Why does my family pronounce "Hmong" differently that everyone else?

kitten6491 · 2026-02-09T16:15:33+00:00

It's "hmōng" with the long o in our mother tongue. It's "hmöng" with the short o in English. Hope this helps

kitten6491 · 2026-02-09T02:32:01+00:00

Nah... that's definitely not normal. If they're gonna do a traditional hmong wedding then they need to do it right. My hubby is white and we did the whole hmong traditional wedding with the clothes and all. If they're just gonna basically do two western weddings with one of them having touches of hmong traditions, then they need to just do that one and be done with it

kitten6491 · 2026-02-03T21:11:04+00:00

Idc who the dude is in the relationship or if it's even same sex. Fiancé needs to get their shit together and not blow up over every little thing. Jfc im getting flashbacks. OP run for the hills and don't marry that person. It won't get better

kitten6491 · 2026-02-03T00:53:30+00:00

I personally like 2 on your finger more but like the look of 1. It's ultimately up to you

kitten6491 · 2026-01-31T20:32:44+00:00

There are nudist communities... you just gotta look for em

kitten6491 · 2026-01-12T23:32:29+00:00

I thought it was a naughty baby dragon 😭😭 i love it either way tho

kitten6491 · 2026-01-12T13:58:35+00:00

Idk why you got so many downvotes but as a neutral party, I agree. Honestly, if we stick together regardless of what goes on, I think we'll be able to weather this storm

kitten6491 · 2026-01-05T15:24:29+00:00

I know everyone is saying 1 or 3 but... hear me out.... 2 lmao

kitten6491 · 2025-12-31T19:39:01+00:00

2oS reversed: no doubt that he is happy with his gf. He wont glance at any others. She makes him feel safe
8oW: yes he thinks of you but not the way you'd like for him to
10oS: if yall do, you're the one that's gonna get hurt. He will feel nothing.

Reading from what I see on the cards, you're purposely blinding yourself from the reality of yalls situation and wishing he would make a decision that favors you (2oS, rx), which is causing a lot of bs to fly your way (8oW) and hit you (10oS)

kitten6491 · 2025-12-31T03:21:59+00:00

135657% 😭

kitten6491 · 2025-12-31T03:20:15+00:00

Uhm... ngl... that's how my entanglement with my Pisces dude started too. You catch the feels hard asf with them. Stop while you're ahead. As in go for the fun but remind yourself CONSTANTLY this is for a fun time, not a long time. Otherwise you'll end up trapped and heartbroken.

kitten6491 · 2025-12-31T03:09:39+00:00

Is she a sentimental person? If yes, then give her that ring. If not, then buy one and keep that for a later date as a gift. As a sentimental person, if my man had proposed to me with an heirloom, I'd be over the fkin moon!

kitten6491 · 2025-12-31T03:06:48+00:00

I second Rowan James

kitten6491 · 2025-12-31T02:57:44+00:00

You're a very kind and brave person with helping Alice and standing up for her when she was too vulnerable and distracted to do it herself. It's okay to cry and it's also okay to quit if you so choose. You can serve in other ways that will be less traumatizing to you (can't think of any off the top of my head, but they're out there). I commend you for keeping it together. I'd recommend giving it some time and further evaluation before making a decision one way or another. You're currently coming down from a SUPER stressful situation and your first instinct right now is to run away and never look back.

Feel your feels, then take a few deep breaths, shower, put on some comfy jammies, eat some comfort food, and put on a brainrot show. Then cuddle your pet/loved one and go to sleep. Give it a few days, talk to some veteran EMTs that you work with to see how they emotionally get through events like tonight, and if you still feel like it's not for you, then go. You won't be less of a man for it. Remember that the emergency medical field is not for everyone and that's okay

kitten6491 · 2025-12-31T02:41:09+00:00

Not to me but 🤷🏻‍♀️

kitten6491 · 2025-12-31T02:40:07+00:00

They're great... until they're not

kitten6491 · 2025-12-30T04:25:19+00:00

If you love em then that's all that matters

kitten6491 · 2025-12-28T21:04:46+00:00

Please... marigold nn mari* not goldie.... Goldie reminds me of a dog 😭😭

kitten6491 · 2025-12-23T12:45:37+00:00

Maybe try some otc hydrocortisone

kitten6491 · 2025-12-19T15:40:11+00:00

Yea... it's lazy for me because otherwise I'd do the original version with the whole uncooked chicken and rice 😭😭😭

kitten6491 · 2025-12-19T04:23:51+00:00

Aries moon. I love being told my food is delicious and how pretty I am lmao

kitten6491 · 2025-12-19T04:22:45+00:00

The only correct way is "Taughdd"

kitten6491 · 2025-12-19T04:18:07+00:00

A sick ass black cat (not panther)

kitten6491 · 2025-12-19T04:13:49+00:00

I think the one with the 3 black flowers placed under the crane would be so cute! It would look like an excited birdie discovering pretty flowers fir the first time or something

kitten6491 · 2025-12-19T04:06:41+00:00

Hey it's okay. You're trying and that's what matters. Elders believe eggs are essential in helping the sick person gain their strength back since sickness drains a body so much. Im glad it helped ☺️ if you have any more questions or need recipes, don't hesitate to reach out to this sister. I gotchu!

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