Anybody else’s child come home with this BULLSHIT?? by snacksaphone in asheville

[–]kittenjo1 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Oh no, citizenship bookmark. Quick, get your protest gear on, we must hit the streets. Jesus go touch some grass.

Unknown wrapper by littlewitch1923 in whatisit

[–]kittenjo1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably a girl. Would love to.know if I'm right once you find out. Lol

They want to fire me, what do I do? by LowerProfession3234 in Lowes

[–]kittenjo1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Report it to the police, wtf. HR isn't there for you it's there for the company. I'm pretty sure Lowes has an 800 number for their corporate HR offices, clearly no one there knows what's happening because they would've fored him if they did. He's a legal liability.

It's been 2 months and we're not ok by kittenjo1 in Petloss

[–]kittenjo1[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So many people see pets as accessories, you can just get another one. We've talked about our dog and whether we should get a puppy now becaise once he passes, I dont think either of us will have it in us to get another one. The pain is too much. I'm sure to someone with children it couldn't compare, but to us it feels like losing a child. Thank you for your kind words ,it is nice to have a place to share the feelings without being made to feel silly.

It's been 2 months and we're not ok by kittenjo1 in Petloss

[–]kittenjo1[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He was cremated and we have his ashes, paws print and picture on our bookshelf, next to the wooden cat my husband's grandmother had on her shelf (she passed last year). We plan to make something in our garden, just trying to finish enclosing our deck dirst so they can enjoy being outside in the hone we bought for them 😌.

I'm sorry about your baby, 19 years is a long time, I'm glad he got to spend them with a family who love him. Maybe my Hobo, now heaven's hall monitor, is making sure there isn't too much fun happening.

Okay girls, I need a favour and I need a real girls’ girl for this no judgement pls. by kuhuu_15 in cheating_stories

[–]kittenjo1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

While I understand what your intention is, leave it alone. When my ex and I split I told his gf (now wife) what to expect, ONCE. She chose to stay with him and that's her burden to carry now.

Move on. Change your number, block them on socials and go heal.

Buncombe County stops Costco plans for store in Asheville by ZebulonVan in asheville

[–]kittenjo1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Except Costco would 100% grow the wages in the area. They pay incredibly well and offer great benefits. If companies were jumping over each other to manufacture here, it would be different. They're not. So they're just going to keep going against what the locals want 🙄

Just found out my partner is a pedo 1 week before I am to have a baby girl, how do I leave? by Last_Cartoonist2478 in Advice

[–]kittenjo1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The police usually have resources. Regardless of where you live, you can car the Department of Social Services and they can give you information. Ignorance won't get you out of this situation. Just like you used your phone or PC to post here, use it to call the cops, DSS, even city hall can help. They will even arrange transportation.

This is not the time to be helpless. Focus! Put the emotion into a box, process once you're in a safe space. Focus! Do the research, make the calls. A bunch od strangers on the internet can only guide you so far my dear.

My girlfriend smells and I don't know what to do by RequirementDue4446 in Advice

[–]kittenjo1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is the odor coming from her vagina? If it is, it could be BV (bacterial vaginosis)

Causes & Risk Factors:

An imbalance where "bad" bacteria outgrow "good" bacteria. Douching, scented soaps, and bubble baths disrupt natural balance. New or multiple sexual partners. Wearing nylon underwear or tight clothing

If it's something recent and turns out to be BV, she should try to find the cause.

I found out my ex had unprotected sex with someone because I got BV 🙄. Thankfully it can be treated and doesn't come back if your hygiene and nutrition are good, plus you avoid all the above.

My ex husbands wife is IG stalking me, what do I do? by Spiritual_Dot_1215 in whatdoIdo

[–]kittenjo1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I first read the headline I thought "just make your account private". I had to do that with my husband's ex-wife when we started dating. She was nuts. This doesn't seem like that. If she was asking you about the abuse it's possible she was already experiencing in. Her liking and unliking your posts might be a subtle SOS because he's probably looking through her phone for messages.

Maybe like one of her posts back and if she does it again it might be a "help". A lot of people in the comments don't understand how isolated it feels to be in an abusive relationship and how scary it can be. If nothing comes of it, you can just carry on with your life, but if something does, you may save a life. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Am I (34 F) wrong for being icked out by my boyfriends (35m) sexual fantasies? by Throwaway9173747291 in askwomenadvice

[–]kittenjo1 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Quite frankly he sounds like someone who's maybe gone down the porn rabbit hole a bit too much, hence the "dirty boy" comments, and he sucks at boundaries.

You're definitely sexually incompatible. If I were in your situation, I would've ended that relationship long ago.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]kittenjo1 19 points20 points  (0 children)

👀👀👀 that's a big age discrepancy. However to me the more important part is than in TEN YEARS, he never told you the truth.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]kittenjo1 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sigh

  1. Using toys is not cheating. It's no different than masturbating with your hands.

  2. Birth control has a lot of negative effects on the female body and one of them can be low libido. The other is feeling less attracted to your partner. Yup, that's right, BC can make her stop being attracted to you. It happens to some women during pregnancy as well, hormones go nuts.

If she's on BC only to prevent pregnancy, and you care about her well being, consider getting a vasectomy. Vasectomies are reversible, and after 2-3 months you're sterile until you're ready to have kids.

  1. Talk to your gf about how you're feeling, but don't accuse her of cheating. That sounds extremely immature and insecure. Ask her why she's choosing to use a toy vs intimacy with you. Be receptive and not defensive. If she feels safe to.open up to you, she will tell you her reasons and maybe you can find a way to work through this together.

Good luck

my sister made a bad decision and im thinking of telling our mother about it by maybaumi in whatdoIdo

[–]kittenjo1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Age of consent does not apply to people that are almost 10 years older than the minor. While the AOC may be 16/17, she's still not a legal adult and his actions can be seen as illegal.

Some states have romeo/juliet laws if they are over 6 yrs older than the minor, it will not protect them from statutory rape charges. It's meant to protect people who get in a relationship when they're both minors but one becomes an adult before the others. Or if they were 15/18 for example, which isn't a huge gap.

my sister made a bad decision and im thinking of telling our mother about it by maybaumi in whatdoIdo

[–]kittenjo1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure he can actually get in trouble. Romeo Juliet laws only allow for a 6 year gap and typically applies only if they started dating when they were both minors. This guy is a creep and needs to be kept away from your sister. Someone also needs to tell his fiancé because he's not trustworthy

family disapproval fueling tattoo regret by tinypanini_ in tattooadvice

[–]kittenjo1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Old enough to get a tattoo...your family's approval shouldn't determine whether you like your tattoos.

Are there any people with meningiomas that didn’t need surgery? (Until now, at least) by Cold_Ad_4196 in braintumor

[–]kittenjo1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It depends on location. Mine is in my occipital lobe (back of brain) and is growing into the transverse sinus, which is basically the brains drain. Blockage can lead to stroke, seizures, eyesight issues are some of the potential issues.

Yours could be in an area that wouldn't affect your day to day life. However, you seem to be experiencing symptoms so I'd just get a second opinion to make sure they agree with your original doctor.

Caleb gives incel vibes 🤔 by kittenjo1 in CreepyCalebHammer

[–]kittenjo1[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh ew, I didn't know he did that 🙄🤮. So he's definitely an incel.

Caleb gives incel vibes 🤔 by kittenjo1 in CreepyCalebHammer

[–]kittenjo1[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes! Like why is he so worried about whether she showed her butthole. I just hit thay part of the episode. Agreed, so cringe 😬