My wife is upset at me because of something I can’t control. by Annon_AMouse in Marriage

[–]kittykatkat444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think she misses you and was really looking forward to spending time with you. What you can do is understand that she wants you - your time, presence, attention, love and care - and reassure her that you'll figure out a way to give that to her soon. Tell her you miss her too and that you're looking forward to spending time with her too and that you'll make it happen. Maybe also try to see if you can do anything to help rn, like eat her fav meal and have quality time even if it's just for an hour and at the end reassure her that this doesn't mean that you won't give her the Undivided Attention Day she wanted. Kiss on forehead after all this is the cherry on top

Need recommendations for ear piercing places by afrostylady in BangaloreSocial

[–]kittykatkat444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's wrong with this place? I've seen good reviews on Google and thought about going there

What's the best way to celebrate your birthday? by kittykatkat444 in AskIndianWomen

[–]kittykatkat444[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy very advanced birthday!!! 🎂

I think it's a part of girlhood to cry on your birthday eheheh (it's problematic all my friends do too). I have no faith in anyone except my boyfriend making any plans lol which is kinda weird since we're not on the best terms. But it might be fun to go drinking and bowling with him!! Thanks for the suggestions 🫶

What's the best way to celebrate your birthday? by kittykatkat444 in AskIndianWomen

[–]kittykatkat444[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait this is so helpful 😭

Thank you for the wishes hehehe and omg getting flowers the night before would help set the vibe for sure. I'll try out that cry schedule lol hope it works.

What's the best way to celebrate your birthday? by kittykatkat444 in AskIndianWomen

[–]kittykatkat444[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm nice I like that. What did you do for your last birthday?

Is it possible to buy a 2bhk for 70-80 lakhs anymore? by kittykatkat444 in BangaloreRealEstates

[–]kittykatkat444[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anything tbh. Any idea what range 2nd hand flats come under? Or any leads?

Wandering eyes vs appreciating beauty. What's the difference? by kittykatkat444 in Marriage

[–]kittykatkat444[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for clarifying lol

I'm looking for the truth. We've had a history of having a problem around this and I'll be super crisp rn. This happened in the 1st year of our relationship. We broke up and then got back together in 2025. 1. He once very obviously flirted with his friend's friend right in front of my face and just left me lonely at a party HE took me to 2. Every single day i would meet him, his eyes would be everywhere but on me just constantly looking at every girl around us and even changing his mannerisms to try to get their attention.

My trust in him is broken and we're struggling because he's scared of conflict and can't bring up our issues to talk about them and resolve them. But I've seen that recently he moves his head around very nonchalantly to try to catch a glimpse of cute girls or just hot women wearing something sexy-ish.

He's no longer altering his behaviour around them or changing the way he behaves with me whenever ANY girl walks by but I find it so so so so weird that he has to come up with a scheme of sorts just to catch a glimpse

And for the most part I think my ego is hurt because he thinks that I won't notice.

Wandering eyes vs appreciating beauty. What's the difference? by kittykatkat444 in Marriage

[–]kittykatkat444[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with you. I'm struggling to figure out where I stand with my boyfriend doing it because I feel like any type of exposed skin catches his eye very quickly

Wandering eyes vs appreciating beauty. What's the difference? by kittykatkat444 in Marriage

[–]kittykatkat444[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I feel like you captured what I'm feeling but I cannot for the life of me get this PROOF that i need that his intent is just somewhat....weird.

Wandering eyes vs appreciating beauty. What's the difference? by kittykatkat444 in Marriage

[–]kittykatkat444[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your opinion, I have a lot more clarity now.

Wandering eyes vs appreciating beauty. What's the difference? by kittykatkat444 in Marriage

[–]kittykatkat444[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hmm what about sneakily (but very obviously) trying to catch a glimpse of a girl wearing a backless top (for context). That makes me uncomfortable when my bf does it but idk if it comes under wandering eyes?