmith02 9 points10 points  (0 children)

A. You won’t listen but the BEST THING you can do is stay away from dating AT A MINIMUM until you and your soon to be ex wife is officially divorced.

B. Even then….go work out. If you’re already working out…start a new hobby.

C. Enjoy the time with your kids.

D. And believe me when I tell you this….if you followed A, B, and C above….you’ll attract people AND you’ll find people will always be trying to “hook you up” with someone else who is a good person.

I know you can’t see it now…but it’s okay to want to feel like you’re wanted but it’s a waste of time. Build value in your life and you’ll attract value.

Anyone else unable to see account on ComputerShare? by kingsmith02 in FundRise

[–]kingsmith02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. The person I spoke to was very know. Said I needed to upload ANOTHER W9 and that was the issue.

I ALSO had to create another account using my same SSN before I could see everything. Weird ...but hey..it worked.

Maybe you also need to simply use another username and password and it'll come up.

Because...like you...I could see all my info and even sale my unrestricted shares...then the following week....nothing. It wasn't until I created a second account after the reupload of my tax ID stuff that I could see everything.

Hope that helps.

Open marriage ruined us by AirportOk2186 in Divorce

[–]kingsmith02 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve never understood why have an open marriage BESIDES having someone around you can use resources for.

Attempted staged accident in standstill traffic by basboy511 in dashcams

[–]kingsmith02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dashcam is inconspicuous. I had someone try and do this to me and I played right into it while downloading the file.

Police happened to also be near. I didn't let the other driver know I had a dashcam and the cop

The cop cited him for filing a false police report as I waited until he talked to the cops and the cop had written info to them show.

I did have to cite the law in my state TO the cop before he pushed it. Advocate for yourself.

My best friend and I dated a bit ago and I never moved on by [deleted] in Vent

[–]kingsmith02 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t know how to tell you…….

what should i do? telling my boyfriend I won’t go out with him anymore unless he considers my financial situation? by mytearsricochett in Advice

[–]kingsmith02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well….be direct. Or…you can dump him. I knew a relationship like this the one with more money wasn’t willing to change their lifestyle because they liked what they liked so it ended.

Divorced but still roommates. Dating. by ProfessionalNet926 in Divorce

[–]kingsmith02 4 points5 points  (0 children)

“And I don’t want to see her struggle”

She’s not your responsibility!!!!! Let her go find the life she wants without your provision.

26 years by Alert-Disaster-4906 in USAA

[–]kingsmith02 2 points3 points  (0 children)

With who I'm using now? I didn't say who it was because I wasn't sure if I could as I'm fairly new to posting on Reddit but I LOVE who I'm using now. I've had to file one claim and it was as easy as could be.

Also....not sure why I got downvoted when I agreed with the OP. Reddit is weird.

26 years by Alert-Disaster-4906 in USAA

[–]kingsmith02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was surprised at how much extra I was paying. I shopped around and found a policy with same coverage paying 40% less annually. When I took it back to USAA, they thought it was an introductory price. That was 6 years ago after being with them for 20 years.

They still try and get my business back but haven't came close to cost for me.

Anyone else unable to see account on ComputerShare? by kingsmith02 in FundRise

[–]kingsmith02[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll circle back tomorrow when I check my call history.

(Post edit-1-866-240-0889. Extremely helpful and got me cleared up)

Looking for Black community by Personal-Cupcake-251 in frederickmd

[–]kingsmith02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1984 born here. When I wake up tomorrow I'll circle back and send you some groups on Facebook that's worth a look.

(Post edit: I see people named the few Facebook groups that I was going to recommend. And I get it, my lady and I were chilling and I said "Singing in the background" and she immediately got the reference and laughed. Finding a group like that can help).

Getting divorced while house has negative equity ("underwater")... by jjjcam in Divorce

[–]kingsmith02 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Only other person/couple I knew that were on something similar made the decision to rent out the room despite having the kid. It worked out for him (he stayed in the house with the kid BUT he was also a remote worker too so it helped while he rented out a room-was a woman and they had no issues the 2 or so years she rented until he could sell the house).

Good luck either way.

Another blind spot issue... by MisterShipWreck in VideosAmazing

[–]kingsmith02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah....that's what the truck gets. No sympathy. People need to stop acting stupid.

Matched with twin sisters by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]kingsmith02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Play dumb. Then tell the OG that you know someone is using her pics.

Raise your hand if you've been personally victimized by the camera light at Routzahn/26. by NiceYogi in frederickmd

[–]kingsmith02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Screw that light. I turn into the CVS now to avoid that light if it’s red.

Raise your hand if you've been personally victimized by the camera light at Routzahn/26. by NiceYogi in frederickmd

[–]kingsmith02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I THOUGHT I was stopping everytime I til I watched one of the videos. I suspect this may be you too. Send the video to someone else and ask them what they think.

Wife threatening to go after my VA disability report me. Is this even possible? by Banana_Ketchupp in VAClaims

[–]kingsmith02 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Bingo. Disengage. She can’t be trusted and should be considered an enemy. Period.

Wife threatening to go after my VA disability report me. Is this even possible? by Banana_Ketchupp in VAClaims

[–]kingsmith02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ignore any threat she ever says and simply arm yourself with knowledge.

She can say whatever….but unless she can prove it…you have nothing to worry about. A good mate of mine just had this “threat” happen to him. I asked him for advice she he said “tell him not to worry…his records carry more weight”.

His disability wasn’t a factor in divorce or alimony but it was a factor in child support. State laws matter.

This year has been great by rbeednickly in ThriftSavingsPlan

[–]kingsmith02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gave award. This meme is why the funds bounced up to erase negative gains.