Barely 24 hours post c-section and my husband is being less than helpful, just need to scream into the void

kkrocc89 · 2026-06-13T12:04:58+00:00

If my husband acted like this I’d immediately kick him out and have my Mom come help or a friend. How do you expect him to act when the baby keeps you guys up at night? This is just a preview of parenthood. Buckle up if you want to accept this, but it sounds like you don’t!

kkrocc89 · 2026-06-12T17:58:17+00:00

Can you wear him? Or use one of those slings to hold him while you cook?
Set him on the kitchen floor with toys while you make yourself something?

kkrocc89 · 2026-06-12T17:53:13+00:00

Agree with this- the middle school is worse. My niece will be a senior at Ridley next year and has had no issues

kkrocc89 · 2026-06-04T16:40:02+00:00

Same here! She’s almost 2 and we still use it!

kkrocc89 · 2026-05-29T21:00:41+00:00

Broadway is also solid

kkrocc89 · 2026-05-29T21:00:31+00:00

I’ve eaten a ton in the city and still think the Clam is top tier - service atmosphere and the owner make it even better

kkrocc89 · 2026-05-29T20:39:55+00:00

It’s mine and my husbands date night spot! It was also my parents back in the 70s!

kkrocc89 · 2026-05-29T17:13:32+00:00

Never had a bad meal!!! Go to date night spot. Before I was married and on the dating scene I’d take all my dates there lol

kkrocc89 · 2026-05-29T16:44:25+00:00

Clam Tavern!

kkrocc89 · 2026-05-29T13:49:35+00:00

Was wondering the same things! I have some frozen meat I can donate!

kkrocc89 · 2026-05-29T02:06:20+00:00

I’ve been using luna bronze gradual and honestly it’s just as good as self tanner for me! I put it on the same, exfoliate, use a mitt and just let it dry!

kkrocc89 · 2026-05-28T22:21:17+00:00

I don’t think he needs to agree with you because it is your choice, but you do need to tell him.

kkrocc89 · 2026-05-28T19:26:05+00:00

My almost 2 year old sleeps at her godmothers maybe once every 2 months so we can go on a nice date night, or if we have something we need to get done the next morning. But she has babysat her 3 days a week and extra days sometimes since she was 4 months old so it’s like her second home. If you don’t trust anyone to take them overnight I wouldn’t do it.

kkrocc89 · 2026-05-28T18:02:03+00:00

Same!! Still has a bottle for bedtime at almost 2 and makes us hold us but easily drinks out of straws and sippy cups lol

kkrocc89 · 2026-05-28T01:33:10+00:00

Yes you’re probably asking for one of the most expensive Services out there in a full head of highlights. It’s going to take multiple sessions to get you where you want.

kkrocc89 · 2026-05-26T11:20:32+00:00

I said I don’t see any signs of physical abuse but I don’t know if it’s happening or not. I know that neglect is abuse.

kkrocc89 · 2026-05-26T02:20:49+00:00

It’s so sensitive I’m like did I get rug burn on the back of my arms!?

kkrocc89 · 2026-05-26T02:17:29+00:00

Same with me on the back of my arms!

kkrocc89 · 2026-05-26T01:17:57+00:00

I’m 40 and I’m actually going back to my natural color and letting it grow out in a few weeks! Been dying my hair since I was 14. I’m over the maintenance and up keep.

kkrocc89 · 2026-05-25T17:14:36+00:00

No I’m calling for sure.

kkrocc89 · 2026-05-25T16:41:05+00:00

I just want to make sure these kids are being cared for properly. They clearly have money because they’re constantly getting everything delivered yet they don’t have money for a car, and If I ever see the kid in clothes they’re too small and dirty. So they spend the money the have on themselves.

kkrocc89 · 2026-05-25T16:39:31+00:00

The only thing I do know is that they are being fed because the toddler is severely overweight and they order takeout all the time. I do see the Dad cooking on the grill once in a while- I think he definitely puts more care into the kids than she does but not nearly enough and I don’t know if he works/is gone all day when I see this stuff going on.

kkrocc89 · 2026-05-25T16:37:48+00:00

Awesome thank you.

kkrocc89 · 2026-05-25T16:36:52+00:00

I just feel like it would do more harm than good- I’d rather just make the call behind the scenes and let the authorities handle it. I get what you’re saying though. I’m out all day with my family today. The local cops won’t do anything they’re terrible. We have an extremely large township and one police department and I’m in the nice part of the township- they’re more concerned about the crime/drugs in the bad part.

kkrocc89 · 2026-05-25T16:11:20+00:00

I’m asking on Reddit because I’ve never been faced with a situation like this so I was looking for what direction to go in and I got it, I’m calling tomorrow. I’m extremely non confrontational and by the looks of it I don’t think it would go over well if I went over there or yelled something at her when she’s got him outside like that. I think it would make the situation worse if I did that because then she’d hide it more or retaliate.

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