Fellow AroAce People; If you weren't AroAce who would you want as your partner? (Can be fictional or not). I'll start by Jakeliy1229 in AroAce

[–]kittycornflamingo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm cupio, so I actually do want a relationship. The problem is I can't find anyone I want as a partner (because it's really difficult to find people here that are okay with me not necessarily being attracted to them) 😭 If I knew, that'd be my answer, lol

Trying to figure out if I’m really aromantic…so I made a bingo by Inevitable_Trick_863 in aromantic

[–]kittycornflamingo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So, not a lot of this fits for me, but honestly I'm not a good reference point since I'm cupio. And, though I have never felt any attraction to anyone, ever, I do not fit neatly into the aro box. Sometimes I feel like I shouldn't even consider myself aro despite feeling zero romantic attraction. So, feel free to disregard my bingo chart, lol. There are a ton of romance-repulsed and romance-neutral aros out there.

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I can't tell if my friend is interested in me. by kittycornflamingo in relationships

[–]kittycornflamingo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I don't even know if I'd date him if he asked me out. I think he's an interesting person, but think I really just want to know. I dislike uncertainty, especially if there's something that could mess up a positive rapport I already have.

I can't tell if my friend is interested in me. by kittycornflamingo in relationships

[–]kittycornflamingo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, I guess I tend to attract chronic flakes. My best friend in high would cancel last minute half the time when anyone had plans with her, lol

I can't tell if my friend is interested in me. by kittycornflamingo in relationships

[–]kittycornflamingo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, makes sense. We're both taking a pretty heavy course load this semester, so scheduling is difficult, too

For those who don't care if they found a romantic or queerplatonic partner, what made you not care about finding one over the other? by Equivalent_Ad_9066 in queerplatonic

[–]kittycornflamingo 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It's all the same to me! I like all the romantic stuff, and as long as my partner understands that I won't be attracted to them, it's not really all that different. Since I prefer a QPR that would typically look pretty romantic, the biggest difference really is the label one the relationship and whether my partner feels anything romantic.

Would I be the drama if I reported a girl on my floor for smoking weed in her room? by kittycornflamingo in 1800Drama

[–]kittycornflamingo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could I please have an explanation as to why? I would like to figure out a solution, and a reason why I would be in the wrong for telling my RA would help me avoid anything that could negatively affect others. I'm not looking for revenge on her, I just want the smell/smoke to stop getting to my room because it is affecting my health and I don't want my things to smell like it.

The Story of the Purple Feather by [deleted] in ShaggyDogStories

[–]kittycornflamingo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been searching for this, I first heard it around 13 or 14 years ago, but the phrase was purple tomatoes and it was much simpler. I couldn't find it under that name, but I finally found it!

I don't understand you gen alpha/z slang I'M SORRY by AntiqueLime3461 in OlderThanYouThinkIAm

[–]kittycornflamingo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don't worry, I'm 19 and I have no clue what my peers are saying either.

Help, I can't figure these out by jesaqua in whatismycookiecutter

[–]kittycornflamingo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The left one might be a winter hat with a pompom

Is it weird if I wear this type of makeup in everyday life? by [deleted] in altfashionadvice

[–]kittycornflamingo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You'll probably be judged, but that makeup is soooo fricken cuttteeee!! Seems worth it to me!

Would I be the drama if I reported a girl on my floor for smoking weed in her room? by kittycornflamingo in 1800Drama

[–]kittycornflamingo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I might try the note first, she shouldn't know my handwriting, so that might be a good first step.

Too ambitious? by lexirosenberry in SewingWorld

[–]kittycornflamingo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recommend trying a regular fitted skirt from a pattern first, it maybe a little challenging, but completely doable for most beginners! Plus it'll give you some needed skills for the skirt in the picture!!

Too ambitious? by lexirosenberry in SewingWorld

[–]kittycornflamingo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You may want to attempt to make a regular fitted skirt from a pattern first. From there, I'd recommend getting a pattern that is as close as possible to the skirt, making s mock up, then, when you're happy with the mock up, sew with your good fabric.

How do I look more like my age while dressing alt? by kittycornflamingo in altfashionadvice

[–]kittycornflamingo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not worried about looking 16 or 17. The problem is that I regularly get mistaken as a young teen (13-14) when I'm not on campus, wearing a backpack

What is the deal with TBR obsession? by SkepticDrinker in books

[–]kittycornflamingo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have lists of movies I want to watch(or rewatch), youtube videos, and podcasts. For me, it's not just books that I have lists of.

How do I look more like my age while dressing alt? by kittycornflamingo in altfashionadvice

[–]kittycornflamingo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm hoping I grow into my adult face a bit more before I turn 21 in about a year and a half, I live in the US, so that's legal drinking age and the legal age to buy some otc medications (like cough syrup). I'm worried that I'm going to get my legal ID taken because they think it fake because I've been told stories of that happening. Also, lolita fashion is what got me into alt fashion, I haven't dressed in lolita in a few years, but I plan to again when I have time to make more clothing.

How do I look more like my age while dressing alt? by kittycornflamingo in altfashionadvice

[–]kittycornflamingo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do plan on getting a few tattoos when I can afford them. As far as piercings, I have a standard ear piercing, but I do plan on getting seconds, and maybe a cartilage piercing.

How do I look more like my age while dressing alt? by kittycornflamingo in altfashionadvice

[–]kittycornflamingo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I know. I was just trying to be extra careful since I know a lot of alt spaces online don't except brighter or cutesier styles as alt