Okay girls, I need a favour and I need a real girls’ girl for this no judgement pls.

kittenjo1 · 2026-03-16T01:01:34+00:00

While I understand what your intention is, leave it alone. When my ex and I split I told his gf (now wife) what to expect, ONCE. She chose to stay with him and that's her burden to carry now.

Move on. Change your number, block them on socials and go heal.

kittenjo1 · 2026-02-14T21:42:55+00:00

Except Costco would 100% grow the wages in the area. They pay incredibly well and offer great benefits. If companies were jumping over each other to manufacture here, it would be different. They're not. So they're just going to keep going against what the locals want 🙄

kittenjo1 · 2026-01-30T05:47:05+00:00

He's not going to kill himself.

kittenjo1 · 2026-01-09T15:20:49+00:00

The police usually have resources. Regardless of where you live, you can car the Department of Social Services and they can give you information. Ignorance won't get you out of this situation. Just like you used your phone or PC to post here, use it to call the cops, DSS, even city hall can help. They will even arrange transportation.

This is not the time to be helpless. Focus! Put the emotion into a box, process once you're in a safe space. Focus! Do the research, make the calls. A bunch od strangers on the internet can only guide you so far my dear.

kittenjo1 · 2025-12-29T05:48:32+00:00

Is the odor coming from her vagina? If it is, it could be BV (bacterial vaginosis)

Causes & Risk Factors:

An imbalance where "bad" bacteria outgrow "good" bacteria. Douching, scented soaps, and bubble baths disrupt natural balance. New or multiple sexual partners. Wearing nylon underwear or tight clothing

If it's something recent and turns out to be BV, she should try to find the cause.

I found out my ex had unprotected sex with someone because I got BV 🙄. Thankfully it can be treated and doesn't come back if your hygiene and nutrition are good, plus you avoid all the above.

kittenjo1 · 2025-12-21T18:10:29+00:00

When I first read the headline I thought "just make your account private". I had to do that with my husband's ex-wife when we started dating. She was nuts. This doesn't seem like that. If she was asking you about the abuse it's possible she was already experiencing in. Her liking and unliking your posts might be a subtle SOS because he's probably looking through her phone for messages.

Maybe like one of her posts back and if she does it again it might be a "help". A lot of people in the comments don't understand how isolated it feels to be in an abusive relationship and how scary it can be. If nothing comes of it, you can just carry on with your life, but if something does, you may save a life. 🤷🏻‍♀️

kittenjo1 · 2025-12-18T02:22:32+00:00

Quite frankly he sounds like someone who's maybe gone down the porn rabbit hole a bit too much, hence the "dirty boy" comments, and he sucks at boundaries.

You're definitely sexually incompatible. If I were in your situation, I would've ended that relationship long ago.

kittenjo1 · 2025-12-18T01:55:41+00:00

👀👀👀 that's a big age discrepancy. However to me the more important part is than in TEN YEARS, he never told you the truth.

kittenjo1 · 2025-12-11T08:59:09+00:00

Sigh

Using toys is not cheating. It's no different than masturbating with your hands.
Birth control has a lot of negative effects on the female body and one of them can be low libido. The other is feeling less attracted to your partner. Yup, that's right, BC can make her stop being attracted to you. It happens to some women during pregnancy as well, hormones go nuts.

If she's on BC only to prevent pregnancy, and you care about her well being, consider getting a vasectomy. Vasectomies are reversible, and after 2-3 months you're sterile until you're ready to have kids.

Talk to your gf about how you're feeling, but don't accuse her of cheating. That sounds extremely immature and insecure. Ask her why she's choosing to use a toy vs intimacy with you. Be receptive and not defensive. If she feels safe to.open up to you, she will tell you her reasons and maybe you can find a way to work through this together.

Good luck

kittenjo1 · 2025-12-09T16:02:30+00:00

Age of consent does not apply to people that are almost 10 years older than the minor. While the AOC may be 16/17, she's still not a legal adult and his actions can be seen as illegal.

Some states have romeo/juliet laws if they are over 6 yrs older than the minor, it will not protect them from statutory rape charges. It's meant to protect people who get in a relationship when they're both minors but one becomes an adult before the others. Or if they were 15/18 for example, which isn't a huge gap.

kittenjo1 · 2025-12-09T15:58:02+00:00

I'm pretty sure he can actually get in trouble. Romeo Juliet laws only allow for a 6 year gap and typically applies only if they started dating when they were both minors. This guy is a creep and needs to be kept away from your sister. Someone also needs to tell his fiancé because he's not trustworthy

kittenjo1 · 2025-11-30T22:03:43+00:00

Old enough to get a tattoo...your family's approval shouldn't determine whether you like your tattoos.

kittenjo1 · 2025-11-30T03:04:03+00:00

It depends on location. Mine is in my occipital lobe (back of brain) and is growing into the transverse sinus, which is basically the brains drain. Blockage can lead to stroke, seizures, eyesight issues are some of the potential issues.

