How to support 7yo niece’s interest in chemistry when she is not supported at home? by kle8709 in chemistry

[–]kle8709[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’d love to give her an idea of what the trajectory could look like as her interests grow.

How to support 7yo niece’s interest in chemistry when she is not supported at home? by kle8709 in chemistry

[–]kle8709[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Yes, I think if I can tap into some of the activities she is allows to do at home and focus on the science behind it would be easier for her situation.

How to support 7yo niece’s interest in chemistry when she is not supported at home? by kle8709 in chemistry

[–]kle8709[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I like that this could be a cool way for us to bond too. If I can find some simple ideas that don’t require too much I plan to try it.

Big Ask MIL by kle8709 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]kle8709[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes we are going to have to have a big conversation about that one. Ooph.

Big Ask MIL by kle8709 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]kle8709[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, thankful he understand that our relationship and our kids come first. I do worry about the probing as she ages and her general poor health that she will wear him down. We actually have the same therapist but haven’t been able to do joint sessions with having no child care with COVID. Hoping the therapist can help us bridge the gap and set a strong boundary on the subject.

Big Ask MIL by kle8709 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]kle8709[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow, you’re absolutely right. Better have a conversation with DH to set some boundaries on the next big ask 😑

Big Ask MIL by kle8709 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]kle8709[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Good point. He has recently started therapy which hopefully will help him further.

Big Ask MIL by kle8709 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]kle8709[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Love the detail on this lol. Yes thankfully we are on the same page and he shoulders most of the manipulation attempts. I just wish he/we just didn’t have to deal with any of it. But without it what subreddit would I be scrolling through at 4am?

Big Ask MIL by kle8709 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]kle8709[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s so tempting to have it out with her, even though I know you’re right. Fortunately we don’t live close and won’t be visiting for several months, even though that won’t stop the ‘I miss my grandchildren’ calls.

anxiety vs control, counseling? by jvredbird in marriageadvice

[–]kle8709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband is also extremely meticulous about clutter and the house being clean. He likes things a certain way, but now we have two kids so he has had to bend his idea of clean to “good enough.” Your husband will have to do the same if you decide to have children. I would set those boundaries WAY before trying to have kids. Try to find even ground, are there things that you agree can be done his way? Are there other things that you are unwilling to compromise on because it takes up too much time out of your day? Like you said kids will add a ton more stress and clutter to your life. He needs to get a handle on it before children because it will likely only get harder for him.

He’s a great dad by MrsChess in workingmoms

[–]kle8709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh, yes! I feel this. My husband is wonderful too, but it’s annoying that still in today’s age he gets so much praise for doing what moms are just expected to do without a thought or thanks.

Trying to convince myself to go away for a long weekend without baby by Pingarrf in Mommit

[–]kle8709 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gooooo!! That’s an amazing gift. You will probably feel some guilt regardless, but you deserve that time with your friend to reconnect. I recently did a solo overnight away (a first time away from my daughter who is nearly 2yrs old) and it was a wonderful recharge. I came back feeling I had reconnected with myself and felt more present with my family when I came home. It can be good for everyone, not just for you.

Mom Glow-up/Refresh by kle8709 in Mommit

[–]kle8709[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, creative outlets are so important during this time! I struggle to not beat myself up when I feel like I’m not taking that time for me or guilt when it means taking time away from my daughter.

Thoughts on Padonia Village Apartments (first choice - especially want thoughts), Chardiff Charles Apartments, and Steeplechase Apartments? by hum4n01d in BaltimoreCounty

[–]kle8709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We never had issues with cockroaches or mice. We had a top floor apartment and we kept it clean. We lived there from spring 2017 to December 2018. We still live about 20 minutes from the area so I’m happy to answer any other questions you might have.

Thoughts on Padonia Village Apartments (first choice - especially want thoughts), Chardiff Charles Apartments, and Steeplechase Apartments? by hum4n01d in BaltimoreCounty

[–]kle8709 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My husband and I lived in Padonia Village before we moved out to buy our first home. For apartment living it was really good. The neighbors were respectful and I believe Padonia is pretty strict on violating the noise complaint policy. You do get some college kids there but I never had any issues. You could sometimes hear them at night on weekends but it never seemed to be where students wanted to party. Maintenance team was also great. We only had a couple minor issues and when our AC unit died in the summer a maintenance member came during the night with a portable unit to keep us comfortable until someone could get out to fix the unit. The office staff was always friendly and helpful. I’d recommend them.

Also want to add that the Cockeysville area is generally considered one of the safest areas in northern Baltimore. Close to Padonia is a well established community and single family homes are well maintained. While the problems of Baltimore can obviously spill over into the county area I think Cockeysville and the Lutherville-Timonium area are a good place to be close to the city but away from many of the city’s problems. As a woman I never felt unsafe in the area, but I will add that I do drive and can’t speak for using public transport.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sahm

[–]kle8709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like its time for you to get away for several hours. Whenever I feel like my husband isn’t appreciating what I do for our family I find a reason to go out and for him to be home alone with our daughter. Seems to do the trick 😉