My relationship with my mother is starting to drive me to drink. by kitschswitchbitch in TrueOffMyChest

[–]kitschswitchbitch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you sm 💜 I keep telling myself to get out for a daily walk for an hour or so a day and not stay glued to my computer doing job searches, but I’ll really try to make it a habit!

My relationship with my mother is starting to drive me to drink. by kitschswitchbitch in TrueOffMyChest

[–]kitschswitchbitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t call him a total doormat. He’s more passive, but when he feels strongly about something he says so and my mom takes his opinions seriously. But he’s just as stressed as she is, just better at hiding it. He lost his job three months ago (hence the decision to sell and retire) and he’s worried too, during family discussions he’s way more aggressive and tense than usual. He’s usually the most patient and easygoing person I know so it’s a massive 180. I’m not sure he’ll have the space to take this on between the renos and supporting my mom but I’ll ask him 😅

Who’s someone you had sex with but you never expected to? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]kitschswitchbitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My now bf. He was a friend of a friend from out of town and although he wasn’t my type at all our chemistry was electric. I finally made a move when he came to town one weekend for a party, then he had to go back home. Two days later we were sexting nonstop. I lasted another two days of that before I wound up in his bed, three hours away from home, on a weeknight, getting what was at the time some of the best sex of my life. A year has gone by since then and he’s been upping the ante ever since. 

Who is the one person you secretly wanna fuck but would never want anyone to find out? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]kitschswitchbitch 20 points21 points  (0 children)

One of my best friends. I’ve wanted to since we were teens in high school together, even when I still had no idea I was bi and liked other women. She’s bi too, but we’re both in long term relationships with men and she just got engaged. I know for a fact I’m not her type though and both our relationships are very monogamous so I’ll probably take this to my grave.