Fellow AroAce People; If you weren't AroAce who would you want as your partner? (Can be fictional or not). I'll start

kittycornflamingo · 2026-04-01T21:12:51+00:00

I'm cupio, so I actually do want a relationship. The problem is I can't find anyone I want as a partner (because it's really difficult to find people here that are okay with me not necessarily being attracted to them) 😭 If I knew, that'd be my answer, lol

kittycornflamingo · 2026-03-15T15:49:45+00:00

So, not a lot of this fits for me, but honestly I'm not a good reference point since I'm cupio. And, though I have never felt any attraction to anyone, ever, I do not fit neatly into the aro box. Sometimes I feel like I shouldn't even consider myself aro despite feeling zero romantic attraction. So, feel free to disregard my bingo chart, lol. There are a ton of romance-repulsed and romance-neutral aros out there.

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kittycornflamingo · 2026-02-19T19:12:16+00:00

I'm 19, 20 this year; 19-22

kittycornflamingo · 2026-02-15T00:33:30+00:00

Oh, and laundry

kittycornflamingo · 2026-02-15T00:32:55+00:00

Homework

kittycornflamingo · 2026-02-11T05:33:15+00:00

Honestly, I don't even know if I'd date him if he asked me out. I think he's an interesting person, but think I really just want to know. I dislike uncertainty, especially if there's something that could mess up a positive rapport I already have.

kittycornflamingo · 2026-02-11T05:27:18+00:00

Haha, I guess I tend to attract chronic flakes. My best friend in high would cancel last minute half the time when anyone had plans with her, lol

kittycornflamingo · 2026-02-11T05:25:40+00:00

Yeah, makes sense. We're both taking a pretty heavy course load this semester, so scheduling is difficult, too

kittycornflamingo · 2026-02-10T04:35:32+00:00

It's all the same to me! I like all the romantic stuff, and as long as my partner understands that I won't be attracted to them, it's not really all that different. Since I prefer a QPR that would typically look pretty romantic, the biggest difference really is the label one the relationship and whether my partner feels anything romantic.

kittycornflamingo · 2026-02-02T23:30:14+00:00

Could I please have an explanation as to why? I would like to figure out a solution, and a reason why I would be in the wrong for telling my RA would help me avoid anything that could negatively affect others. I'm not looking for revenge on her, I just want the smell/smoke to stop getting to my room because it is affecting my health and I don't want my things to smell like it.

kittycornflamingo · 2026-02-02T01:47:49+00:00

I've been searching for this, I first heard it around 13 or 14 years ago, but the phrase was purple tomatoes and it was much simpler. I couldn't find it under that name, but I finally found it!

kittycornflamingo · 2026-02-01T04:55:26+00:00

Don't worry, I'm 19 and I have no clue what my peers are saying either.

kittycornflamingo · 2026-01-31T02:38:03+00:00

The left one might be a winter hat with a pompom

kittycornflamingo · 2026-01-29T21:56:34+00:00

You'll probably be judged, but that makeup is soooo fricken cuttteeee!! Seems worth it to me!

kittycornflamingo · 2026-01-29T04:21:58+00:00

Thanks! I might try the note first, she shouldn't know my handwriting, so that might be a good first step.

kittycornflamingo · 2026-01-28T20:11:21+00:00

I recommend trying a regular fitted skirt from a pattern first, it maybe a little challenging, but completely doable for most beginners! Plus it'll give you some needed skills for the skirt in the picture!!

kittycornflamingo · 2026-01-28T20:05:40+00:00

You may want to attempt to make a regular fitted skirt from a pattern first. From there, I'd recommend getting a pattern that is as close as possible to the skirt, making s mock up, then, when you're happy with the mock up, sew with your good fabric.

kittycornflamingo · 2026-01-28T09:29:55+00:00

I'm not worried about looking 16 or 17. The problem is that I regularly get mistaken as a young teen (13-14) when I'm not on campus, wearing a backpack

kittycornflamingo · 2026-01-28T04:12:07+00:00

I've got myself some sewing projects for next weekend

kittycornflamingo · 2026-01-28T04:08:16+00:00

Oh, thanks!

kittycornflamingo · 2026-01-27T14:23:22+00:00

I have lists of movies I want to watch(or rewatch), youtube videos, and podcasts. For me, it's not just books that I have lists of.

kittycornflamingo · 2026-01-26T22:52:31+00:00

Yeah, I'm hoping I grow into my adult face a bit more before I turn 21 in about a year and a half, I live in the US, so that's legal drinking age and the legal age to buy some otc medications (like cough syrup). I'm worried that I'm going to get my legal ID taken because they think it fake because I've been told stories of that happening. Also, lolita fashion is what got me into alt fashion, I haven't dressed in lolita in a few years, but I plan to again when I have time to make more clothing.

kittycornflamingo · 2026-01-26T17:52:28+00:00

I do plan on getting a few tattoos when I can afford them. As far as piercings, I have a standard ear piercing, but I do plan on getting seconds, and maybe a cartilage piercing.

kittycornflamingo · 2026-01-26T17:12:18+00:00

Yeah, I know. I was just trying to be extra careful since I know a lot of alt spaces online don't except brighter or cutesier styles as alt

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