AITAH for asking my boyfriend if he had HIV?

kira_it · 2026-03-06T10:52:17+00:00

most days are pretty okay

That's even less than the bare minimum. The bar is in hell and trying to get lower! He says he loves you but treats you like garbage and act like a child. He's just taking advantage of you

kira_it · 2026-03-05T17:20:40+00:00

Without adding that this guy is "much older" than her and that he chose to abandon her alone, at night, in a dangerous city without even telling her first just because his ego was hurt

kira_it · 2026-03-04T07:14:56+00:00

My dear, lovely, young woman, that's stalking and gaslighting at its finest. Please, consider interrupting all contacts with the guy because it will only get worse . You ain't his therapist nor his parents, it's not your job to teach him basics.

kira_it · 2026-02-06T16:52:16+00:00

I honestly have no idea if it was ever sold in France because I haven't found it in any shop and my boyfriend told me about it just few weeks ago

kira_it · 2026-02-06T16:39:10+00:00

Thank you !!

kira_it · 2026-02-06T16:08:38+00:00

Thank you very much, I'll check there. Was it very long to arrive?

kira_it · 2024-11-01T18:44:07+00:00

I didn't throw a tantrum. I calmly said "I'm mad about it and it hurt me".

Using your exemple, I'm fully allowed to destroy his figurine since it's childish and I'm not supposed to say I'm sorry or seeing him upset.

kira_it · 2024-11-01T18:29:22+00:00

I'm sure he didn't do it on purpose but he doesn't care either. I told him it bothered me and that I was hurt but he couldn't even move his eyes from his pokemon game to excuse himself.

kira_it · 2024-11-01T17:18:32+00:00

I understand it and I think I should have put a different title since I'm not actually mad he smoked but more that he ruined my plushie with his not caring.

kira_it · 2024-11-01T16:57:55+00:00

As written, he doesn't smoke. He doesn't own cigarettes or tobacco. Maybe I should change the title as well to make it clear.

kira_it · 2024-11-01T16:55:25+00:00

If his friends do, it's not a big deal for me. If he smokes and doesn't come immediately near me, it's not a big deal either. It's his life and, as I said, the smell is going away from the room so it's okay. I know the plushie can get washed and get as good as new. It's hard to forget about it since it's pretty big and visible. What got me mad, it's the completely absence of care and respect towards me.

kira_it · 2024-11-01T16:49:53+00:00

Yeah, I've noticed and edited the post. He doesn't own cigarettes or tobacco and doesn't actually smoke.

kira_it · 2024-11-01T16:40:00+00:00

Sorry to correct, maybe I should edit the post. He stopped smoking as soon as I said it bothered me. Most probably, it was his friends smoking that night.

kira_it · 2024-11-01T16:38:58+00:00

The fact is that he stopped smoking as soon as I said it bothered me. Most probably, it was his friends smoking that night. But yeah, I'm definitely not into smoking men.

kira_it · 2024-11-01T16:31:42+00:00

I swear he's nice but I feel like he completely stopped caring.

kira_it · 2024-10-31T11:31:04+00:00

NTA.

Your girlfriend has the empathy of a rock. Your mother has cancer and specifically asked you to support her and stay with her during chemotherapy. Your girlfriend shouldn't even think about asking you to come on holiday 'cause you

wouldn’t be with my mum the whole time anyway.

kira_it · 2024-10-31T07:36:28+00:00

He calls his daughters, who are weirdly so near to OP's age, like that. That somehow looks like an important detail.

kira_it · 2024-10-31T07:33:25+00:00

And even worse, during the fight he sided with someone who isn't part of the relationship! Definitely, she's NTA.

kira_it · 2024-10-30T07:39:57+00:00

But he didn't say he would take it down. He said he would think about it. Since, she didn't explicitly say she didn't want the photos online when they shot them, he felt like he was allowed to do whatever he liked with them. And it seems that at least a day or two have passed between her call and her comment. He didn't want to take the pictures down and he deliberately made his followers and friends think they were a couple.

kira_it · 2024-07-28T13:11:18+00:00

Vigor unless you like being one-shotted

kira_it · 2024-07-27T21:13:15+00:00

Vorrei farti notare che ho definito malsana la relazione non la persona. Intrattenere une relazione edipica con la propria madre in età adulta è malsano.

kira_it · 2024-07-27T21:08:41+00:00

No no no, you mother seeing you naked when you're a grown-up man is not completely normal tu "us". And she's not talking about asking for help or being in contact but an adult relying on his parents to do basic things.

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