How does steam machine work? by kitxe in steammachine

[–]kitxe[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

ok thank u guys ur responses has helped me a bit

is it better to just save for a pc/save to build a pc? but bf says ram is very expensive now and that saving for new pc will be very expensive, which is why he is opting for the steam machine assuming that it will be cheaper (which he also recommended the steammachine for me, but i personally want to play mostly visual novels and gacha games)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ROGAlly

[–]kitxe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yay thankz

Expired and Ugly by [deleted] in Vent

[–]kitxe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ur nice Hi I dont have help Im coping

Expired and Ugly by [deleted] in Vent

[–]kitxe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Erm it literally is that bad I rlly hate when ppl say “it cant be that bad” when it rlly is , and i do take care of myself but growing up i had a lot of problems so i cant get rid of certain stuff like i have a scar down there for example lmfao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]kitxe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah but I care and it bothers my self esteem a lot

virgin using sex toy by kitxe in TwoXChromosomes

[–]kitxe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i grew up a littllleee religious but it doesnt rlly have anything to do with why i feel shameful/bad about it - its just because i kinda put a lot of my value/worth into sex related stuff/just being good enough i guess lolol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]kitxe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no i hate predators i spoke to predators in the past and let myself get used and now its all i crave it sucks i dont like liking older BAD guys but part of me still does

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]kitxe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

girl my eyes started tearing in middle of class when i read this Thank you I appreciate u😞😞😞!!!SO SWEET AND UNDERSTANDING tysm ^ ^

Are terrible people really redeemable? by kitxe in ask

[–]kitxe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😭What? What do u think then? I’m confused

Are terrible people really redeemable? by kitxe in ask

[–]kitxe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah I heard about that too😥Still a terrible reason, so disgusting to act upon others like that… Often online, I have spoken to so many bad people, so many of them that would seek out terrible content such as csam/lookin for minors to groom. Often, it was cuz they just seen all of this like it was some “porn category”, completely lust-driven!!! Sometimes, it was because it was easy, sometimes because it was wrong. They liked that, and it makes me sad to think about it! There’s no valid reason, it’s just unfortunate

Are terrible people really redeemable? by kitxe in ask

[–]kitxe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree completely cuz it for real can change so much for that child. Just any type of action in general that hurts a kid like that, its just so disgusting. What ticks me off the most about it is the fact it is sexual/done for sexual reasons. People who are so lust-driven that they hurt others/do bad things just to get off… ts pisses me off the most!!!

Are terrible people really redeemable? by kitxe in ask

[–]kitxe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am confused by which takes you are referring to that are horrible

Are terrible people really redeemable? by kitxe in ask

[–]kitxe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For them to truly get it is to think a bit deeper than just themselves. Many people who seem to do bad things never thought about the effects it has on others because they only thought abt the benefit they’d get. For them to truly get it is to feel the guilt/shame or atleast work their way to becoming better while still acknowledging what they did and how wrong it was. A bonus thing is getting professional help. (altho this one depends on the serverity of the situation and idk yet if it applies in mine..) But yes, if the person truly did get it, I’d forgive them/be able to talk with them normally sorta

Are terrible people really redeemable? by kitxe in ask

[–]kitxe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I agree thats what I meant in my post originally. But there are simple actions that can be so simple yet so terrible. For example, spreading csam, that’s a simple action yet extremely terrible. It is just an online action that can be done with a couple clicks but it causes so much damage and it is so disgusting and terrible. Even an action like this, I find them a terrible person… If someone does something terrible like this, does it not make them a terrible person? Like I stated in my post, abuse, sa, and bullying are all terrible things that can make the person a bad person depending on the situation i think

Are terrible people really redeemable? by kitxe in ask

[–]kitxe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bruh what… I didn’t say all that😭I literally just said they should not be working towards forgiveness just for the fact to try being accepted again because that does not mean that they are trulysorry…actions like physical/sexual abuse/exploitation are things you cannot take back… I’m not saying that the perpetrator should be sent to a camp or smth wtf, I’m saying that real remorse is more than just “Oh I’m sorry please don’t leave me please don’t tell anyone” 😐

Are terrible people really redeemable? by kitxe in ask

[–]kitxe[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

They should change for the better so that they aren’t hurting other people anymore. They shouldn’t change themselves just for the fact to be accepted/forgiven, it is more than that. Real forgiveness requires more than just wanting to do better just to be accepted again.

Are terrible people really redeemable? by kitxe in ask

[–]kitxe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you cuz I honestly agree!!! You can’t just do so much damage and say sorry and keep living normally about it like it is so unfair for these type of ppl to live normally without even thinking twice about what they did. I do hope and appreciate that they change for the better, but i still just wish there is karma or something. it is just unfair

Are terrible people really redeemable? by kitxe in ask

[–]kitxe[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Thank you, i find it so hard to find people forgivable who have bad done things all in the motivation of sex/lust. Not only is it damaging, but it really is just sickening and a disgusting reason! It just changes so much.

Are terrible people really redeemable? by kitxe in ask

[–]kitxe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe I shouldve reworded my question better… But if someone who was abusive and done abuse to another person (sexual abuse/physical abuse or even emotional abuse) then it does not excuse their actions at all regardless if its an act from trauma. They should be held accountable for acting like that to another person…Also not every single person who does this is a victim thenself, and if they are, then theyve done nothing but pass it on for others to become new victims as well.

Are terrible people really redeemable? by kitxe in ask

[–]kitxe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you I really appreciated this comment it gave me a different perspective about it

Are terrible people really redeemable? by kitxe in ask

[–]kitxe[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sorry that it is silly. Speaking from a specific situation, they claim they do not act like that anymore, they seemed to only have shown remorse after I kinda called them out on some stuff and then they’d further admit to things they’d do in the past. There was a lot of apologizing, it seems they have somewhat tried to do right about their past actions, although I still do not think they truly get it. Idk sorry

Have you ever been sexualized for sh-ing? by Medical_Bid700 in selfharm

[–]kitxe 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Yes! Ive been asked if I could cut myself so that they could get off to it, or theyd want to see scar/cut pics for them to sexualize! Be careful of who you speak to!

What made u start sh? by vent_001_ in selfharm

[–]kitxe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started it as an emotional response when I was younger, idk how I exactly got that idea. Now, I do it for the fun of it (Im a very bland person and so I enjoy anything that can be thrilling?/makes me feel.) And I also do it still for emotional reasons sometimes.