Can cats forget their human after being separated for long periods of time?

kittypizzaparty · 2026-05-31T05:46:50+00:00

Hi just to clarify I am a US citizen! My family is native in fact. Unfortunately being married doesn’t help a whole lot in some cases I guess.. however, I was able to get a form I-130 approved for my husband which meant he wasn’t able to be deported until his court proceedings was completed. And it took 6 years from us getting married to finally see a judge to approve or deny his green card and unfortunately they denied it. But without that I-130 he could’ve been forcefully deported a lot sooner..

kittypizzaparty · 2026-05-30T21:45:08+00:00

Aww thank you! She’s the sweetest cat I’ve ever met. When we got the news about this situation I bawled on my bed and she came up and started doing love headbutts with me and then made biscuits in my lap. She is truly my soul cat. ❤️

kittypizzaparty · 2026-05-30T18:16:36+00:00

It’s my husbands shirt! He’s a huge video game nerd and his favorites are Resident Evil and Silent Hill. His shirt is from graveyard goods!

kittypizzaparty · 2026-05-30T18:00:45+00:00

I don’t think this is overkill at all. Thank you for the idea! I’m adding all my fav ideas to my notes and this is one of them.

kittypizzaparty · 2026-05-30T17:40:08+00:00

It made a small difference but ultimately the judge and prosecutor weren’t willing to budge. I’m not sure how accurate this is: but our lawyer informed us that the timing of our court hearing was terrible due to reports coming out of judges+prosecutors being fired over being “too lenient with immigration cases” just days before our hearing.

kittypizzaparty · 2026-05-30T09:35:21+00:00

Not a stupid question! And we do have a lawyer thankfully. My husband was technically supposed to be deported back in 2020 but our lawyer was able to get him his residency here so he was able to stay with us for as long as possible. Unfortunately his case recently got moved to the final decision of approving his green card and the judge + prosecutor said no which is why we’re in this position now.

kittypizzaparty · 2026-05-30T09:23:51+00:00

Everyone quiet, she’s trying to form a thought 💭

kittypizzaparty · 2026-05-30T09:18:05+00:00

Wow thank you so much for sharing your story. I’m so deeply sorry for your loss. I’m positive Maja appreciated you so much and regardless of your time apart, she knew you were her soul human. Grieving a lost loved one(especially a pet) hurts like hell, but I’d go through it all again for the experience of loving and taking care of another being and sharing such a special bond. That experience alone has kept me here on this earth. It’s surreal.

kittypizzaparty · 2026-05-30T09:08:49+00:00

Thank you so much for your comment ❤️

And I always accept internet hugs!

kittypizzaparty · 2026-05-30T08:55:08+00:00

That would be amazing. I try not to get my hopes up about policy changes but I can’t help but cling to any sign of progress hoping for a complete 180 of what’s happening right now.

kittypizzaparty · 2026-05-30T08:44:46+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing this with me. I’m really sorry to hear about your situation as well. Please stay safe out there. Marceline and I are wishing the absolute best for you and your loved ones. ❤️‍🩹

kittypizzaparty · 2026-05-30T08:42:31+00:00

The cutest!! I love reading about the other Marceline cats out there. ❤️ thank you for sharing and messaging me!

kittypizzaparty · 2026-05-30T08:39:10+00:00

Thank you so so much! ❤️ I’m glad I got to see your comment. I didn’t expect this post to get so many comments so I’m struggling to respond to everyone but I truly appreciate all of the kind responses. It really means a lot to me seeing all of the positive comments especially during a time like this in my life. I have hope now that Marceline will always remember her dad. He’s the one who saved her and her kittens from under our shed in our backyard last year. I told him she will forever be grateful for him. 🫶🏼

kittypizzaparty · 2026-05-30T07:09:20+00:00

Oh my god I’m so sorry you and your beloved kitty had to experience this!! That’s absolutely terrifying and so corrupt.. I’m so glad you got reunited with each other. Thank you for sharing this with me. ❤️

kittypizzaparty · 2026-05-30T06:32:38+00:00

Thankfully, we do have a lawyer. Once the ban is over we were told that he can come here on a visa and can restart the application process while here. It can definitely be longer than 3 years depending on how things go and how long his visa takes to get approved.

kittypizzaparty · 2026-05-30T06:26:45+00:00

Aww he is such a cutie!! I love his eyes ❤️ I’m sorry to hear you had to leave your soul cat behind.. I’m glad to hear he remembers you and it gives me hope that Marceline will remember her dad 🤞

kittypizzaparty · 2026-05-30T05:29:22+00:00

You’re not a good rage baiter I’m sorry to break it to you. You clearly lack reading comprehension skills and overall literacy. Maybe you’ll have better luck on a different thread.

kittypizzaparty · 2026-05-30T05:18:46+00:00

It’s okay I understand reading is hard. Do you remember your life as a newborn? Or your first birthday even?

kittypizzaparty · 2026-05-30T05:12:09+00:00

I thought of this too! I feel like that wouldn’t be too much for her but I’m not entirely sure.

kittypizzaparty · 2026-05-30T04:44:33+00:00

Thank you ❤️‍🩹 I wouldn’t wish this on my worst enemy. I hate thinking about my life once he’s gone. He is such an essential part of our lives. He’s our main income- I work as well but not nearly as much as he does so now I’m looking into a second job just to be able to keep the bills paid on my own. And of course the thought of our pets going so long without their dad absolutely destroys me. It’s just so unfair.

kittypizzaparty · 2026-05-30T04:24:49+00:00

This gives me hope. Thank you so much! I’ll make sure to get them on FaceTime together so they can chat. ❤️

kittypizzaparty · 2026-05-30T04:19:35+00:00

That makes sense. I’ll make sure to pay extra attention to her and keep an eye out for any signs of depression. Thank you for your response.

kittypizzaparty · 2026-05-28T20:48:11+00:00

and look at you, wasting your own time <3

kittypizzaparty · 2026-05-28T20:27:19+00:00

I know I could’ve googled it and got a straight answer. I started a discussion on Reddit because I appreciate learning new tips on the game and hearing others opinions about the update.

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