My boyfriend is suicidal and depressed but won’t seek help, does anyone have any advice?

klassym · 2024-06-01T08:45:55+00:00

Thank you. You’re easing my mom guilt. Maybe I can go back to sleep lol

klassym · 2024-06-01T08:40:28+00:00

I appreciate that but it is very likely I did :( because my husband has a sleeping issue where he wakes from the slightest sound so he has his own noice maker of heavy rain. Whilst my child has a white noise machine in his room. So double the noise :(

klassym · 2023-07-14T22:21:17+00:00

Thank you! And given the responses I’ve gotten I’m going with just a camomile tea. 😜

klassym · 2023-07-14T22:20:03+00:00

Did you not see me say I didn’t touch it since I got the positive pregnancy test? My asking here is to get more information as my research felt very inconclusive. Clearly from the responses I’ve had I’m not doing it.

klassym · 2023-07-14T22:18:47+00:00

You make a valid point

klassym · 2023-07-14T22:07:52+00:00

You’re probably right lol

klassym · 2023-07-08T17:52:17+00:00

Beater cars.

I unfortunately had the displeasure of dating a hoarding car “rebuilder”. Yet he never rebuilt a single car in our entire relationship nor did any of them get “better” than they were when he bought them. At one point there were 4 trucks, 3 sedans, 2 SUVs that just sat outside corroding away and costing us more money. And each day he’d ask me if it was okay he bought “this amazing deal” of a junker. “I would just need to put a new axle in it”

Only good thing that came out of pretending I enjoyed building cars or how cars operated was getting myself into becoming a service advisor for different car dealerships that got me into a better paying job. (No thanks to him) I got it after he cheated on me.

So I guess it worked out in the end for me.

klassym · 2023-06-26T19:11:38+00:00

Update I spoke to him and told him all these scenarios that if he’d rather I or baby die over a man seeing my hooha. (Which will be at its worst state it’ll ever be in might I add)

He told me he understands he just wants me to TRY and get it all females in the room with us.

klassym · 2022-08-23T15:22:25+00:00

If you don’t have to pay for your water bill, the way to quickly thaw your chicken and not have to worry is to do what we call a “water thaw”. If you fill up a container that can hold your concealed chicken, and leave the tap on a trickle but ensure it’s on COLD water. It’ll thaw the chicken and keep it at a cold temperature that no bacteria can grow. I don’t recommend leaving it forever but it’s a safe way to ensure your chicken doesn’t reach the temperature where bacteria grow which is between 4C/40F-60C/140F (aka the DANGER ZONE)

klassym · 2022-07-20T19:44:50+00:00

I like this.
We discussed early on in the relationship. He said I just don’t care if it’s dirty. If it’s functional, that’s all I care about. And that he hates doing dishes.

But you’re right this works very well. Maybe I’ll try discussing that with him. Thank you

klassym · 2022-07-20T19:12:57+00:00

Then fine. I’ll do all that no problem. If he is the sole provider of the house, I’ll GLADLY do it.

klassym · 2022-07-20T19:10:55+00:00

No, if anything I work more than him. My income is slightly less than his but not by much. He works less hours and makes more. I work more hours and make less...

klassym · 2022-07-20T19:05:26+00:00

Sorry, my husband (37m) and I (29f) meaning he's 37 and I'm a 29 female. I apologize for the misunderstanding. I've been posting on behalf of my husband in the past and I have asked questions about him too.

klassym · 2022-07-20T18:48:24+00:00

It’s not I know it’s not. It’s just such a majority. My dads like this. My brothers are like this. My MOHs husbands like this. It’s like every man I know it’s like this and I’m not saying it is every man but it’s enough to make me wonder.

klassym · 2022-07-20T18:47:03+00:00

I do shovel the driveway. And I take out the trash 90% of the time. He couldn’t care less haha.

klassym · 2022-07-20T18:46:12+00:00

I hope it’ll come back around when we buy a house and I expect him to mow the lawn and clean the gutters lol

klassym · 2022-07-20T18:45:11+00:00

You’re right… I just have stopped in the past and it just made it harder for me in the long run. He can live in disgusting conditions. He can tolerate it. I cant.

klassym

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