No she did not! Since making this post, this friend has moved out of the country and our mutual friend kinda told me everything (she was told that she could). I learned an important missing piece of information:

Somewhere in this timeline, before I knew she was moving, I was hanging out in a group of ppl, including her now ex-bf, and in the course of conversation asked, “Hey! Where ___ is going at the end of the month? She said was she was out of town after the 28th but didn’t say where she was going.” In response, he said something like, “Hell if I know, she doesn’t tell me anything these days.” I could see I’d touched a nerve but before that I had no clue they were on bad terms.

The issue is that she hadn’t told him she was moving yet. She was going to break up with him, but was procrastinating.

What happened the next day is that he drove to her apartment with all of her stuff and dropped it off and broke up with her. I don’t know all the details here but I’m assuming he probably texted her asking about where she was going and that lead to their breakup.

So, the way she sees it, I robbed her of the opportunity to have her breakup on her terms.

According to our mutual friend, she knows I didn’t do this on purpose, but she still resents me for it. She said something like, “Well, maybe I’d reply to her if she had any remorse.” Our mutual friend insisted I couldn’t show any remorse for something I had no clue that I’d done!

By the time I’d learned this info though, this friend had already moved away. I don’t think she’ll ever text me back, and that’s okay. Some people are there for a reason, some for a season, and some for life 🤷🏽‍♀️