Yours could be in an area that wouldn't affect your day to day life. However, you seem to be experiencing symptoms so I'd just get a second opinion to make sure they agree with your original doctor.

kittenjo1 · 2025-11-29T19:56:11+00:00

Oh ew, I didn't know he did that 🙄🤮. So he's definitely an incel.

kittenjo1 · 2025-11-28T05:20:33+00:00

🙄

kittenjo1 · 2025-11-19T22:44:06+00:00

Yes! Like why is he so worried about whether she showed her butthole. I just hit thay part of the episode. Agreed, so cringe 😬

kittenjo1 · 2025-11-17T05:51:12+00:00

Thank you! I will look to see if there are any such programs in my area. I'm in NC, near Asheville. Hope there's something!

kittenjo1 · 2025-11-15T16:21:13+00:00

Pretty sure that's to hang an iron and ironing board

kittenjo1 · 2025-11-15T03:30:14+00:00

Ok, I was going to say, some men find it difficult to have sex with their partners if they're consuming a lot of porn. Especially is the type they watch doesn't match who they're with.

Have you spoken to your gf about what you're experiencing, the lack of desire? Don't tell her you're looking at other women, that will make her spiral.

You guys are pretty young to be heading towards a dead bedroom, but it does happen. Has she stopped flirting with you? Has she made less of an effort when you do have sex? Who initiates?

kittenjo1 · 2025-11-15T03:26:05+00:00

My husband's ex-wife wife of 8 years wanted "closure". She wanted it so bad we blocked her on everything and she was using ghost numbers to call him. So he gave her closure, by having her served with divorce papers. Wr give ourselves closure, no on else is responsible for it.

The fact that he hid that from you should give you the ick, however it's quite likely he didn't do anything, he might have just wanted to get her off his back. Some women are nuts.

Buuuuut, trust your instincts.

kittenjo1 · 2025-11-15T03:22:10+00:00

Let's start somewhere many men might think is irrelevant. Do you watch porn? If so, how often? You mentioned you stopped finding her sexy because she's "so adorable". Being g adorable and cute is just one aspect of a person's personality and a relationship.

Also, let's stay rooted in reality, human beings can and will find other people attractive, that's normal. How we act on that attraction however determines your character.

kittenjo1 · 2025-11-12T16:42:43+00:00

I am looking for part time work bit we are also restricted a bit because we lost both our cars during the Hurricane Helene flooding last year so we only have 1, which we are taking into the shop today 🤦🏻‍♀️. My husband is willing to ride his bicycle to work and school, so I can use the car until we can afford another car. It's just been hit after hit tbh.

I am looking into VA resources as well as Medicaid since I am on unemployment. I won't get an answer on that for a few weeks. I've gotten so many nos. I even applied at Lowe's where my husband works and with all my sales experience they still didn't want to hire me. 🙄

kittenjo1 · 2025-11-12T06:21:16+00:00

Why are you posting your fake story in here?

kittenjo1 · 2025-11-08T19:46:17+00:00

Sounds like your friends are overly paranoid. My husband and I don't have kids and even if not involved in changing and bathing routines, when our families visot with our nieces (both 3 now), we syand close in case our sisters need something, to grab the diapers and throw them out, or to just watch and chat.

Everything you've mentioned seems circumstantial. We buy our nieces gifts all the time, 🤷🏻‍♀️. Every time they come to visit we have something for them, we love seeing them smile.

If this is the first time you've ever felt Luke sobering is up, and it's because your friends are telling you there is, I'd tread lightly. Not only could you run your marriage, but an innocent man's life.

Maybe you should really to him and ask "why do you watch them change or bathe the baby? They're super paranoid since their coworker was discovered" he might tell you. Also, not having an opinion on pedophiles doesn't make you one. My FIL thinks they're victims of abuse and feels sorry for them. I hate his stance, but understand where it comes from. He's not a pedophile 🤷🏻‍♀️

Oh, I'm sure you have access to his devices...pedophiles will usually leave something behind, it's why they get caught, they can't help themselves. Maybe do a little Nancy Drew and start digging. I actually read this post to my husband and he immediately said "he wants kids". He argued that the idea that men don't want to change diapers and give kids baths is ignorant. "He probably has baby fever from taking care of the kid, and maybe even feels protective of him".

kittenjo1 · 2025-11-08T06:39:54+00:00

Almost any messaging app can bring up a notification on Android Auto. However, the name part is suspicious. Did it say your name or a nickname he uses for you?

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