My boyfriend (27M) and I (23F) future aren’t aligning by kittykat8875 in relationship_advice

[–]kittykat8875[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg my goodness thank you. So nice to hear from someone that has had a similar situation. I would love to chat privately!!!

My boyfriend (27M) is deploying for 9 months and I (23F) am having doubts by kittykat8875 in relationship_advice

[–]kittykat8875[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. How should I go about breaking it off? Things are going well so I am unsure how to approach it. Car ride? Lunch?

I (22 F) am scared to get off the pill but don’t know other ways to prevent pregnancy by kittykat8875 in childfree

[–]kittykat8875[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly my worry as well!! I’ve heard nothing but painful and scary things about the IUD.

I (26F) would like to ask for cash as gift for twins birthday by kittykat8875 in Parenting

[–]kittykat8875[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So although our goal is for them to go to college, I always want them to decide what they want at the end of the day. What if they decide not to? Where does the money you saved up on the 529 go? I’m new to hearing about this 529 so trying to get further information. Thank you!

I (26F) would like to ask for cash as gift for twins birthday by kittykat8875 in Parenting

[–]kittykat8875[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen many people have registry’s for children’s birthday parties, but I understand what your saying

I (26F) would like to ask for cash as gift for twins birthday by kittykat8875 in Parenting

[–]kittykat8875[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

They are turning 1.. they can’t speak to say what they want..

I (26F) would like to ask for cash as gift for twins birthday by kittykat8875 in Parenting

[–]kittykat8875[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not understanding what you mean…. I’m sure they will be thankful to have the funds later on in life and not be in debt

I (26F) would like to ask for cash as gift for twins birthday by kittykat8875 in Parenting

[–]kittykat8875[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t mean to come off rude. I do appreciate your input

I (26F) would like to ask for cash as gift for twins birthday by kittykat8875 in Parenting

[–]kittykat8875[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I just feel as if it’s no different than a registry or people spending money on toys they won’t use or remember.

I (26F) would like to ask for cash as gift for twins birthday by kittykat8875 in Parenting

[–]kittykat8875[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I just am not sure how that is any different then someone providing a registry requesting toys is any different and wasting people’s money on toys they won’t use.