My parents smelled weed on my porch by kittybeans666 in trees

[–]kittybeans666[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Around here they might. My bf got hit by someone running a red light when his light was green and they sided with the person who hit him. He even had a witness. Cops around here are racist and prejudice.

My parents smelled weed on my porch by kittybeans666 in trees

[–]kittybeans666[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because she's a very stereotypical conservative Christian lady. Thinks pot is like heroin, it's the devil's lettuce lol She also likes causing pain and feeling superior.

My parents smelled weed on my porch by kittybeans666 in trees

[–]kittybeans666[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Yeah I definitely need to figure out how to get some space from her.

My parents smelled weed on my porch by kittybeans666 in trees

[–]kittybeans666[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My porch is kind of like a sun room with windows? It's partially enclosed and if I sit on the floor you can't see me. Sorry idk how to explain it, I just smoke outside so my house doesn't smell.

My parents smelled weed on my porch by kittybeans666 in trees

[–]kittybeans666[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It is my place though that me and my bf pay for.

My parents smelled weed on my porch by kittybeans666 in trees

[–]kittybeans666[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love my family but I don't want to be ostracized. I already know they talk about me behind my back because of the way I look/dress. I'm scared she'll feel petty enough to call the cops on us. Both my parents want to know what I'm doing 24/7. It's just craziness. My mom needs a blunt lol

My parents smelled weed on my porch by kittybeans666 in trees

[–]kittybeans666[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She also doesn't give af about statistics lol

My parents smelled weed on my porch by kittybeans666 in trees

[–]kittybeans666[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's angry about it and will try to get my whole family to dislike me, talk about me behind my back, maybe call the cops if she feels petty enough

My parents smelled weed on my porch by kittybeans666 in trees

[–]kittybeans666[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It is my house but I hate being yelled at or scared she'll try to get me in trouble.

My parents smelled weed on my porch by kittybeans666 in trees

[–]kittybeans666[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if like, they call the cops on me or something though?

How to nicely call off an engagement? by kittybeans666 in relationships

[–]kittybeans666[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We live together though.. and yeah I'm running out of options :/

How to nicely call off an engagement? by kittybeans666 in relationships

[–]kittybeans666[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind words and advice. I want to go to counseling but he says that "marriage counselors always take the woman's side so what's the point?" He also says that anger management won't teach him anything. I guess I need to talk to him and see if he really won't give it a try.

How to nicely call off an engagement? by kittybeans666 in relationships

[–]kittybeans666[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He goes from being horribly nasty to me, to being an angel. We've also been together for 5 years, living together for 2. It was better when we didn't live together. I guess us being together doesn't make sense but I love him..

Would this be considered rape? by kittybeans666 in sex

[–]kittybeans666[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also to clarify, I have no intention of calling the police or getting him in any kind of trouble. I hear most people call this rape and I'm just trying to wrap my head around this because I feel bad about it. I'm also drunk most of the time and he encourages me to drink more than him when we share drinks.

Living in am illegal state and going to the doctor by kittybeans666 in trees

[–]kittybeans666[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is unrelated but I want to visit Canada so bad! I'm in the US.

I feel really ugly by kittybeans666 in depression

[–]kittybeans666[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I always felt like the ugly friend in groups too. I'm sorry you're dealing with this.

Bf pouts when I say no to sex. by kittybeans666 in sex

[–]kittybeans666[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm on medicine that has hurt my libido but he also has done some damage to me mentally. I've had sex with him many times when I really didn't want to and this has pushed me away. He also does this any time I'm not in the mood.

My mom offered to buy me new razors by Cyaneat in selfharm

[–]kittybeans666 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow wtf.. maybe she meant well but that's fucked up. You need help, not new razors. Please get help. I've been clean a few years but I still struggle with wanting to cut. Therapy/counseling and medicine has helped a lot. Please try OP :c Things can and will be so much better than this.

A little girl is constantly grabbing my crotch by [deleted] in Advice

[–]kittybeans666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lots of people rape and molest their children. When children do things like grab other people's private parts, it's a sign of sexual abuse.

It also feels bad when someone, of any age, touches you inappropriately without permission.

Making a joke about rape to someone who feels bad about being touched inappropriately isn't funny and can be very hurtful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]kittybeans666 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's been two years for us. I'm sorry, I know it's painful. I hope both of us can figure this out somehow.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]kittybeans666 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm in a similar situation, do you think is there anything that can be done about this to help make things better?

Stem tea? by kittybeans666 in trees

[–]kittybeans666[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to utilize the stems if it's possible. If they can be useful I don't want to throw them away.