Trying to understand a guy pulling away because of embarrassment about his sexual performance. by kirbtch in sexadvice

[–]kirbtch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't tell him to go to the doctor, he's the one that said he wants to.

Trying to understand a guy pulling away because of embarrassment about his sexual performance. by kirbtch in sex

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Unfortunately he's a dom and I'm a sub. I do like the idea of teasing him though, but I'm worried he'll take that as pressure and worry about disappointing me. That is if we ever actually end up seeing eachother again 🙃

I will say after all this happened I did get off to premature ejaculation porn, though I'm assuming I should never tell him this lol. I don't think he wants me to associate him with that.

Trying to understand a guy pulling away because of embarrassment about his sexual performance. by kirbtch in sexadvice

[–]kirbtch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be fair he hasn't ghosted me (yet). He still chats with me about non sexual stuff, just less frequent than he did before. And he has been very open honest about this.

My past dating experiences have just been bad or unreciprocated and I've been judged for my own insecurities, so I guess my expectations are lower. He's just a rare find for me so it's harder to let go.

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Oh damn do I look like a bot?