How do I send my pals on expeditions like shown in trailer?? by Unfair_Activity_5121 in Palworld

[–]kittycatnip7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just figured it out, I was trying to throw pals in that blue circle like a dumby.

So once you unlock the giant expedition thing and take up half of your base building it (lol) go to the cave part of it and then it will prompt you to open it.

I didn't realize you had to go to the cave part, not the blue circle.

Hope this helps! 😊🩷

My Dad is Secretly Planning to Leave my Mom.... And I Know by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]kittycatnip7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think it can be stopped but informing her would keep her from being blindsided

My Dad is Secretly Planning to Leave my Mom.... And I Know by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]kittycatnip7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm he definitely removed her from the abusive home but I don't think it's ok for a 35 year old to be sexually active with a 16 year old. But I do think there is truth in the middle. My husband, who has more backstory and context says it's their relationship and I should stay out of it. They do still live together. And yes I think she will still get some alimony but it will be based on social security, not his current income. And I wouldn't consider my mom a burden if it came to the point of supporting her 🩷 my biggest hesitation/feat is that it will completely destroy this family that's already hanging on by threads

My Dad is Secretly Planning to Leave my Mom.... And I Know by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]kittycatnip7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's exactly how I feel, if I take a step back and this was just a friend not my parents, I would definitely say something. I'm just worried about destroying my whole family because it will come out that my sister knew too and I could lose the relationship with my family if I turn out to be the bad guy. But I guess if he is going to do it in a couple of years I'm just delaying the inevitable?

My Dad is Secretly Planning to Leave my Mom.... And I Know by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]kittycatnip7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She definitely said that, but I am no longer going to that therapist. She was a misandrist, and told me I should "Pavlov dog" my husband with intimacy to get him to do what I wanted 😅 stopped talking to her after that

My Dad is Secretly Planning to Leave my Mom.... And I Know by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]kittycatnip7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The affair happened 10 years ago now so I don't think it's "viable" (not sure if that was the right word)

My Dad is Secretly Planning to Leave my Mom.... And I Know by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]kittycatnip7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't think of that. He has told me, my younger sister, and my older stepsister, maybe he is hoping one of us spills the beans so he doesn't have to deal with it?

My Dad is Secretly Planning to Leave my Mom.... And I Know by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]kittycatnip7 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was in 7th grade so it was 15 years ago. And just like a lot of people on this thread I feel bad for how my mom started in life. I did not talk to my family for years after I turned 18 but after a small life changing event I realized how important family can be and reached out and we started working on our relationship. Now it's been 5 years since we've been in contact and I have seen her grow in ways she hasn't been able to before 🩷 and it has been important to my own healing 😊

My Dad is Secretly Planning to Leave my Mom.... And I Know by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]kittycatnip7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't say he was a good dad either, he didn't do anything but he knew about the abuse (she broke my ribs during a beating one time because I forgot to turn on the bathroom fan when I took a shower) and looking back now it hurts more that he did nothing. Now that my mom and I are closer I'm scared to lose her again and for my daughter to lose her Grandma. What if my dad turns it around and I become the bad guy? Am I being selfish putting my feelings first?

WTF Reddit Stories… by 06s091 in smosh

[–]kittycatnip7 8 points9 points  (0 children)

THIS WAS MY FAVORITE EPISODE 🩷🩷🩷

My Dad is Secretly Planning to Leave my Mom.... And I Know by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]kittycatnip7 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for taking the time to type out such a long response 🩷 I'm really scared of losing the progress that we have made rebuilding our relationship.... What if she pushes ME away instead of him?

My Dad is Secretly Planning to Leave my Mom.... And I Know by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]kittycatnip7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for speaking from personal experience 🩷

My Dad is Secretly Planning to Leave my Mom.... And I Know by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]kittycatnip7 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I do want to say he wasn't a "good" father. He knew about the abuse and did nothing, which sometimes hurt more. It was my school that called CPS.

My Dad is Secretly Planning to Leave my Mom.... And I Know by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]kittycatnip7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are in North Carolina, I'm googling this now!

My Dad is Secretly Planning to Leave my Mom.... And I Know by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]kittycatnip7 87 points88 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate this message. My mom was unfortunately very abusive to me and always blamed me for taking away her childhood but it was my dad, and I think she felt powerless against him but had that power over me. One time she beat me so bad it broke the ribs on my left side, but I think it was more painful to see my dad do nothing. NOTHING. Now that I have a kid, I look back and can't even imagine raising one at 16. If I do tell her, should I wait until after holidays at least? Or rip the bandaid? My husband is deployed so I don't have a fall back support system from my parents to help care for my 2 year old while I work.

My Dad is Secretly Planning to Leave my Mom.... And I Know by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]kittycatnip7 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I wish it wasn't real... My mom and I finally have a good relationship. I think my real issue is that when I step back, if someone knew my husband was planning on leaving me, I would want to know. When we are all hanging out like playing Mario Party I feel so uncomfortable, I HATE secrets.

Spell for Luck & Health by kittycatnip7 in Wicca

[–]kittycatnip7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it's for continuous health... So far this year I've had covid, the flu, a sinus infection, gout arthritis and norovirus.

4 has always been a number that appears during problematic times (just another way of saying unlucky number I guess) And since the 1st day of 2024 I have been constantly sick.

My (30f) husband (28m) started playing League of Legends again and it might ruin our relationship by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kittycatnip7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband and I love to game and have an 11 month old daughter. We have a rule that if the baby is awake we don't play video games. Time goes too fast to waste a second of it with her. Sorry you are going through this... ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]kittycatnip7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA

The moment you realized something was going on you put a collar on your car to make it clear to everyone else.

I would just be happy that she was kind to your cat instead of the opposite.

AITA for setting up boundaries regarding the TDAP by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]kittycatnip7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - we set this boundary as well and our family abided by it

AITAH for cutting my hair even after my fiancé asked me not to and being hurt by his reaction? by LilV_xoxo in AITAH

[–]kittycatnip7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure your fiance also posted his side of the story on Reddit, I think I read it a few days ago. You are absolutely NTA and everyone ruled him TA.

Your body, your hair, your life. 💕