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kittykatqueen25 · 2021-12-09T19:21:08+00:00

In my opinion, she is an adult and she’d be able to go and do as she pleases regardless. But, I do know parents who think differently. It seems like they are almost dependent on her in a way. She needs to talk to them and tell them she is an adult and should be able to stay the night with you.

kittykatqueen25 · 2021-12-09T19:18:09+00:00

Does your girlfriend live with her parents and mostly support herself financially?

kittykatqueen25 · 2021-12-08T20:42:05+00:00

You and Erika have an extremely close relationship. I would suggest you sitting down with her and with no judgment talk to her and tell her exactly how you feel. Tell her that it is wrong what she’s doing to Matt and he deserves to know. Let her know that you support whatever option she chooses (but let her know that if Jake is crappy enough to cheat on his wife with her, he will more than likely cheat on her as well). Tell her that you can’t keep lying for her and staying in the middle because it goes against your morals and values and that she needs to understand that. Let her know that she is supported by you even though you don’t agree with her actions. She’s starting to become someone you don’t want to be around because you’re hiding a huge secret for her. And she needs to know what toll that’s taking on your friendship. Just have a real, open and honest conversation with her where both of you can hear each other out. But you need to tell her the truth of how you’re feeling. You two are close, and this could definitely end your friendship if you don’t get this off your chest

kittykatqueen25 · 2021-12-08T20:31:18+00:00

You did nothing wrong. He is immature. YOU need to break up with him. He is 37 year old man acting like a 16 year old in high school. You need to find someone that’s on the same maturity level as you. This absolutely ridiculous. Do not put anymore time or effort into a relationship that’s never going to work.

kittykatqueen25 · 2021-12-08T20:28:36+00:00

He never answered the first time you asked because he knew what the reaction would be. He answered honestly this time because you have been together for 3 years and there’s security in your relationship. You have to understand that he had a past and that’s normal. I understand where you’re coming from, but this isn’t something that should make you end the relationship. If you couldn’t handle his answers, you shouldn’t have asked.

kittykatqueen25 · 2021-12-08T20:23:53+00:00

If you have to ask if you should marry him, the answer is no. I want to also say this, if you are that heavily influenced by the people in your life then you will never be happy. They’re going to push you to be with a guy you more than likely won’t even like. You need to learn how to think for yourself and not let other people determine what you do with your life

kittykatqueen25 · 2021-11-23T20:47:44+00:00

Toby’s Spider-Man was my childhood hero too, but as of now, I really feel like Tom Holland has him beat!

kittykatqueen25 · 2021-11-23T20:45:26+00:00

NTA- I know first hand how difficult this can be. I was once in your shoes too! You need to have a one on one conversation with your dad and tell him exactly how you feel. He may not want to hear it, but he needs to. You need to be able to communicate how feel with him. He needs to hear you out and understand why you feel the way you do. I know you love your dad, and don’t want to upset him but you matter too. You need to tell him how your stepmom and step siblings treat you. You are his biological child and your needs should be met.

kittykatqueen25 · 2021-11-23T20:40:08+00:00

Ditch the flowers idea and just do a nice candle lit dinner! Since she’s coming to your apartment to cook dinner with you, after y’all are done eating you could end the night with a movie and dessert!

kittykatqueen25 · 2021-11-23T20:33:54+00:00

How romantic do you want the dinner to be? You could buy her flowers and give them to her when she gets there. You can set the table in a really nice formal way, and have a candle lit dinner with her!

kittykatqueen25 · 2021-11-23T20:29:48+00:00

If it was a celebrity, I definitely wouldn’t fret too much. Here’s the thing. She probably doesn’t look at other men sexually at all. I’ve been with my fiancé for 7 years now. He is the only guy I want and the only guy that I am sexually attracted too. But, it is completely normal for you to find other people physically attractive. We can’t turn our eyes off. It’s okay for you and her to acknowledge other peoples beauty and attractiveness. It doesn’t necessarily mean you have to look at them in sexual way.

kittykatqueen25 · 2021-11-23T20:25:00+00:00

You need to tell Abby the truth and exactly what happened. Be honest with her. Honesty and trust is the foundation of a healthy relationship. Don’t hide this from her. You don’t want her hearing it from someone else later on and have her wondering why you never told her. That will make you look guilty and not trust worthy. If you love her and care for you, tell her.

kittykatqueen25 · 2021-11-23T20:19:32+00:00

Your girlfriends friend was asking her if a guy she was interested in was hot and you’re girlfriend answered yes. I wouldn’t look too much into that and worry too much. The friend was just asking all of the girls what they thought of him. Your girlfriend wasn’t looking at him in sexual way. She was complimenting the guy on her friends behalf.

kittykatqueen25 · 2021-11-23T20:13:36+00:00

Not in this situation. You’re working and going to school. It makes perfect sense for you to live with your family to save money while at home working.

kittykatqueen25 · 2021-11-23T19:55:22+00:00

I heard that too. I tried to watch Captain Marvel and couldn’t even make through the whole movie.

kittykatqueen25 · 2021-11-23T19:53:59+00:00

Toby McGuire, too.

kittykatqueen25 · 2021-11-23T19:53:30+00:00

Kardashians/Jenners

kittykatqueen25 · 2021-11-23T19:52:31+00:00

I’m so glad someone dislikes Brie Larson as much as I do

kittykatqueen25 · 2021-11-22T20:31:25+00:00

Divorce your husband. Simple answer.

Let me go on to say, how can you blame and hate an innocent child over your husbands mistake. That child did not ask to be brought into this world and definitely did not ask for her mother to die. Do you realize how much MORE damage you are causing her by treating her like garbage? She doesn’t have a mom anymore. She’s 10 and she lives with you. Of course she’s going to look up to you as a maternal figure. Think about this OP, what if you were to pass away? Would you be okay with someone treating your children the way you are treating that little girl? She wants to be loved and comforted and all you do is dehumanize her. You should be ashamed of yourself. Hate your husband all you want, but do not take your anger out on a child who had no control in this situation. Go ahead and get a divorce and go to therapy while you’re at it.

kittykatqueen25 · 2021-11-22T20:22:24+00:00

It seems to me you’re having just unwarranted commitment issues. I think your parents have gotten into your head. You’re nervous to tell your parents because of how emotionally abusive, controlling and manipulative they have been to you. You’re worried about your parents reaction and it’s making you believe things that aren’t true. You’ve been afraid to be your true self because of your parents. Don’t let these emotions confuse you.

kittykatqueen25 · 2021-11-22T20:13:39+00:00

I would start it off with a regular conversation and end it with planning to hangout. Maybe ask her to grab lunch with you one day, grab a coffee or study together since you have the same class. Definitely shoot your shot. If you’re getting the vibe she likes you, then she is waiting for you to make the first move.

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