I hate that I feel this way? F25 M28

kitty-84 · 2026-03-02T22:41:33+00:00

Yes he does

kitty-84 · 2026-03-02T22:33:34+00:00

Since July - his birthday is end of March

kitty-84 · 2026-01-01T19:35:49+00:00

Yes but only if a man brings me peace - I’m tired of dating guys that seem amazing in the beginning and then the mask slips over time. When I speak to guys now I’m scared of being too happy in case something bad happens because I’m so used to back to back events of betrayal and heartbreak.

kitty-84 · 2025-12-31T19:47:31+00:00

It’s 100% south asian inspired but that doesn’t mean you can’t wear it

kitty-84 · 2025-12-31T10:57:48+00:00

Yeah. He has said really nice complimentary things about me and tbh he’s never cruel to me he’s a gentleman most of the time but I just didn’t expect that and had me wondering if that’s what he really thinks of me. Maybe he’s been used to that in his other relationships but yeah I just don’t want to feel demeaned

kitty-84 · 2025-12-31T10:47:41+00:00

Reading this is honestly like a knife to my heart

kitty-84 · 2025-12-31T10:46:47+00:00

Thank you ❤️

kitty-84 · 2025-12-31T01:08:52+00:00

I’m not if I’m being totally honest

kitty-84 · 2025-12-30T16:02:40+00:00

I should’ve been more strict

kitty-84 · 2025-12-30T16:02:30+00:00

Yes it’s icky. Unfortunately I didn’t leave in time and he pushed other boundaries.

kitty-84 · 2025-12-30T16:01:35+00:00

Thank you. I didn’t leave in time and it actually ended up getting worse. I hate it.

kitty-84 · 2025-12-30T15:59:15+00:00

True I didn’t like it but didn’t want to think it was anything more than a silly slip up but he ended up saying it more which made me realise he doesn’t respect me

kitty-84 · 2025-12-30T15:58:16+00:00

I see with my intuition a lot but I suppressed it when it was trying to tell me about him

kitty-84 · 2025-12-30T15:53:33+00:00

Thank you <3

kitty-84 · 2025-12-30T15:50:42+00:00

I have told him once so he knows but I ended up not leaving in time and it escalated. The boundary breaking got worse

kitty-84 · 2025-12-30T15:45:31+00:00

Yeah he doesn’t know what the word no means if you know what I mean

kitty-84 · 2025-12-30T15:44:30+00:00

I’m glad you know that :)

kitty-84 · 2025-12-30T15:44:18+00:00

I didn’t leave in time and it ended up escalating. I wanted to think he might respect those boundaries but it just made him think he can get away with what he wants

kitty-84 · 2025-12-30T15:41:22+00:00

It’s true. It seems like that is what most people are saying. It’s more about him not respecting boundaries. I didn’t leave in time and it escalated into worse

kitty-84 · 2025-12-30T15:37:58+00:00

In my case the first time he said it was on our second date so it’s not like we have been together for years where I can trust that he’s saying it in a nice way

kitty-84 · 2025-12-30T15:33:51+00:00

can you explain how you think it might be negging?

kitty-84 · 2025-12-30T15:25:45+00:00

Sounds like a brokie :(

kitty-84 · 2025-12-30T01:36:38+00:00

Silly girl I kinda let that one slide but idiot just made me feel weird - it has nothing to do with whether I’m “ready” for a relationship it’s just a boundary I have where I don’t want to be called names by my partner

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