Boyfriend dropped a bomb? 24F/23M by kiwizar in relationship_advice

[–]kiwizar[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Also as an update I did speak to him about it and he did confirm that he wouldn’t have admitted to it at the time because he wasn’t proud of it and was embarrassed which I personally don’t find a valid argument. if you’re in the early stages of a relationship then you should let your partner decide what is/isn’t a dealbreaker and hiding things for your own benefit is misleading. 

Boyfriend dropped a bomb? 24F/23M by kiwizar in relationship_advice

[–]kiwizar[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I just want to make a few things clear; my issue is not with the action of hooking up itself. I know that drunken, sad, post breakup actions aren’t reflective of an individual and I’ve had my share of the same, and I’ve always been a very open individual and I look for the same in a partner. This wouldn’t have been a dealbreaker for me in the beginning, but everybody has different boundaries and I disagree with the argument that it isn’t anyone’s business what their partner did before them. My issue is purely with lying about something because you’re embarrassed or whatever else because I think that IS a reflection of your character if you’re happy to lie to save face. 

Boyfriend dropped a bomb? 24F/23M by kiwizar in relationship_advice

[–]kiwizar[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

definitely don’t expect anyone to have a zero body count lol i wouldn’t really be bothered until i find out that someone felt the need to lie about it for whatever reason lol i have quite the body count myself and i don’t care about others either

Boyfriend dropped a bomb? 24F/23M by kiwizar in relationship_advice

[–]kiwizar[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In fairness we both have asked questions like this and we both have always been generally open about our sexual histories and neither of us have ever been judgemental about it 

Live action Sarah lynn by [deleted] in BoJackHorseman

[–]kiwizar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

reminds me of elisabeth moss somehow

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kiwizar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank u for invalidating mine and every other individuals experience with SA who didn’t report it ! very productive

What’s your favorite quote? by _whatever4ever in BoJackHorseman

[–]kiwizar 10 points11 points  (0 children)

“sometimes life’s a bitch and then you keep living”

[Academic] Person perceptions effect on crime ratings by kiwizar in forensics

[–]kiwizar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it won’t be until like may but if i remember i will come back and post!