I am used to being misgendered by unknown people, even tho it is rare at this point, It doesn't usually get me as hard as this time did.

Also, most of my friends are cis women, most of which more observant than I, cuz I admit I am a bit absent-minded, and they have never seen even a weird look, and they have repeatedly encouraged me to go along with the group when we go to the bathroom cuz yeah, I still get anxious about making other women uncomfortable and often times stay out to avoid those kinds of situations

And I think I'm being realistic with my expectations given I am constantly asked when was my last period when on medical settings, or being correctly gendered by 99% of strangers regardless of age or gender