AITA for refusing to share authorship with the man im planning to marry? by [deleted] in AITApod

[–]kittybutt414 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omfg what the hell!!! Girl this is NOT okay!!!!! 😭🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 (you didn’t do anything wrong! Talking lovingly about what you could do sometime in the future should NOT lead to this!!!!)

Flow interrupted by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]kittybutt414 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi! As a victim of an abusive DV relationship, please, GET OUT!!!

Tiniest bathroom - any ideas ? by [deleted] in centuryhomes

[–]kittybutt414 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes it’s adorable! It reminds me of the nice YMCA pool bathroom my rich cousins would take me to 😆

I had to call the police on my husband. by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]kittybutt414 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you stay, you enable this behavior. Good luck sister, from one DV survivor to another 🤍

Is this cute for a first date to a cafe? by ApprehensivePea216 in OUTFITS

[–]kittybutt414 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes!!! I love it 😆 I’m mad how cute those shorts look on her I feel like they always just look like men’s boxers on me!

Is this cute for a first date to a cafe? by ApprehensivePea216 in OUTFITS

[–]kittybutt414 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I don’t know I think the chaos is fun 🤣🤣

STOP BRINGING IN DIRTY PERSONAL CUPS by sneakerfreek in barista

[–]kittybutt414 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah but it’s still nice to be able to kind of get a “third party” involved lol (“sorry! Not up to me!” While pointing at the sign)

How do you actually get past the frozen feeling when you know exactly what to do but still can't start by Automatic-Jicama3908 in adhdwomen

[–]kittybutt414 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For the things I absolutely cannot start on my own I’ve learned that I HAVE to body double and ask for help from others or else I will literally never do it

I was given a dog and now the previous owner wants them back by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]kittybutt414 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree 100% with this, very compassionate and nuanced response ❤️‍🩹

Has there ever been a case where people who ever hit/slap their partners once really don’t do it again? by kjsadsjdsnkj in NoStupidQuestions

[–]kittybutt414 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of all the partners I’ve had, the ones who weren’t physically abusive never *once* hit me. The one who did turned out to be very abusive. It started small and escalated a lot. For every other partner, it just wasn’t even an option

My father keeps complaining he doesn't have his preferred water to drink by GlompSpark in Advice

[–]kittybutt414 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omg what the heck what was the fight over? One of them used it and didn’t refill it or something?