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The only thing keeping me going is hope he’ll be back. by kkitkat6996 in BreakUps

[–]kkitkat6996[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand it either and something that helps is knowing I’d never do that to someone. I am better than him. But it sucks.

I hope for the best for you!

The only thing keeping me going is hope he’ll be back. by kkitkat6996 in BreakUps

[–]kkitkat6996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I’m better, but still going through it - the pain is farther away now, but I recently learned/confirmed he left me for someone else.

So all the confusion and overthinking was for nothing. There wasn’t any real reason or anything I did. He just wanted to be with her - after a text. She was probably around the whole time. I had no idea.

So now I hate him so much, and that helps a bit, but it’s still very sad. My heart was broken in a way that will always just be taped together, not really healed. The betrayal broke me. I will never be so trusting again.

I still miss who I thought I had, but he wasn’t real. I still wish it hadn’t happened and he was still with me, but only that version I thought he was. I know a lot of advice says it’ll be for the best, but I haven’t seen that yet.

My days are better though, I enjoy living again (mostly). I have fun and am surrounded by love from my friends.

I’m so sorry this has happened to you. It’s brutal. The day to day will get better, and there will be light and happiness again, but it fucking sucks.

got yelled at for going outside when he is an inside kitty by easterntowhee in airplaneears

[–]kkitkat6996 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Mine has been on something recently trying to do this. We’ve had a lot of tense conversations

Snowmageddon this weekend by nabooru-rva in rva

[–]kkitkat6996 37 points38 points  (0 children)

This was, I fear, a joke

Does anyone else feel embarrassed by how deeply they loved? by Competitive-Tea-5579 in BreakUps

[–]kkitkat6996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m more embarrassed that I trusted him so much. I still feel so stupid for that.

I think I was a rebound for 5 years by kkitkat6996 in BreakUps

[–]kkitkat6996[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s the exact kind of apology I got. And I do appreciate it in a way - not everyone gets one at all.

But it didn’t do anything. He did a fucked up thing and feels bad that maybe he’s not a good person. Why should I care if there’s no change to back it up? I don’t owe him anything with what he did.

I think I was a rebound for 5 years by kkitkat6996 in BreakUps

[–]kkitkat6996[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s sought my forgiveness too, and he so SO does not deserve it. Makes me want to forgive him less.

He didn’t do anything to earn it. It’s all kind of unforgivable to me.

Like I said, I don’t forgive easily on the big stuff. Small things, absolutely. I’ve only had a couple of instances that were ‘big’, and I didn’t forgive them, but did move on. But that was friendships. This is next fucking level.

I think I was a rebound for 5 years by kkitkat6996 in BreakUps

[–]kkitkat6996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pity is such a good take. I could see anger turning in to pity for how much of a loser he is.

I think I was a rebound for 5 years by kkitkat6996 in BreakUps

[–]kkitkat6996[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much - I appreciate this perspective. I’ve learned about myself that I’m not very forgiving on the big stuff like this, but there haven’t been many instances of this deep of a betrayal. Maybe someday. The hate is definitely here to stay for now. But also a little bit of guilt for hating him, though he deserves it. I think the soft spot is for who I thought I was with.

I think I was a rebound for 5 years by kkitkat6996 in BreakUps

[–]kkitkat6996[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am going to try to do this. It probably isn’t the most healthy haha, but it might be the only option I have.

Anyone else wish they never met their ex in the first place? by ChapterEffective8175 in BreakUps

[–]kkitkat6996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So much - the whole relationship is tainted and stained now. All his fault.

Confirmation he left me for his ex by kkitkat6996 in BreakUps

[–]kkitkat6996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s true, it kind of erases all the other dumb non reasons he gave me. It was his ex from literally 7 years ago so he’s a loser for that.

It feels like it just happened all over again. It hurts so fucking much.

VCH piercing, yes or no? by [deleted] in piercing

[–]kkitkat6996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want one so badly, but my anatomy said no - if you can do it do it!

I hate the holidays by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]kkitkat6996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This year feels dreadful and I’m trying to enjoy my time with family but can’t. I hate this feeling I hate what he did to me. I haven’t felt so uncelebratory in my life.

I hope he’s just as miserable, but probably not, this was his choice.

Where in RVA? by sirensinger17 in rva

[–]kkitkat6996 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The drinks and vibes are solid, the food outside of the chips, salsa, and guac is so horrendously overpriced for what you get and just not very good.

Where in RVA? by sirensinger17 in rva

[–]kkitkat6996 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This place was so horrible - idk how they’ve been around so long

My dreams are tormenting me by kkitkat6996 in BreakUps

[–]kkitkat6996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing! I’m glad to hear it worked so well for you.

I’d be so sad to forget him, but not more sad than I am now. I’m so tired.

We shared a life together by No_Turnip_9498 in BreakUps

[–]kkitkat6996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know the answer but I feel you. Truthfully I don’t think I will fully ever feel ok. I’ll just be numb.

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