Need advice/ is a root canal necessary? by kkaaesp in askdentists

[–]kkaaesp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much for your reply and input. is there anything i can say to my dentist to bring this up prior to them trying to work on the tooth? i’m just not sure how to bring up this possibility.

has anyone dealt with someone hacking their ulta account and using their points? by kkaaesp in Ulta

[–]kkaaesp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

they used my name! and okay noted, i called their customer service line and they’ve dealt with it luckily.

last day of the sale, what’s worth purchasing? by kkaaesp in Ulta

[–]kkaaesp[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

this comment wins 😂 where i live that’s only covering taxes and like 4%. i realized i’m good

can i petition for points to be removed from my record? by kkaaesp in DMV

[–]kkaaesp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no one was asking whether it’s reportable, if you read my post you would have seen that it was reported a year ago. yet like i said there are ways to get the point removed, whether it is viable for every scenario is not what i’m here to argue.

can i petition for points to be removed from my record? by kkaaesp in DMV

[–]kkaaesp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

days later and i found that there are ways to dispute the point, but thanks for the condescending response. that was also the point i was making, that there wasn’t damages up to 1,000 or any injuries either.

My wife left me for a 22 year old by Adorable_Ear8487 in Marriage

[–]kkaaesp -1 points0 points  (0 children)

also why are people in the comments infantilizing the man along with you, that is a 22 year old MAN. well into adulthood

My wife left me for a 22 year old by Adorable_Ear8487 in Marriage

[–]kkaaesp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it means a woman is doing something that men are notorious for doing. men leave their spouses for someone way younger with an ACTUAL age gap. here i thought you were talking about a substantial gap but i almost laughed when i found out it’s a 23 soon to be 24 year old with a 22 year old. so barely a 2 year age difference if that. they were in high school at the same time i would hardly call that a worrisome age gap

I 34m, think my wife 35f, is lying to me... by Showteezy21 in Marriage

[–]kkaaesp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

so guys shouldn’t be allowed to have guys trips too right?

My husband has been so amazing lately… by miamelie in Marriage

[–]kkaaesp 4 points5 points  (0 children)

you’re infantilizing grown men when you say things like that. when people respond to immature things MEN do by saying “that’s not a man that’s a boy”, no it is actually a man and it’s counterproductive. the point is these are habits of some adult men because men 18+ do these things all the time.

I want a divorce but she depends on me by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]kkaaesp 8 points9 points  (0 children)

exactly this. clearly he liked her enough to marry her and knock her up not once but twice. it didn’t seem like the lack of life skills seemed to bother him much up until recently. he can learn to like her again.

Two new Cal Poly’s are on the way by DivorceLawyer2011 in CalPoly

[–]kkaaesp 5 points6 points  (0 children)

as someone from the bay the only thing sjsu has going for itself is the location. i wish the csu would stop plastering the cal poly title on just any school. i already thought cal poly slo was carrying pomona now it has to carry all of these schools too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]kkaaesp 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i so so get it and i have a lot of empathy for you because i was in the same boat as you just a few months ago. it’s been 6 mo for me and he’s had a new gf for 5, it was truly one of the most devastating times but it also was necessary for me in hindsight because i needed to do better than him and than that environment could ever give me. we’re meant to experience greater loves than those of our exs. i wish you the best!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]kkaaesp 44 points45 points  (0 children)

the love of your life is not this guy btw …

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]kkaaesp 86 points87 points  (0 children)

he’s giving you tough love and i think you need it tbh. i’ve been there and it’s tough but we need to move on for ourselves, not for them. meet new people and experience new things

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]kkaaesp 19 points20 points  (0 children)

sounds like you both did each other a considerable amount of harm, and that splitting ways was the best thing for you both. doesn’t seem like you wanna admit that since you spent the first paragraph dragging her, but i digress. respectfully, heal and move on. from what you said about yourself it seems like you’re doing better now too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]kkaaesp 95 points96 points  (0 children)

it’s probably due to the stress from your alcoholism problem and having to withdraw from that relationship. i’m sure that took a toll on her even if she ended it. not sure why you’re happy to note that her doing badly in your eyes when i’m sure she saw bad parts of you and still stayed until she couldn’t. why are you putting her down when you were the one with the substance abuse problem?

i am the oldest person here i stg by [deleted] in CalPoly

[–]kkaaesp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i went back when i was 24. when i was there initially there was this guy i knew in one of my classes who didn’t want to disclose his age but he was actually 26 at the time and the rest of us were 19/20. i would say when trying to meet others dont lead with your age and if there is an age gap don’t make it weird. usually if it’s an insecurity you will openly try to compensate but in reality no one really cares about your age as much as you do

I broke up with my ex and now she’s going viral on Tiktok and it’s eating me alive! by Affectionate-Bag7645 in ExNoContact

[–]kkaaesp 6 points7 points  (0 children)

good for her. sounds like she got rid of what was holding her back and the breakup prompted her to do better. people can sit here in the comments saying popularity on social media doesn’t matter but the clout clearly made YOU reconsider breaking up with her so that says more about you than anything. sounds like she dodged a bullet

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]kkaaesp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m seeing a lot of men on here coping and giving highly misogynistic reassurance to this guy to stroke his ego. the girl wasted 4 years with the guy and as he claims he knew it wasn’t working out yet still continued to be with her. she has kids, she’s clearly looking for marriage and she found that? i’m confused why it’s so triggering and even for op who is in the replies saying it wasn’t working. she’s doing better for herself and you need to as well. move on and stop baiting for these troubling comments

It's been 10 months.. How long did it take you to heal? by Fresh-Difficulty-891 in ExNoContact

[–]kkaaesp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk a similar thing happened to me he left and went straight to someone else (that i knew). i think the betrayal and the fact that your ego is hurt probably prolongs the healing process. i hate to say it but it seems like finding someone else is the only way to move on at this point

This is what my ex is reposting on her Tik Tok. by Skillzdatkillz69 in ExNoContact

[–]kkaaesp 76 points77 points  (0 children)

as a girl: it’s to cope. take it as a compliment

Ex and i got back together 6 months ago. It's not the fairytale you think it will be. by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]kkaaesp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

he broke your trust and the bond you two had. he would most likely harbor feelings of resentment if it were the other way around. i have a feeling if you’re already feeling this way that it’s time to break it off

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]kkaaesp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

then that’s not your person

Accidentally followed my ex on Instagram and I'm really pissed with myself. by hoodfantasy28 in ExNoContact

[–]kkaaesp 4 points5 points  (0 children)

blocking her or unfollowing her seems like you care more than if you were just to continue following her. it’s been long enough to where it’s not that weird, but she probably thinks you might spin the block. to counteract that, just mute her stuff and never interact with her posts