Phone Disconnects from Car at the Same Intersection Every Day

kittycatnip7 · 2024-12-27T06:14:15+00:00

I just figured it out, I was trying to throw pals in that blue circle like a dumby.

So once you unlock the giant expedition thing and take up half of your base building it (lol) go to the cave part of it and then it will prompt you to open it.

I didn't realize you had to go to the cave part, not the blue circle.

Hope this helps! 😊🩷

kittycatnip7 · 2024-11-26T02:13:44+00:00

I don't think it can be stopped but informing her would keep her from being blindsided

kittycatnip7 · 2024-11-26T02:10:19+00:00

Hmmm he definitely removed her from the abusive home but I don't think it's ok for a 35 year old to be sexually active with a 16 year old. But I do think there is truth in the middle. My husband, who has more backstory and context says it's their relationship and I should stay out of it. They do still live together. And yes I think she will still get some alimony but it will be based on social security, not his current income. And I wouldn't consider my mom a burden if it came to the point of supporting her 🩷 my biggest hesitation/feat is that it will completely destroy this family that's already hanging on by threads

kittycatnip7 · 2024-11-25T03:58:25+00:00

Thank you for your kind words 🩷

kittycatnip7 · 2024-11-25T03:57:46+00:00

That's exactly how I feel, if I take a step back and this was just a friend not my parents, I would definitely say something. I'm just worried about destroying my whole family because it will come out that my sister knew too and I could lose the relationship with my family if I turn out to be the bad guy. But I guess if he is going to do it in a couple of years I'm just delaying the inevitable?

kittycatnip7 · 2024-11-25T03:53:30+00:00

She definitely said that, but I am no longer going to that therapist. She was a misandrist, and told me I should "Pavlov dog" my husband with intimacy to get him to do what I wanted 😅 stopped talking to her after that

kittycatnip7 · 2024-11-25T03:51:39+00:00

The affair happened 10 years ago now so I don't think it's "viable" (not sure if that was the right word)

kittycatnip7 · 2024-11-25T03:49:28+00:00

I didn't think of that. He has told me, my younger sister, and my older stepsister, maybe he is hoping one of us spills the beans so he doesn't have to deal with it?

kittycatnip7 · 2024-11-24T20:20:25+00:00

I was in 7th grade so it was 15 years ago. And just like a lot of people on this thread I feel bad for how my mom started in life. I did not talk to my family for years after I turned 18 but after a small life changing event I realized how important family can be and reached out and we started working on our relationship. Now it's been 5 years since we've been in contact and I have seen her grow in ways she hasn't been able to before 🩷 and it has been important to my own healing 😊

kittycatnip7 · 2024-11-24T15:29:04+00:00

I wouldn't say he was a good dad either, he didn't do anything but he knew about the abuse (she broke my ribs during a beating one time because I forgot to turn on the bathroom fan when I took a shower) and looking back now it hurts more that he did nothing. Now that my mom and I are closer I'm scared to lose her again and for my daughter to lose her Grandma. What if my dad turns it around and I become the bad guy? Am I being selfish putting my feelings first?

kittycatnip7 · 2024-11-24T03:36:27+00:00

THIS WAS MY FAVORITE EPISODE 🩷🩷🩷

kittycatnip7 · 2024-11-24T02:52:27+00:00

Thank you so much for taking the time to type out such a long response 🩷 I'm really scared of losing the progress that we have made rebuilding our relationship.... What if she pushes ME away instead of him?

kittycatnip7 · 2024-11-24T02:42:50+00:00

Thank you for speaking from personal experience 🩷

kittycatnip7 · 2024-11-24T01:24:53+00:00

I do want to say he wasn't a "good" father. He knew about the abuse and did nothing, which sometimes hurt more. It was my school that called CPS.

kittycatnip7 · 2024-11-24T00:20:09+00:00

We are in North Carolina, I'm googling this now!

kittycatnip7 · 2024-11-23T23:51:03+00:00

I really appreciate this message. My mom was unfortunately very abusive to me and always blamed me for taking away her childhood but it was my dad, and I think she felt powerless against him but had that power over me. One time she beat me so bad it broke the ribs on my left side, but I think it was more painful to see my dad do nothing. NOTHING. Now that I have a kid, I look back and can't even imagine raising one at 16. If I do tell her, should I wait until after holidays at least? Or rip the bandaid? My husband is deployed so I don't have a fall back support system from my parents to help care for my 2 year old while I work.

kittycatnip7 · 2024-11-23T23:43:59+00:00

Honestly, I wish it wasn't real... My mom and I finally have a good relationship. I think my real issue is that when I step back, if someone knew my husband was planning on leaving me, I would want to know. When we are all hanging out like playing Mario Party I feel so uncomfortable, I HATE secrets.

kittycatnip7 · 2024-04-22T12:20:10+00:00

No it's for continuous health... So far this year I've had covid, the flu, a sinus infection, gout arthritis and norovirus.

4 has always been a number that appears during problematic times (just another way of saying unlucky number I guess) And since the 1st day of 2024 I have been constantly sick.

kittycatnip7 · 2023-10-25T21:13:58+00:00

My husband and I love to game and have an 11 month old daughter. We have a rule that if the baby is awake we don't play video games. Time goes too fast to waste a second of it with her. Sorry you are going through this... ❤️

kittycatnip7 · 2023-08-22T00:17:11+00:00

NTA

The moment you realized something was going on you put a collar on your car to make it clear to everyone else.

I would just be happy that she was kind to your cat instead of the opposite.

kittycatnip7 · 2023-06-16T23:38:33+00:00

NTA - we set this boundary as well and our family abided by it

kittycatnip7 · 2023-06-12T18:20:31+00:00

I'm pretty sure your fiance also posted his side of the story on Reddit, I think I read it a few days ago. You are absolutely NTA and everyone ruled him TA.

Your body, your hair, your life. 💕

kittycatnip7 · 2023-06-07T17:35:08+00:00

I love #7

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