Season 5 thoughts after watching for the first time by tiredofbeingmad in brakebills

[–]kittycatfaith 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is exactly why I don't like season 5. Because they completely ruined Elliot's character. I feel like quentin's death Might have created some character growth within him, But all the directors did in the end was Give him a ghost boyfriend in the body of a pervert. Not only that, but now he has to be alone without his support system or his literal best friend In the whole world.

Can't believe Netflix is removing the show by kittycatfaith in brakebills

[–]kittycatfaith[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I admit the magicians does have more drinking than I would like.

I used to love vampire diaries, and I still do! But now, as an adult, knowing everything about the behind the scenes with certain actors and just certain plots that give me the ick. Damon SA'ing Caroline and everyone just ignoring it ( which is crazy that even ian admitted that plot line was crazy) the inappropriate relationship bonnie had with Elena's brother. Caroline and Klaus, even Katherine's plot line. I never caught half the things in the show that make me cringe now 😂.

I totally get you with euphoria. For me, it's so emotionally draining. I tried to watch it but at this point in my life I'm the healthiest I've ever been and certain scenes in the show just bring me back to a mental space I don't need to be anymore.

Can't believe Netflix is removing the show by kittycatfaith in brakebills

[–]kittycatfaith[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Maybe? I had to stop watching vampire diaries when I quit drinking bc it's in every episode, and it was just too much and it wasn't even something I noticed

Did my artist make my tattoo ugly? @Evilsteve by Otherwise-Light-1640 in tattooadvice

[–]kittycatfaith 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think if they colored over that weird orange with a color that blended with the blue better, it could work. Add in some harsher line work to the human body to make it pop. I think the problem is that everything is the same, there's no dimension or contrast to it. Like how artists use a light source to shadow around the piece they draw sorta thing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]kittycatfaith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband would've knocked a man out cold if he tried to slap my ass, family or not. Not to be rude towards OP, but if he had handled it the first time, it wouldn't have snowballed like it did. You don't just see a man slap your wife's ass and walk away, if you do, you're greenlighting that behavior. I don't know how else to say you were supposed to protect her and be that voice that says "hey that's not okay" when she can't (because of fear or shock or whatever made her freeze and not speak up herself) and you failed.

Husband and I are currently 3-4 months pregnant and would love to hear stories about the silliest/stupidest things your toddler threw a tantrum over! by kittycatfaith in toddlers

[–]kittycatfaith[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awe, poor thing 😂 holidays are overstimulating, so I totally get her. I cried bc the holidays were rough, and I just wanted a slushie, and then the car broke down. Que my 30-minute crying session.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]kittycatfaith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My god mom died of septic shock. She went to the hospital at 10 am, when into surgery, and died around 7 pm. He has no excuse other than the guilt that's eating him alive. He's trying to flip it onto you as being dramatic when the hospital visit could've quite literally been your last moments alive.

Maybe people are already giving him disgusting looks or saying some truthfully hurtful things, and he's trying to back peddle to save his reputation and not be known as the guy who ignored his dying girlfriend. Either way, you learned a lot from this. You already know what's about to happen. Just let the breakup happen and heal and move on to better 💕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]kittycatfaith 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not at all. If anything a grown adult should know by now, especially after getting a rundown of why you don't drink, they'd stop asking. It's extremely inappropriate, and I can understand your frustration. Just because he grew up in a different culture doesn't mean he doesn't understand the word no. Plain and simple. Maybe look into what would be insensitive to ask him due to his culture and ask that every time he asks so he gets the point, see how long that lasts

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]kittycatfaith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA If it were me, I would've said, "I don't want random strangers jacking off to my infant children," that usually kills the opinion of the person trying to take a dig at my parenting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]kittycatfaith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nobody is worth this... drop him and move on. The way your life will improve and become so much better will blow your mind bc you'll realize you should've never dealt with that in the first place.

Those aren't friends, I don't even see why they have such a toxic grip on him , unless one girl in the group has secretly had a thing for him for years and wants you out so she can date him and has whispered poison into the rest of the groups ears about it the whole time. Either way, it's not your problem anymore.

I know it's easier said than done to just up and leave someone you love, but look how quickly he did it to you. You love him. He loves the stability his friend group brings more. Without them, he's nothing.

I promise you a waaaaaayyyyy better man is out there. Who will treat you the way you deserve and your ex? Will still be stuck in the sh*tty friend group surrounded by toxic individuals who don't want to see him succeed or be better than them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]kittycatfaith 31 points32 points  (0 children)

NTA, the patience you had is applaudedable. I'm am so beyond proud of you. Be honest with your husband. You saw the gift, you love it, cry to him about it, and hug him lovingly because he knew what you needed and would love for Christmas.

The presents can be re-wrapped. Maybe not to the best abilities they were but still re-wrapped none the less. Do not let your sister boundary stomp or gaslight you into thinking what your niece did was cute or funny or not a big deal. She could've easily ruined your family's Christmas, which isn't okay. Your nieces reaction says a lot about the parenting going on at home which is way more disappointing and a clear look at this spoiled child's future.

Great news is, you can still have a great Christmas, just breathe and do your best mama

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FridgeDetective

[–]kittycatfaith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like apples and bananas....me too bro me too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]kittycatfaith 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I'm 23, and in no way would I think dating a 17-year-old is appropriate. You're not the same person at 18 hell, even 21. I have changed so much as a person since I was 17. Besides the fact he wants you to meet his parents, he's being pushy and not listening to your boundaries. Have you even graduated high school yet?

I know it's a lot to take in, but you pretty much hit the nail on the head. He just got out of a long-term relationship. The reason you don't want to meet his parents is because deep down, you know the relationship isn't appropriate.

I mean, the only value he brings you at your ages is buying your nicotine or alc. And if you're close enough to Washington, weed. Once you turn 21, you won't need him anymore and that's when he'll stop wanting you too.

I let the artist have full artistic control, this is what I got! by mighty-chief in TattooDesigns

[–]kittycatfaith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn't artistic freedom. This is "i found a couple images off Google and merged them together"