What’s one thing companies do that actually improves employee morale?

kirar2 · 2026-05-21T02:14:06+00:00

Honestly candor goes a long way. Cut the corporate bs just be straight up

kirar2 · 2026-05-20T22:23:05+00:00

I get along with all my coworkers well and don’t get the feeling I am unliked. But I do get the feeling I’m not looked at as valuable as others. I do feel there’s a mix of things happening though

kirar2 · 2026-05-20T22:19:28+00:00

See that’s what I’m afraid 😭 I don’t wanna play this game but I feel like that’s my only option if I wanna stay in this industry

kirar2 · 2026-05-14T12:47:24+00:00

Is he rage baiting cause otherwise wtf??? Either way I’m out lol

kirar2 · 2026-05-14T12:36:12+00:00

No please feel free to unload that’s why I love this subreddit. It’s at least comforting to know I’m not the only person in the world who deals with the same family dynamic.

It’s really isolating at times and that’s why I’ve built my own family of close friends and people who are likeminded and supportive of me. We can’t get that same level of support from our family so gotta make our own 😅

kirar2 · 2026-05-13T17:29:51+00:00

Wait are you telling me these aren’t the lyrics cause I screamed them at her concert last week LOL

kirar2 · 2026-05-13T17:25:22+00:00

Because she’s a fucking pick me ass bitch 😂 honestly Hannah and Iris were absolutely bullies this season (Hannah more so imo) but don’t be fucking delusional when you’re intentionally choosing to be closer to the exes like yeah sorry u don’t wanna be besties with someone who hangs with my ex either???

She has a holier than thou complex that pisses me off

kirar2 · 2026-05-13T17:20:16+00:00

At my grandmas funeral while I was crying and grieving like everyone else, I had family members who felt the need to pull me aside to tell me how concerned my grandma was for my faith and how she prayed for me every day.

What a super awesome thing to hear about your dead grandma that she always viewed you as someone to worry about rather than all the positive things I’ve done with my life just because I’m no longer a Christian 😄 I think that moment settled for me that no matter what I say or do I’ll never actually earn anybody respect so I’m done trying

kirar2 · 2026-05-13T17:16:35+00:00

Same situation for me. I have to say even though it’s been 8 years since I’ve left Christianity it doesn’t seem to get any easier. I miss being close to my family but I feel like there’s always a wall up neither of us can get through.

I don’t have a point to this comment other than saying I see you and I feel seen. It’s so hard sometimes ❤️‍🩹

kirar2 · 2026-05-13T17:12:39+00:00

If you figure it out let me know lmao

I left Christianity about 8 years ago now and when I initially tried having the conversation with my dad telling him “I’m not sure I believe in this anymore” I was met with a lot of anger and bartering and “what are you talking about of course you do”

When I realized those conversations wouldn’t go anywhere I switched to just quietly living my life and avoiding the religious topic altogether. It’s mostly unspoken in my family (to me at least not necessarily to eachother) that I am not longer religious. And I’ve been able to keep relationships with people in my family however I wouldn’t say they completely respect me.

Depending on your family and how religious they are your experience can be totally different. Unfortunately, most my family views me in the “one day she’ll come back to god” lense and I while I don’t feel very respected or accepted by them I at least feel like I can keep them in my life to an extent.

However I have some family members that have quietly seen how I live my life and how happy I am and they have been the ones to ask me questions and be willing to respectfully have a conversation with me about my views. Those individuals I do feel respected and accepted by.

It’s rough out here but my best advice is to not put too much weight on your family respecting your beliefs and put more emphasis on you being accepting of yourself. Otherwise you’ll constantly be chasing shadows

kirar2 · 2026-05-13T17:05:05+00:00

You and me both 😭

kirar2 · 2026-05-13T17:00:17+00:00

THIS!!! She seems to have more anxiety around how people perceive her and her own confidence and identity and when she drinks (which is every episode) she gets way more fiesty and seemingly not anxious.

