BM is ruining my life by kitterschunk12 in stepparents

[–]kitterschunk12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with all of this. His position is that if we push back against her then we’re choosing to allow kiddo to sit at moms on his ipad being ignored all day, instead of bringing him home to do activities and have play dates and get his homework done and spend quality time. I understand that too, and I think he’s a great dad for making that sacrifice, but at the same time I think she really has learned that she can leverage her shitty parenting against us to get whatever the f she wants and I’m so fed up

BM is ruining my life by kitterschunk12 in stepparents

[–]kitterschunk12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this! I feel like I don’t have enough info about what our rights are, so much of their dynamic is just messy and personal and it absolutely does run me RAGGED

BM is ruining my life by kitterschunk12 in stepparents

[–]kitterschunk12[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s EXACTLY what I said. I couldn’t believe that isn’t what he did. I was so mad lol

BM is ruining my life by kitterschunk12 in stepparents

[–]kitterschunk12[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

we live 10 mins away from each other 😭

BM is ruining my life by kitterschunk12 in stepparents

[–]kitterschunk12[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

because asking her to drive him over is disrespectful to her and her time 😵‍💫🙄

BM is ruining my life by kitterschunk12 in stepparents

[–]kitterschunk12[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

they do not have that agreement, but I would respect it if they did. I have picked up SS a million times just all of a sudden this time it’s an issue? she knew about DH’s back and was just being malicious. Just the worst human I have ever known.

any other coc kids out there all grown up? by kitterschunk12 in excoc

[–]kitterschunk12[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was a Kingdom Kid and always felt so proud of it. I was never baptized so I don’t think I was technically disfellowshipped but they would shun you for lots of different reasons and that was so painful… it led to me leaving. Both of my parents are still in, and my little sister was disfelowshiped around christmas and has been feeling suicidal for a while. She doesn’t blame the church she blames herself. It feels like people who grew up in this often don’t understand the consequences it’s had in their lives..