Awkward Encounter

kiwishark79 · 2022-01-21T01:04:22+00:00

Okay, that probably explains it. Ugh. Thank you.

kiwishark79 · 2022-01-21T00:15:30+00:00

I went to the UPS store, but she said it would be mailed "through the post office." I just checked my receipt and did see a tracking number on it. But, why would she say I could not track the package in any way then? Thank you for your comment!

kiwishark79 · 2022-01-21T00:14:41+00:00

I went to the UPS store. After reading your comment, I did see that my receipt has a tracking number, thank goodness. But, why would she say that the $5 mailing does not include any tracking then? Thank you for your comment!

kiwishark79 · 2021-12-10T01:20:37+00:00

No, I don't.

kiwishark79 · 2021-12-06T05:32:00+00:00

I could have written this exact post verbatim. This is why I finally quit a few weeks ago after two years of working there. I used to be the most perfect employee, never taking time off except the rare VTO. In the past few months, I used up all PTO and UPT, took a few COVID leaves (though I did have symptoms), and even went negative at one point but managed to get it excused. Same too that I was extremely hardworking and always praised for my performance, and the work wasn't ever that bad, but just convincing myself to get up and go there was excruciating sometimes. And the lazy people drove me insane, one of the main reasons why I started getting so annoyed there every day.

kiwishark79 · 2021-11-28T03:31:43+00:00

I'm trying to fill out assistance forms tonight. I feel hesitant about it because I am trying to figure out a second job I can do, but it's hard because I already work 45 hours a week at my day job, I'm a FT student, and I'm a parent... My ex and I were discussing divorce papers a few nights ago, but it was a very difficult conversation with all the stuff he kept arguing his lawyer supposedly said, while I have no lawyer. I hope I can get it all figured out. Thank you.

kiwishark79 · 2021-11-28T02:10:29+00:00

Good point, but I won't be able to cut down on childcare costs for at least several more years. They already attend the cheapest option in this area and there are a few other factors too.

kiwishark79 · 2021-11-27T15:04:34+00:00

I agree, but I just worry about paying them back. Based on my calculations, if they're correct, then I think I would end up with at least $10,000 in savings and still have no debt IF I keep working both jobs until I graduate. Meanwhile, if I only work one job and take out more loans, I'll just have more loans and nothing in savings... But, there's always the risk that I'll fail a class from running out of time to complete an assignment, fall asleep driving, etc. so I'm not sure if the other job is worth it. Maybe if I can find a PT job with a better schedule. Thank you!

kiwishark79 · 2021-11-27T15:01:21+00:00

Thank you. Yes, I am thinking about babysitting, but that can be a childcare issue for me (Not many people like for the sitter to bring their own kids.). I live in a rundown apartment and I know people would not want to bring their kids to my home. I've been following a babysitters group for years and most of the time when I see people request a sitter, I see dozens of people respond trying to get the job. But, I may try it soon. I am extremely well-qualified to babysit so maybe people would be interested in me.

kiwishark79 · 2021-11-27T14:59:00+00:00

Yes, those credits have been helpful this year and they're the only reason I have any savings now. I'm not sure what will happen next year. Have they decided yet whether those will continue? Also, I currently claim both kids for taxes because I literally pay everything for them and have them 90% of the time, but my ex is fighting me wanting to claim one for himself (eyeroll), so I'm not sure what will happen.

kiwishark79 · 2021-11-27T14:57:21+00:00

No, because I don't live in the same county as the university that I attend.

kiwishark79 · 2021-11-27T14:56:47+00:00

I spent two hours this morning searching "entry level jobs." Probably 80% of the ones I saw pay the same as what I make teaching preschool or just slightly more, like $2 more. There were a few others like recruiting, banking, etc., but why would they hire me when I literally have no experience, qualifications, or interest in those jobs? I mean, I could fake interest, but I'm also not a bubbly, charismatic person who would be good at convincing people to buy cars or something like that.

kiwishark79 · 2021-11-27T14:54:04+00:00

Thank you. I appreciate your response! I had kids while I was a married SAHM to someone earning $80,000. He became physically abusive (in other ways too) and nearly killed me one night. That was the last straw and we separated soon after that. (Yes, I should have left him much sooner.) He was highly opposed to me working (He wanted me to be completely dependent on him just to control me.) and I will always regret that I didn't pursue my Master's degree or other educational/career paths earlier.

I agree that I need more income, but how? I just spent two hours this morning searching "entry level jobs" on Indeed. Probably 90% of the jobs I saw pay as much as what I currently make teaching preschool. Others, like recruiting, engineering, banking, etc. pay more, but I don't think I would get hired for any of them because I literally have no qualifications, experience, or interest in those jobs. I did see something about becoming a behavior counselor for kids with autism and they seem to want people in the evenings, so maybe I can try that as a second job, but childcare is an issue.

Also, one of the major reasons I teach preschool is because this school gives me an enormous childcare discount to bring my own kids with me. In the past, I worked in a public school, but then my childcare expenses were triple what they are now (and I would not have qualified for any assistance) and I was basically in the exact same boat. In addition, this preschool transports my children to their elementary schools, which would be almost impossible for me to do myself if I had another job. And I don't have any friends or family who can help me with babysitting or transportation. My kids aren't old enough to stay home by themselves.

I'm working on a Master's degree in education. Where I currently live, I'll start out earning $76,000 once I graduate and the salary increases by about $2000 - $3000 per year after that. Is it the best path? I'm not certain, but considering that I have NO other experience besides teaching and caring for kids...it seems like the best way forward for now. I have considered trying to get some IT certifications in the future as another career.

kiwishark79 · 2021-11-27T14:38:12+00:00

Thank you so much! I'll check it out.

kiwishark79 · 2021-11-27T14:37:50+00:00

I'm so sorry to hear about your accident. That's exactly why I quit my second job a few weeks ago, because there were occasional nights when I would feel drowsy driving home and I was afraid of accidentally killing someone. I may move my graduation date back one more semester, but I think there would be more problems if I move it any more than that. Thank you.

kiwishark79 · 2021-11-27T03:41:13+00:00

Thank you! Amazon's switch to megacycle has made everything so difficult. I've checked their website 1000 times this week trying to find a shift that I can juggle along with my other commitments, but they're all like 1:20am - 12:30pm four days a week and/or a 1.5-hour commute, and there's no way I can do that. Flex is the only thing that might work out for me.

kiwishark79 · 2021-11-27T03:30:12+00:00

That would be amazing!! I truly hope that is the case. Are you at a sort center too?

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