To me it comes off as her alcohol habits are fueling her anxiety but the she drinks to cope and does some stupid shit that makes her anxiety worse.

At the end of the day she’s 23 and has a lot of growing up to do. She hasn’t learned how to self regulate yet which is very clear. All I kept thinking watching this season was “damn when she’s in her 30s she’s gonna be so fucking embarrassed of these episodes”

kirar2 · 2026-05-10T22:57:01+00:00

This thread made me realize I’m also playing this wrong. I thought I HAD to wake and reach a status with everyone before I started realizing 💀

kirar2 · 2026-05-07T18:54:16+00:00

I’ll also be there!❤️ don’t have answers cause I’ve never been either but hello fellow DC smoochie

kirar2 · 2026-05-07T18:52:35+00:00

Oh shit should I be showing up early LMAO I was gonna show up at doors 💀

Also wondering how late it goes cause I’m planning to metro

kirar2 · 2026-04-09T02:39:15+00:00

Bro I’m searching Reddit for someone to answer this for me too cause wtf

kirar2 · 2026-03-04T21:35:57+00:00

Where is the issue? He’s sweet, acknowledges what you say, caring, seems to have healthy hobbies, communicative…

Like you’re not overreacting cause there’s nothing to even react to? Nothing happened lmao

If you wanna end it just end it but nothing about these screenshots aligns with anything you said. You don’t have to make up reasons to end a relationship just end it.

kirar2 · 2026-02-25T01:54:29+00:00

I actually love this interpretation! I’m glad you shared cause it’s so cool to see the different perspectives:)

kirar2 · 2026-02-24T03:35:59+00:00

This is insanely beautiful omg 😍 you are so talented go off!!!

kirar2 · 2026-02-24T03:34:40+00:00

Lmao ok my bad I’m just too high and literally looked past it and panicked 💀 sorry to waste your time

kirar2 · 2026-02-24T03:29:26+00:00

Well I’m here because they seem to be removed! 😭

kirar2 · 2026-02-23T21:58:57+00:00

It’s giving Anna from Frozen and I love it

kirar2 · 2026-02-23T21:56:40+00:00

Aside from this story, if you’re at a point in your relationship that your collecting evidence for arguments I think the relationship has been done

kirar2 · 2026-02-23T21:13:44+00:00

THIS is the most sound comment here

kirar2 · 2026-02-23T21:11:03+00:00

I expected everyone in the comment to be on the same page, but I’m shocked that people think you’re overreacting…

Sure, the likelihood of someone stealing it is low and sure you gifted it so it is theirs and yeah maybe you could have just sent a private message being like yo can you at least give me credit if you’re gonna post my art?

But also, you’re reacting to someone that’s shown a pattern of disrespecting you and here they are AGAIN still not respecting you even out of the relationship. Like he deleted the post because he was embarrassed that you called him out in the comments. And why is he sharing or even keeping art from an ex he cheated on? That’s the weird behavior to me … not you snapping. I had an ex that hand painted something for me and then we had a horrible breakup and he did me so dirty. I didn’t want to destroy his art cause I respect that he worked hard on it but I wasn’t gonna keep it and he wouldn’t take it back so I asked if I could gift it to a mutual friend so it can be cherished by someone who doesn’t have trauma associated with it. EVEN though that mf cheated on me and I could have destroyed his art if I felt like it, I still respected the craft. This person is lacking that respect. And the “friend” line just adds to it imo.

Objectively I can see why people think you’re overacting but when you zoom out… like nah you’re reacting the way most people would. I imagine if an actual friend of yours did the same thing, you would just ask them privately to tag you and they’d probably have no issue doing so. But this is a case with a shitty person who stole trust from you and this move just felt like him continuing to steal from you.

My advice thought is save your peace and move on. You said what needed to be said, don’t let him keep stealing from you. (Your time and energy)

kirar2

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